Claro que n\u00e3o. Mas fazem-no na mesma, e h\u00e1 muitos homens t\u00f3xicos por a\u00ed que usam dois pesos e duas medidas<\/span><\/a> nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es em seu benef\u00edcio.<\/p>\n Seria de esperar que, neste s\u00e9culo, as coisas mudassem e que a duplicidade de crit\u00e9rios fosse uma coisa do passado.<\/p>\n Mas, infelizmente, h\u00e1 sinais de alerta para este tipo de comportamento em todo o mundo.<\/p>\n Por isso, tenha cuidado e veja os sinais t\u00f3xicos de padr\u00f5es duplos nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es que nunca deve tolerar.<\/p>\n Lista de padr\u00f5es duplos nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Quando se tem confian\u00e7a em a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a>, other male or female friendships of your significant other won\u2019t be an issue.<\/p>\n A principal diferen\u00e7a entre homens e mulheres neste dom\u00ednio \u00e9 que as mulheres s\u00e3o rotuladas de ciumentas e loucas por pensarem que pode estar a acontecer algo que ultrapassa a amizade.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, os homens procuram a compreens\u00e3o porque se sentem amea\u00e7ados por toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Your partner shouldn\u2019t ask you to ditch your guy friends just because the two of you are exclusive now.<\/strong><\/p>\n He should understand that your male friends were in your life long before him and if you wanted to have something more than friendship, you already would\u2019ve.<\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s not okay for him to ask you to tolerate something he is unable to. Protect your friendships and don\u2019t risk losing a good friend for someone who clearly doesn\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n A good partner understands that you’ve had a long life before him and during that time you’ve cultivated many friendships.<\/p>\n Some of them are with men who ended up being among your closest friends. If he trusts you, he knows you’d never do anything to endanger your relationship.<\/p>\n If he doesn’t, he’ll pressure you to stop seeing your guy friends.<\/p>\n It’s up to you to decide who gets to control your life and your friend group. And that person should be you and you only, so make it known.<\/p>\n It\u2019s funny how in this day and age, women are looked at differently and called bitches just because they dare to stand for what they believe in.<\/p>\n O homem que te chama fala-barato e quer restringir a tua liberdade de express\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9, definitivamente, o homem certo para ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n A \u00fanica opini\u00e3o que lhe interessa \u00e9 a dele e n\u00e3o tem qualquer interesse em ouvir o que tem para dizer.<\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m h\u00e1 homens que se sentem intimidados por serem fortes, mulheres inteligentes<\/b><\/a> e n\u00e3o \u00e9 com homens assim que deves sair.<\/strong><\/p>\n And you need to realize that those men aren’t macho and confident; they’re weak and they’re cowards.<\/p>\n They feel threatened by a woman who’s powerful and opinionated, and they make her feel bad about it to boost their own fragile ego.<\/p>\n Recognize a weak man when he tries to diminish a strong woman’s flame. A real man builds his woman up and pushes her to be her best self.<\/strong><\/p>\n Um homem fraco deita-a abaixo, f\u00e1-la sentir-se mal por ser forte e chama-lhe cabra.<\/p>\n I think it’s time this charade stops and the only way that’s ever going to happen is when each woman speaks up.<\/p>\n But if a woman had to admit it openly, she\u2019d be slut-shamed. She would be labeled as \u201ceasy\u201d or called all sorts of names.<\/p>\n Yes, this still happens. It doesn\u2019t seem quite fair, does it? It\u2019s because it isn\u2019t and women should be able to decide who they sleep with and when, just like men do.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you\u2019re dating someone who\u2019s putting you down because your number of past intimate partners is high (and\/or current for non-exclusive, open relationships), you\u2019re dealing with the wrong man.<\/p>\n Isto nunca deve ser um problema. A sua vida no quarto ou o seu passado nunca devem ser usados contra si.<\/strong><\/p>\n Some find love with their high school sweetheart and some find it later on. Your number will probably depend on that and that\u2019s not something you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t tolerate that kind of behavior.Don’t ever let a man tell you you’re a slut for having had the exact same number of intimate partners as him. Be proud of your choices and stand behind them no matter what. If he has a problem with that, he’s a prick with no respect and no morals. You need um homem de verdade<\/span><\/a>, and that’s not him.<\/p>\n It\u2019s more than obvious that men and women look at things differently, but nobody should be judged for what they do in their spare time.<\/p>\n If a man you\u2019re dating expects you to understand him being a gamer, he should understand your urge to go shopping, on a girl\u2019s night out, mountain climbing, or whatever your favorite pastime is.<\/strong><\/p>\n Remind him that you don\u2019t get his urge to play games, but you respect it. In the same way, he should respect your interests, too, and let you enjoy your life on your own terms.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll celebrate each other\u2019s victories and never feel intimidated by the other\u2019s success.<\/p>\n That is, providing that you\u2019re never too busy to sustain a relationship and find time for each other, because what\u2019s the point of being in a relationship if you never see your partner?<\/p>\n No entanto, se a rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o for saud\u00e1vel e se encontrar com algu\u00e9m t\u00f3xico<\/b><\/a>A duplicidade de crit\u00e9rios ser\u00e1 bastante evidente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Your partner won\u2019t be the wind beneath your wings that helps you fly. He\u2019ll be the one pinning you to the ground.<\/p>\n Ele f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente competente ou bom para ter sucesso.<\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly the thing you shouldn\u2019t tolerate. Be with someone who always pushes you to do more and be more because he sees all the potential and all the greatness within you.<\/p>\n Be with someone who doesn\u2019t see your success as his failure.<\/p>\n Defender-se a si pr\u00f3pria e o seu direito a trabalhar tanto como os homens e a ser igualmente respeitada abre caminho para que as jovens mulheres do mundo encontrem o seu caminho e n\u00e3o tenham de suportar a porcaria que voc\u00ea e o resto de n\u00f3s fazem.<\/p>\n Coisas como cozinhar e limpar devem envolver ambos os parceiros.<\/p>\n O mesmo deve ser feito com os dias de descanso e ambos os parceiros t\u00eam o mesmo direito a eles.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 acima de ningu\u00e9m e o tempo em que as mulheres atendiam a todas as necessidades de um homem j\u00e1 l\u00e1 vai. Azar, malta!<\/strong><\/p>\n Duas pessoas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o parceiros e ambos t\u00eam de investir na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e fazer o esfor\u00e7o necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n So, take turns in doing everything, be both hardworking and lazy together. If he doesn\u2019t agree with that, teach him how to take care of himself by leaving him all on his own<\/p>\n Quando um homem \u00e9 deixado \u00e0 sua sorte, tendo de cozinhar, limpar e tratar das tarefas quotidianas sozinho, s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o se apercebe do esfor\u00e7o que as mulheres dedicam a tudo o que fazem.<\/strong><\/p>\n Damn straight we deserve to have our lazy days where we don’t have to dress up for anyone, impress anyone’s friends, and act in a way that pleases those around.<\/p>\n Merecemos os nossos dias de folga mais do que os homens, devido \u00e0 quantidade de esfor\u00e7o que colocamos em tudo para sermos tratadas com metade do respeito.<\/p>\n On the other hand, he is unable to understand your need to do the same with your female friends. It\u2019s hypocritical, to say the least.<\/p>\n If he expects you to trust him when he\u2019s out sair com amigos<\/a>, clubbing, and partying with all those other women around him, he should trust you with regard to men, too.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not okay to have different sets of standards for you and for him. Once again, let me stress the importance of the word equality in a relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n If he gets to go out and let loose, so do you. If he gets to party until the wee hours of the night, so do you! No apologies. No pressure to be ”better” and no nothing.<\/p>\n Apenas dois parceiros que desfrutam da sua vida de uma forma igual e justa. Ao primeiro vislumbre de que ele sugere o contr\u00e1rio, tem de lhe mostrar a porta e <\/span>nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll even follow up that long stare with random comments about how her butt looks nice or how beautiful she is.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if an attractive man passes by and you give him nothing more than a gaze, most men won\u2019t even think twice about calling you out on it.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll be unable to understand why you have the necessity to check out some random guy.<\/p>\n Hello? He\u2019s done the same exact thing just the other day to a woman he barely knows in your presence. Don\u2019t tolerate his double standards.<\/strong><\/p>\n Explique-lhe que ele fez o mesmo e que voc\u00eas ultrapassaram isso e que, se ele conseguir controlar os seus olhos errantes, voc\u00ea tamb\u00e9m conseguir\u00e1.<\/p>\n The other solution might be accepting that checking somebody out doesn\u2019t have any connection with your relationship or mutual feelings.<\/p>\n Reparar nos outros \u00e9 uma coisa natural.<\/p>\n Chasing after somebody else while in a relationship is completely different, more serious, and unforgivable, and it shouldn\u2019t be confused with something as simple as a olhar errante<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n However, some people are able to stay in good relationships with their exes, but that relationship should never be more important than the one you\u2019re in now.<\/strong><\/p>\n Your new partner shouldn\u2019t feel like they come last and your ex first. There\u2019s a reason they\u2019re an ex.<\/p>\n But if your partner\u2019s using double standards here, he\u2019ll excuse his contact with his ex but harshly judge yours.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll blame you, and you\u2019re probably going to have a lot of fights that include the ex-factor.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let him get away with it. What goes for you, goes for him too.<\/strong><\/p>\n Talk openly. Don\u2019t let your exes dictate your current relationship. You both should put your current relationship first.<\/p>\n Have you had enough of being treated differently simply because you’re a woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n If so, it’s time to recognize that, speak up, and start making a change.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time to stop putting up with that guy friend who’ll ”jokingly” say something that is totally sexist, long-term relationships where every single guy thinks he has the right to give input on your clothing choices and pressure you to be a stay-at-home woman.<\/em><\/p>\n It’s a very bad thing when your man makes you feel like the less capable partner and imposes those toxic double standards on you.<\/p>\n As rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas t\u00eam a ver com o facto de nos esfor\u00e7armos mutuamente para sermos a melhor vers\u00e3o de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e de nos elevarmos um ao outro.<\/p>\n Who made him the boss of you in the first place? Am I right? You’re the one who needs to show him what goes and what won’t fly.<\/p>\n1. When men have female friends, they expect you to look at it as something quite normal and acceptable, but you having male friends doesn\u2019t go so well with him.<\/h2>\n
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\nN\u00e3o se trata apenas de uma quest\u00e3o de dois pesos e duas medidas nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es, mas tem tamb\u00e9m tudo a ver com a confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n2. When men are strongly opinionated, they\u2019re called driven, macho and confident. When women are strongly opinionated, they\u2019re called bitches.<\/h2>\n
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\n\u00c9 uma grande diferen\u00e7a. Como se a Idade M\u00e9dia estivesse de volta e as mulheres devessem ser impedidas de dizer o que pensam de forma direta e sem rodeios.<\/p>\n3. Quando os homens t\u00eam um n\u00famero mais elevado de parceiras \u00edntimas s\u00e3o aplaudidos, mas as mulheres com um n\u00famero semelhante s\u00e3o envergonhadas.<\/h2>\n
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\nWhen a man has seen more naked female bodies than he can count, he is a hero among his friends. He is a hot-shot and that\u2019s perfectly normal.<\/p>\n
\nEste tipo de comportamento \u00e9 terr\u00edvel e s\u00f3 nos faz recuar no tempo.<\/p>\n4. When a man spends his entire day playing video games, that\u2019s totally okay, but when a woman spends her entire day shopping, she\u2019s superficial.<\/h2>\n
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\nThe thing is shopping, just as video games, are good pastime activities \u2013 something you do to relax and have some fun after all those hectic days.<\/p>\n5. When a woman works long hours she\u2019s scorned for being a careerist, and when a man does the same he\u2019s hardworking and praiseworthy.<\/h2>\n
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\nThere\u2019s nothing wrong with working hard and being ambitious. In a healthy relationship, partners will support and back each other up.<\/p>\n6. When a man spends his entire day doing nothing wearing his boxers shorts, it\u2019s cute. When a woman does the same wearing her PJs, she\u2019s lazy, sloppy, and entirely neglecting herself and her man.<\/h2>\n
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\nIsto tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 algo que deve ser deixado no passado. Nos dias de hoje, homens e mulheres devem ser iguais em tudo, incluindo nas tarefas quotidianas.<\/p>\n7. Quando ele passa uma noite na cidade com rapazes, voc\u00ea deve mostrar compreens\u00e3o, mas quando voc\u00ea sai com raparigas, ele mostra ci\u00fames, raiva e frustra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n
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\nTalk about double standards in relationships. He\u2019s looking for understanding every time he\u2019s out with his male friends.<\/p>\n8. When it\u2019s okay for a guy to have a wandering eye, but not for a woman to have one too.<\/h2>\n
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\nQuando passa uma mulher atraente e sensual, nove em cada dez homens examinam-na de alto a baixo, e n\u00e3o v\u00eaem qualquer problema nisso.<\/p>\n9. When he stays in contact with his ex, that\u2019s okay, but when you do the same, it\u2019s a lack of loyalty.<\/h2>\n
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\nTrazer o seu ex para a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa complicada. Poucas pessoas conseguem lidar com isso e causa confus\u00e3o desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\nConsidera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n
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\nNow that you\u2019ve red this article ask yourself a few questions: Est\u00e1 a tolerar a dualidade de crit\u00e9rios na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/p>\n
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