{"id":19512,"date":"2018-06-05T10:50:04","date_gmt":"2018-06-05T10:50:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19512"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:03:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:03:28","slug":"a-verdade-injusta-de-ser-o-bom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-injusta-de-ser-o-bom\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade injusta de ser \"o bom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Foi educado para ser correto, respeitoso, gentil e indulgente.<\/p>\n<p>O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 humilde, carinhoso, moral e sempre em busca.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re intelligent, educated, and exceptional at your job\u2014and anything else you&#8217;ve chosen to put your mind to.<\/p>\n<p>Your family is close and your friends know that they are included when you speak of \u2018the family\u2019. They know that you would do anything and everything for any one of them\u2014should they only ask.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been given all the building blocks in life to be seen as \u2018The Good One\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>A confian\u00e7a<br \/>\nO fiel<br \/>\nO simp\u00e1tico e emp\u00e1tico<br \/>\nA for\u00e7a<br \/>\nA beleza<br \/>\nO carism\u00e1tico e a luz<br \/>\nA motiva\u00e7\u00e3o<br \/>\nO doente<br \/>\nO perd\u00e3o e o riso<\/p>\n<p>But despite all of your glorious qualities that have helped lead you to your success, you&#8217;ve learned one very important lesson&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A VIDA \u00c9 MUITO DIF\u00cdCIL<\/p>\n<p>Because you didn&#8217;t get here easily. Did you? Being \u2018The Good One\u2019 didn&#8217;t make life easier\u2014it only made every step that much harder.<\/p>\n<p>Behind all of your victories, there are scars&#8230;<br \/>\nCicatrizes profundas e dolorosas que, por vezes, ainda permanecem, \u00e0 espera da oportunidade de serem reabertas.<\/p>\n<p>Becoming \u2018The Good One\u2019 was a process\u2014a long, endless journey which included being given the correct tools and having each tool ripped out of your hands and broken. It means you&#8217;ve been cursed at, lied to, cheated on, deceived and betrayed.<\/p>\n<p>Because the unfair truth to becoming \u2018The Good One\u2019 is that we must first experience every negative energy and poor-minded behavior that the human race can offer.<\/p>\n<p>We must be lied to\u2014to learn the value of honesty.<\/p>\n<p>We must be cheated on\u2014to feel how one person can selfishly destroy and devastate another by a single thoughtless act. Thus teaching us that fidelity and monogamy are a choice and worthy of being protected.<\/p>\n<p>We must be cursed at\u2014to learn that spoken words cannot be unsaid.<\/p>\n<p>We must be deceived\u2014to learn the comfort that comes with being able to trust another without question.<\/p>\n<p>We must be hated and abandoned\u2014to know what commitment and true unconditional love have the ability to offer us.<\/p>\n<p>No, being \u2018The Good One\u2019 didn&#8217;t come from birth and a naive upbringing of sunshine and roses. It didn\u2019t come with never having to experience strife, confrontation, or loss.<\/p>\n<p>It comes with strength to rise above what tries to break us. It comes as a choice to be better and more than what is expected of us. It starts with a decision in one&#8217;s heart and soul that is developed into being by our actions and experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Then, and only then, will you be able to see the label of \u2018The Good One\u2019 in the reflection of yourself in other people&#8217;s eyes. Because then it becomes your solo fight. Not theirs. Not anyone else&#8217;s. Yours. To do with what you have learned through repetitive HARD truths.<\/p>\n<p>You ARE \u2018The Good One\u2019 because you went through the darkness and didn&#8217;t let it consume you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You ARE \u2018The Good One\u2019 because you chose to rise above confrontation and responded in kindness and love&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You ARE \u2018The Good One\u2019 because you didn&#8217;t let the world break you when the weight of life was so suddenly upon you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You ARE \u2018The Good One\u2019 simply enough because you chose to be\u2026 and held onto that desire with every ounce of your being.<\/p>\n<p>So with that I applaud you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I celebrate you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Talvez quando todas as outras pessoas neste mundo est\u00e3o contra ti.<\/p>\n<p>I support you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>For in my eyes, you really are one of \u2018The Good Ones\u2019&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>by\u00a0K. B. 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