{"id":19607,"date":"2020-09-07T09:48:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T09:48:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19607"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:19:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:19:32","slug":"esta-a-perde-la-e-nem-sequer-se-apercebe-disso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-a-perde-la-e-nem-sequer-se-apercebe-disso\/","title":{"rendered":"Est\u00e1s a perd\u00ea-la e nem sequer te apercebes disso"},"content":{"rendered":"

She is still there but that doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019s going to stay. She is settling now for whatever you give her. And let\u2019s face it\u2014you are not giving her much: sporadic texts here and there, replying to her texts only when it\u2019s convenient, canceling your plans last minute, spending just enough time with her and not investing too much.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re there and you are not there at the same time. You give her just enough to hold on to you. And she is for now. Maybe not exactly you but the idea of you, of what you could be, of what the two of you could have. She is holding on to the potential of what could be if you would just stop standing in the way of your happiness.<\/p>\n

You are giving bits and pieces to someone who deserves everything and that\u2019s your biggest mistake. You will lose her before you know it if you keep this up. She will get tired of being last on your list while she has been putting you first the entire time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando ela ficar completamente exausta de dar e n\u00e3o receber nada em troca, perd\u00ea-la-\u00e1 para sempre. O amor \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos e ela vai aperceber-se de que tudo est\u00e1 a vir do lado dela. Ela vai perceber que n\u00e3o tem mais nada para dar porque j\u00e1 deu tudo. Ela tentou tudo e n\u00e3o chegou a lado nenhum.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Ela vai desistir, mesmo que isso lhe parta o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> She will be stronger than herself and stronger than everything that\u2019s holding her attached to you. She will break those strings because there will come a moment in which she will realize she is alone even though you are apparently there. Those glimpses of happiness won\u2019t be able to diminish all the sadness you are bringing her.<\/p>\n

I know you think she is there to stay no matter what. But even she has her limits. She can\u2019t put up with everything. This \u2018one step forward, two steps back\u2019 you have going on will push her away. Lack of love, attention and affection will be something she will have to stop forgiving you for.<\/p>\n

Though you never did ask for her forgiveness, did you? You took that for granted alongside with everything else she was giving you. You acted as if her putting up with your shit was the most normal thing in the world. That\u2019s why you are not even aware that it\u2019s all coming to an end.<\/p>\n

She will stop hoping. She will stop waiting. Instead, she will start paying attention to what\u2019s going on now and stop deluding herself about the future. She will see you for who you are instead of who you could be. And the moment that happens, you will lose her for good.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

I know you will realize everything when it\u2019s too late. You will miss her. You will regret every bad thing you said and every moment of joy you have stolen from her. You will try to reach out, but your calls will be left unanswered. You will text ,but her reply will never come. You will beg for her time, but she won\u2019t have any left for you.<\/p>\n

And no, she won\u2019t be getting even with you or doing the same things you used to do to her to hurt you. This will have nothing to do with you anymore. She will simply decide to put herself first. She will resist getting in touch with you because she knows it will only bring her pain.<\/p>\n

Ela j\u00e1 tentou tudo. Investiu o seu tempo e energia em algo que nunca ser\u00e1. Ficou mais tempo do que devia, na esperan\u00e7a de que tu voltasses e finalmente a visses e apreciasses todo o amor que ela tem por ti. Quando ela decidir ir embora, n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 mais volta.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, that won\u2019t mean she is over you, that will mean she is on her way to getting there. She will come\u00e7ar a sarar<\/a>. Aprender\u00e1 a apaixonar-se novamente por si pr\u00f3pria. Ela vai reconstruir a sua vida. Descobrir\u00e1 que \u00e9 mais forte do que alguma vez se julgou.<\/p>\n

She will still love you but she will learn by then that isn\u2019t enough. She will never go back to something one-sided. She will never again settle for anything half assed, especially love. She won\u2019t go back because the tears rolling down her face hurt less than those she had while she was with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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She is still there but that doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019s going to stay. She is settling now for whatever you give her. And let\u2019s face it\u2014you are not giving her much: sporadic texts here and there, replying to her texts only when it\u2019s convenient, canceling your plans last minute, spending just enough time with her and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":121366,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19607","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Are-Losing-Her-And-You-Are-Not-Even-Aware-Of-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19607","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19607"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19607\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121366"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19607"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19607"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19607"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}