{"id":19499,"date":"2018-06-05T10:16:33","date_gmt":"2018-06-05T10:16:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19499"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:04:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:04:38","slug":"caiste-e-agora-e-tempo-de-te-levantares","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/caiste-e-agora-e-tempo-de-te-levantares\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu ca\u00edste e agora \u00e9 hora de te levantares"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It started like a bright, warm, summer\u2019s day. He was charming and he made you feel like no other man ever had. Together, you shared important personal experiences and he seemed to be everything you had ever wanted. In the beginning, he was always there for you. He was always making you laugh and complimenting you on your beauty. He told you that he had never met a girl like you before and that he could see himself marrying you one day. Piece by piece, you became a part of his world\u2014the world of a narcissist.<\/p>\n<p>And without realizing it, the dark clouds began to roll in and slowly he became the drug that you couldn&#8217;t live without.<\/p>\n<p>When he wanted you, you had to be there. And when he needed you, you had to be there. But, more importantly, you wanted to be there because you cared for him and wanted to be there to look after him. However, if you couldn&#8217;t be there for him exactly when he called, he became angry. He would threaten you and others he knew were important to you and he would enjoy making you cry by calling you names, telling you that you were worthless, and that nobody else would ever want you.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when the small patters of rain began to fall.<\/p>\n<p>He would discard you for days at a time and then make you sit and listen to every detail of his latest intimate conquests. He explained to you that these relations with other girls were necessary due to you being unable to satisfy his needs, even though he was the one who had chosen to cut you off. You later found out that these &#8216;other girls&#8217; were more than just flings, that he was also in &#8216;committed&#8217; relationships with them. He twisted their minds too and in order to save him from the erupting explosion of emotion, you lied for him because you loved him that much.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, as nuvens de chuva transformaram-se numa trovoada. Os rel\u00e2mpagos come\u00e7aram e come\u00e7ou a entrar em p\u00e2nico e a procurar abrigo, mas de repente apercebeu-se de que estava ao ar livre, sem ter onde se esconder.<\/p>\n<p>Ele certificou-se de que estavas sempre errado e que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/odiar-fazer-sentir-culpa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tudo foi sempre culpa tua<\/a>. Ele esmagou-te de todas as formas poss\u00edveis e tentou fazer-te trope\u00e7ar em todas as oportunidades poss\u00edveis at\u00e9 que, eventualmente, ca\u00edste. Ca\u00edste na inunda\u00e7\u00e3o que se aproximava da tempestade que ele tinha criado.<\/p>\n<p>Mas lembra-te disto: n\u00e3o ca\u00edste por seres fraca, mas porque ele usou o teu amor por ele como uma arma contra ti para te derrubar.<\/p>\n<p>E quando as \u00e1guas da inunda\u00e7\u00e3o come\u00e7aram a baixar, apercebeste-te que estavas ajoelhada sozinha, porque ele nunca teve qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de estar l\u00e1 para te manter segura ou para te amar. Ele disse-te que eras tudo para ele, mas mentiu.<\/p>\n<p>E agora, no presente, est\u00e1 no seu ponto mais baixo. Sei que sentes que nunca vais encontrar outra pessoa t\u00e3o perfeita para ti como ele era. Algu\u00e9m que possa ser um amigo t\u00e3o bom para ti. Outra pessoa que a compreenda como ele a compreendia. Outra pessoa que te fa\u00e7a rir e sorrir como ele fazia.<\/p>\n<p>Mas vai conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>E at\u00e9 o encontrares, tens-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Come\u00e7a a perceber que \u00e9 perfeita e que a compreende. A luz da sua nova vida come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a irradiar de dentro de si, devido aos sorrisos que cria. Ajudar-se-\u00e1 a levantar-se do ch\u00e3o em que est\u00e1 atualmente ajoelhado e, com o tempo, aprender\u00e1 lentamente a amar a vida de novo. Vai ser dif\u00edcil e pode parecer que a viagem nunca vai acabar, mas um dia, algo vai mudar e vai acabar por sentir a primeira sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de al\u00edvio do seu pesadelo. E, a partir desse momento, tudo se tornar\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>E ent\u00e3o, um dia, vais encontr\u00e1-lo. O amor vai procurar-te e vai encontrar-te, e depois de tudo o que passaste, a vida vai finalmente dar-te o teu maior pr\u00e9mio. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-things-happen-meet-nice-guy-narcissistic-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ele ser\u00e1 perfeito para ti<\/a>. Ele ser\u00e1 o teu melhor amigo, compreender-te-\u00e1 melhor do que ningu\u00e9m e far\u00e1 com que nunca deixes de sorrir. Para ele, se deixares de sorrir, o seu mundo inteiro p\u00e1ra. Ele ser\u00e1 a pe\u00e7a final do teu puzzle e ser\u00e1 ele que finalmente te ajudar\u00e1 a erguer.<\/p>\n<p>No passado ca\u00edram, e agora \u00e9 altura de come\u00e7arem a erguer-se para o vosso futuro.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>by\u00a0Amy Frankland<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It started like a bright, warm, summer\u2019s day. He was charming and he made you feel like no other man ever had. 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