{"id":196422,"date":"2025-03-29T14:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-03-29T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=196422"},"modified":"2025-03-26T13:31:34","modified_gmt":"2025-03-26T12:31:34","slug":"25-coisas-que-nunca-se-devem-dizer-aos-pais-de-um-so-filho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/25-coisas-que-nunca-se-devem-dizer-aos-pais-de-um-so-filho\/","title":{"rendered":"27 Things You Should Never Say To Parents Raising An Only Child"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oh, the joys of parenthood! As a parent of an only child, you’ve likely heard it all\u2014those well-intentioned but sometimes infuriating comments that make you want to roll your eyes so hard<\/strong>, they might just get stuck that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s as if having a single child makes you a magnet for unsolicited advice and odd assumptions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, let’s dive into this cheeky list of 27 things you should never say to parents of only one child.<\/strong> Because sometimes, the best defense against ignorance is a good laugh and a clever comeback!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. “Won\u2019t they be lonely?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Lonely? Are you kidding? Just because there’s no sibling in the picture doesn\u2019t mean my child is living in solitary confinement. In fact, they probably have more playdates lined up than I ever did as a kid. You see, being an only child isn’t a sentence to a life of solitude. They’ve got friends, cousins, and possibly more quality time with the parents\u2014so loneliness? Not really a thing here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Curiosamente, este pressuposto de que um filho \u00fanico est\u00e1 condenado a uma vida de solid\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem em conta os c\u00edrculos sociais vibrantes que muitas vezes constroem. As crian\u00e7as s\u00e3o incrivelmente adapt\u00e1veis e socializam de formas que muitas vezes nos surpreendem a n\u00f3s, adultos. Aprendem a fazer amigos rapidamente e a manter essas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And let’s not forget the countless activities that engage their interests. Whether it\u2019s sports, arts, or any other hobby, they find ways to connect with peers. So, next time you\u2019re tempted to ask about loneliness, maybe consider all the vibrant community and companionship options they have. Trust me, my child\u2019s social life is far from barren.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. “You\u2019ll regret not giving them a sibling.”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Regret? That’s a heavy word, isn\u2019t it? I mean, it’s not like I’m depriving my kid of oxygen here. The decision to have one child is often a well-thought-out choice, balancing emotional, financial, and personal considerations. It’s not some flippant whim that will lead to a lifetime of regret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sure, siblings can be great. I won’t deny that. But there are countless families with multiple children who don\u2019t necessarily have Disney-style sibling relationships. And here’s a secret: many parents of only children are quite content with the dynamic they have. The bond is something special, and it doesn’t need another child to be complete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, when you suggest I might regret not having another, maybe keep in mind that every family\u2019s happiness looks different. Regret is such a personal emotion, and assuming its presence is like peering into a crystal ball you don\u2019t actually have. Trust that I know what’s best for my family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. “They must be so spoiled!”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Perhaps you\u2019ve mistaken generosity for indulgence. Just because my child doesn\u2019t have a sibling competing for attention doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re showered with unchecked gifts and privileges. In fact, teaching gratitude and responsibility is top of the agenda in our house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sure, they might get a few extra presents during the holidays or birthdays, but that doesn\u2019t automatically equate to being spoiled. Sharing is learned through social interactions, not just through having siblings. Many only children grow up understanding the value of what they have and are more than willing to share with friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So next time you think \u2018spoiled,\u2019 maybe consider the balanced upbringing many only children experience. They learn early on that life isn\u2019t just about them, and often develop strong social skills that defy the spoiled stereotype. It\u2019s more about the values instilled by the parents than the number of children in the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 31 Traits Of People Who Were Spoiled As Children According To Psychology<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. “Who will take care of you when you’re older?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Ah, the future caregiver concern\u2014a classic! It\u2019s like people think we\u2019re raising a nurse instead of a child. Yes, having more kids might increase the odds of support later in life, but it’s not a guarantee. Many children with siblings still face these challenges alone or with little assistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Raising a child with the expectation they\u2019ll be my future caregiver is not the plan. My retirement strategy doesn\u2019t hinge on their future address. Besides, there are countless ways to plan for old age that don\u2019t involve burdening your offspring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So while ensuring our children are compassionate and caring individuals is important, planning for future care involves a whole lot more than simply counting kids. And honestly, it\u2019s a bit unfair to saddle a child with that kind of expectation. Let\u2019s focus on raising them to be happy and self-sufficient first and foremost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. “Aren\u2019t they bored at home?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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My child\u2019s calendar is probably busier than mine. Between school projects, extracurricular activities, and playdates, they\u2019re definitely not lounging around in boredom. The real challenge is keeping up with their bustling schedule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kids today have access to an endless stream of entertainment and learning opportunities. The myth that only children sit in a quiet room playing tic-tac-toe with themselves is laughably outdated. They\u2019re as engaged and entertained as any child with siblings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. “They’ll miss having someone to fight with.”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Oh, the sibling squabbles\u2014the stuff of family legends! But let\u2019s be real, conflicts can be overrated. Sure, there are life lessons in those battles, but there are countless ways for an only child to learn negotiation and conflict resolution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My child isn\u2019t missing out on anything crucial by not having a sibling to bicker with. They encounter disagreements at school, with friends, and even with parents. These opportunities teach them how to handle conflicts just as effectively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, the absence of sibling rivalry often means a more peaceful home environment. So when someone suggests my child is losing out by not having a built-in sparring partner, I can\u2019t help but smile. They\u2019re learning to navigate the world\u2019s disagreements just fine, sans the sibling drama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. “Do they get along with others?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Being an only child doesn\u2019t come with a sticker that says “socially awkward.” In fact, many only children develop excellent social skills precisely because they engage regularly with peers outside the family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sem irm\u00e3os, tornam-se frequentemente h\u00e1beis a criar amizades e a manter esses la\u00e7os. Aprendem a partilhar, a comunicar e a ter empatia com os amigos em v\u00e1rios contextos. A ideia de que teriam dificuldades a n\u00edvel social \u00e9 mais um mito do que uma realidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, rest assured, my child navigates social interactions with the same ease as any child with siblings. They\u2019re not isolated or inept at connecting with others. In many cases, they\u2019re agile social butterflies, flitting from one friend to another with ease and charm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. “You\u2019re not a real parent until you have at least two!”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Not a real parent? That\u2019s a laugh! Last I checked, being a parent isn\u2019t measured by quantity but by love, care, and the occasional sleepless night. Having one child doesn\u2019t make my experiences any less valid or intense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parenthood is a unique journey for everyone, and the number of children isn\u2019t a badge of honor. Whether you have one, two, or ten, the parental challenges and triumphs are real and deeply felt. The sleepless nights, the milestones, the worries\u2014they\u2019re universal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When someone implies I\u2019m not a full-fledged member of the parent club, I take it with a grain of salt. My parenting journey is just as rich and rewarding, thank you very much. The love I have for my child isn\u2019t diluted by their solo status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. “Do you think you\u2019re being selfish?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Deciding to have one child is often rooted in thoughtful decision-making, considering what\u2019s best for the family as a whole. It\u2019s not about hoarding love or resources for oneself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parents of one often focus on providing a well-rounded, stable environment,<\/a> allocating resources for quality experiences, education, and personal growth. These are choices made with care and responsibility, not selfishness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s crucial to appreciate that every family is different, and what might seem like selfishness from the outside is often a carefully balanced family dynamic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. “Why don\u2019t you just have another one?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Just have another one? As if it\u2019s as simple as picking up an extra carton of milk at the store. Adding another child is a significant decision, involving finances, lifestyle changes, and personal readiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For many, the choice to have one is based on what\u2019s feasible and comfortable. It\u2019s not about laziness or fear of commitment, but a mindful decision about family dynamics and resources. More isn\u2019t always better, especially when it comes to raising a family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While having multiple children is wonderful for many, one isn\u2019t a consolation prize. It\u2019s about what works for each family, and that\u2019s a decision not to be taken lightly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. “Isn\u2019t it sad for them?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Just because my child doesn\u2019t have a sibling doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re wallowing in misery. Life is full of joy, adventures, and connections, and they\u2019re living it to the fullest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They have access to rich experiences, friendships, and family interactions that fill their life with happiness. The idea that having no siblings equals sadness is simply outdated. Life isn\u2019t about the number of siblings but the quality of relationships and experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, kids are incredibly resourceful. They find joy in the smallest things, and the world is their oyster. So, let\u2019s put this ‘sadness’ myth to rest and celebrate the vibrant lives many only children lead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. “What if they turn out selfish?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Os filhos \u00fanicos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o mais propensos ao ego\u00edsmo do que os que t\u00eam irm\u00e3os. De facto, muitas crian\u00e7as desenvolvem uma forte empatia e generosidade atrav\u00e9s da conviv\u00eancia com diversos grupos sociais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parents of singletons often teach sharing, compassion, and teamwork with intent and focus. These values are instilled in everyday interactions, not just sibling dynamics. The absence of siblings doesn\u2019t equate to an absence of moral grounding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. “They must be shy or introverted.”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Estas carater\u00edsticas t\u00eam pouco a ver com o facto de ser filho \u00fanico e mais com a personalidade individual. Muitos filhos \u00fanicos s\u00e3o extrovertidos e confiantes, prosperando em ambientes sociais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being the sole focus of their parents often means they\u2019re encouraged in self-expression and social engagement. They learn to navigate different social groups and settings effectively, often becoming leaders in their circles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every child is unique, and their social demeanor is shaped by many factors beyond the number of siblings. Don\u2019t pigeonhole them based on outdated stereotypes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. “They never learn to share, do they?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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My child\u2019s got that down to an art. Just because they don\u2019t have a sibling to constantly swap toys with doesn\u2019t mean sharing goes out the window.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many only children learn to share through playdates, school, and extracurricular activities. They understand the value of sharing and often do so with enthusiasm, not reluctance. It\u2019s a fundamental social skill, and trust me, they\u2019re mastering it just fine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. “Isn’t it hard for them to make friends?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Os filhos \u00fanicos s\u00e3o h\u00e1beis em formar e manter amizades, muitas vezes porque procuram ativamente liga\u00e7\u00f5es sociais fora da fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sem irm\u00e3os, desenvolvem frequentemente amizades fortes e profundas e aprendem a cultivar estas rela\u00e7\u00f5es com cuidado. Envolvem-se em diversas actividades sociais, aperfei\u00e7oando a sua capacidade de se relacionar com os outros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re out there engaging, connecting, and building friendships just like any other kid. And often, they do it with a flair that\u2019s all their own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. “Don\u2019t they crave a sibling?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Sure, they might be curious about what it\u2019s like, but it\u2019s not a desperate longing. Many only children are content with the family dynamic they have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They form meaningful relationships with friends, cousins, and even pets, which fill their social and emotional needs. The notion that they\u2019re incomplete without a sibling is outdated and doesn\u2019t reflect the reality of their happy lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, while they might occasionally wonder, it\u2019s not a gnawing void. They find joy and fulfillment in the relationships they have, and that\u2019s what truly counts in their world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. “You’ll change your mind soon.”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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The choice to have one child is often a carefully considered decision, not a passing phase. It\u2019s based on what works best for our family, and that\u2019s not likely to change on a whim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Life circumstances, personal preferences, and family dynamics play crucial roles in this choice. It\u2019s not about indecision or lack of commitment, but a firm understanding of what feels right for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, while life is full of surprises, this decision isn\u2019t one made lightly. The next time you predict a change of heart, remember the thoughtful process behind choosing one child. It\u2019s a decision as stable as it is intentional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. “Wouldn\u2019t they love a playmate?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Sure, but that doesn\u2019t mean they need a sibling for that. My child has plenty of friends and playmates who fill that role splendidly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They engage with peers at school, in the neighborhood, and during activities, ensuring they have rich social interactions. The need for playmates is met in various ways that don\u2019t involve a sibling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re surrounded by friends who make their playtime lively and fulfilling. No sibling is required for that role!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. “Do you worry they\u2019ll lack family support?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Um filho \u00fanico goza frequentemente de uma rede forte e solid\u00e1ria de fam\u00edlia alargada, amigos e comunidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Family support isn\u2019t solely about siblings; it\u2019s about the connections and bonds formed with family members, friends, and mentors. My child has a web of support that\u2019s rich and nurturing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So while they may not have siblings, they\u2019re not without support. They\u2019re embraced by a loving family and community that provides the guidance and care they need. The absence of siblings doesn\u2019t equate to a lack of support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. “Isn’t it exhausting for you?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Parenthood is always a mix of exhaustion and joy, regardless of the number of children. Having one child doesn\u2019t mean parenting is any less demanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gerir o trabalho, a casa e a parentalidade \u00e9 um ato de equil\u00edbrio, quer se tenha um filho ou mais. Os desafios \u00fanicos de educar um filho \u00fanico trazem consigo o seu pr\u00f3prio tipo de exaust\u00e3o, \u00e9 certo, mas tamb\u00e9m recompensas \u00fanicas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One child or more, it\u2019s a labor of love that\u2019s rewarding in its own right. Exhaustion is just a part of the package deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

21. “Do you feel pressured to have more?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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There\u2019s societal pressure, but it\u2019s not something that sways our family\u2019s decisions. The choice to have one child is personal and made with careful consideration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While well-meaning comments and societal norms might suggest otherwise, it\u2019s important to focus on what feels right for us. That\u2019s what truly matters in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despite the pressure, the decision remains rooted in our family\u2019s unique dynamics and needs. Letting external pressures dictate our family choices isn\u2019t on the agenda. Our focus is on what brings our family happiness and balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

22. “Are you worried about their future?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Preocupado com o futuro? Naturalmente, mas n\u00e3o mais do que qualquer outro progenitor. Todos os pais querem o melhor para os seus filhos, e planear o futuro faz parte disso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having one child allows us to concentrate resources, attention, and planning on their future, ensuring they have the support they need. We focus on providing them with the tools and opportunities<\/a> for a bright future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Embora o futuro seja incerto, o nosso objetivo continua a ser o mesmo: preparar o nosso filho para o mundo que o espera. A preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 universal, mas tamb\u00e9m o \u00e9 o amor e a prepara\u00e7\u00e3o que dedicamos ao seu futuro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

23. “Don’t you think they\u2019ll be overprotected?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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It\u2019s a balancing act, just like with any child. We\u2019re mindful of the fine line between protection and independence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Only children can indeed receive more focused attention, but it doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re cloistered. They\u2019re encouraged to explore, learn, and grow independently, building resilience along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s about guiding them, not sheltering them from every bump in the road. They\u2019re learning to navigate the world with confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

24. “Do you think they\u2019ll struggle with independence?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Not really. Being an only child often means they learn to be self-reliant and independent<\/a> from a young age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re accustomed to making decisions, solving problems, and entertaining themselves, all of which foster independence. These skills are honed as they navigate life\u2019s challenges solo. They learn to stand on their own two feet with confidence and poise, ready to tackle the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

25. “You must have more money to spare.”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Os pressupostos financeiros sobre as fam\u00edlias com um filho podem ser enganadores. Embora possa parecer que ter um filho reduz as despesas, a realidade pode ser mais matizada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parents might choose to invest differently, such as allocating more resources toward education, extracurricular activities, or family experiences. Financial priorities vary, and having one child doesn’t automatically equate to surplus resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As fam\u00edlias com um filho concentram-se frequentemente em proporcionar experi\u00eancias de qualidade, o que pode implicar um compromisso financeiro significativo. \u00c9 fundamental compreender que as situa\u00e7\u00f5es financeiras s\u00e3o pessoais e diversas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

26. “Aren\u2019t you worried they won\u2019t know how to share attention?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Spoiler alert: life is full of opportunities to practice patience and take turns. Whether it\u2019s in the classroom, on the soccer field, or during family gatherings, my child isn\u2019t growing up in a vacuum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because they don\u2019t have a sibling doesn\u2019t mean they believe the world revolves around them. In fact, they\u2019re learning how to navigate group dynamics and split attention like a pro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So no, we\u2019re not worried. They\u2019ll be just fine when they\u2019re not the center of the universe\u2014because, surprise, they already know they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

27. “Isn\u2019t it unfair to them not to have a sibling to grow up with?”<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Unfair? Let\u2019s talk about fairness. What\u2019s fair is giving a child a loving, supportive environment, regardless of how many siblings they have\u2014or don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What some see as a missing sibling, we see as space for deeper connection, more individualized attention, and a calm(er) household dynamic. There\u2019s no universal rulebook that says siblings equal happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Only children grow up surrounded by love, friendships, and enriching experiences. They\u2019re not being deprived\u2014they\u2019re simply living a different, equally beautiful kind of childhood.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Oh, the joys of parenthood! As a parent of an only child, you’ve likely heard it all\u2014those well-intentioned but sometimes infuriating comments that make you want to roll your eyes so hard, they might just get stuck that way. It’s as if having a single child makes you a magnet for unsolicited advice and odd…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":196456,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-196422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/25-Things-You-Should-Never-Say-To-Parents-Of-Only-One-Child-1024x532.jpeg",1024,532,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/196422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=196422"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/196422\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":215807,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/196422\/revisions\/215807"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/196456"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=196422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=196422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=196422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}