{"id":1972,"date":"2020-07-25T11:10:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T11:10:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1972"},"modified":"2022-08-04T09:22:56","modified_gmt":"2022-08-04T09:22:56","slug":"as-femeas-alfa-lidam-com-as-separacoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-femeas-alfa-lidam-com-as-separacoes\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que as mulheres alfa lidam com as separa\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o nos deixemos enganar pela ideia de que as mulheres alfa s\u00e3o poupadas a rela\u00e7\u00f5es de merda e a separa\u00e7\u00f5es m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso um homem forte para lidar com uma f\u00eamea alfa e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 muitos por a\u00ed capazes de a acompanhar.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s way easier to settle for a woman who won\u2019t challenge him as much as the alpha female will then to work his ass off to be on the same level as she is.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not rare for men to be scared of such a strong female or to sometimes feel insecure around her. The problem pops up when they don\u2019t want to work it out but rather choose to break up.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that an alpha female deals with breakup a bit differently than other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of whether she is the one to leave or she is the one that\u2019s being left, her behavior remains pretty much the same.<\/p>\n<p>O mesmo acontece se ela for tratada decentemente ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o ou se o seu ex decidir atirar-lhe pedras.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96797\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/brunette-woman-in-black-and-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mulher morena com vestido preto e branco sem mangas\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/brunette-woman-in-black-and-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/brunette-woman-in-black-and-white-sleeveless-dress-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/brunette-woman-in-black-and-white-sleeveless-dress-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/brunette-woman-in-black-and-white-sleeveless-dress-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She already knew she\u2019s a bitch. His words won\u2019t hurt her nor will she be offended.<\/p>\n<p>OK, she might react to them or not, but she won\u2019t be hurt by anything he says to her in the moments of his anger outburst.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s already been judged for chasing her career, for working into the night, and she\u2019s been accused of being selfish way too many times than was needed.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-ser-uma-femea-alfa\/\">Uma f\u00eamea alfa<\/a> compreende que, por vezes, precisa de sacrificar um pouco do seu precioso tempo para ter sucesso na vida, de modo a poder desfrutar dos frutos do seu trabalho mais tarde.<\/p>\n<p>So, if she is dumped for trying to make her future bright, so be it. She won\u2019t beat herself down about it. She won\u2019t apologize for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/every-woman-needs-self-care\/\">cuidar de si pr\u00f3pria<\/a> e a vontade de ser independente.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll dedicate her time to make herself grow even more and she\u2019ll occupy her mind by doing things she loves. Tears are not welcomed anyhow. An alpha female gets over a breakup way faster than her partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96798\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-1.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de uma mulher a olhar por cima do ombro\" width=\"800\" height=\"544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-1-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-1-768x522.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-1-150x102.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s aware of herself. She knows how majestic a female she is and that there are plenty of other fish in the sea.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not like she\u2019ll go running into the arms of another guy to forget her ex (it takes time for her to find a suitable partner), but she knows someone better will eventually get to her.<\/p>\n<p>What comforts her the most is the fact he\u2019ll never again find another girl as strong as she is.<\/p>\n<p>She is confident, funny and good-looking, but most of all\u2014she isn\u2019t afraid to show her flaws because she understands those little flaws got nothing on such an intimidating and strong personality such as hers.<\/p>\n<p>If she wasn\u2019t afraid to ask for what she wants in a relationship (and she wasn\u2019t), she will have no trouble getting what she needs elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll have no trouble finding a man that will compliment her and her needs. Yes, she is a whole package, but she doesn\u2019t run from commitment at all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/guy-looking-a-nice-girl-while-walking-at-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"rapaz a olhar para uma rapariga simp\u00e1tica enquanto caminha na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/guy-looking-a-nice-girl-while-walking-at-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/guy-looking-a-nice-girl-while-walking-at-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/guy-looking-a-nice-girl-while-walking-at-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/guy-looking-a-nice-girl-while-walking-at-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/guy-looking-a-nice-girl-while-walking-at-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela n\u00e3o vai chorar por causa de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, por muito que sinta a falta do rapaz (ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 imune \u00e0s recorda\u00e7\u00f5es, especialmente \u00e0s felizes).<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll high-five herself by applauding her decision not to put up with his shit.<\/p>\n<p>A true alpha female would rather walk alone over dating a dude who is immature or being with someone that doesn\u2019t make her happy.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t get jealous of her ex\u2019s new girlfriend. She got what she needed from him and now she\u2019s free.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t get jealous because she doesn\u2019t want him back. She read that book already and there is no need for proofreading.<\/p>\n<p>She might make a toast in his name over a glass of wine but it will be to honor another milestone in her life. What she understands is she\u2019ll run much faster without him and that\u2019s where her grief ends.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96795 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 assim que as mulheres alfa lidam com as separa\u00e7\u00f5es\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups-_-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s not be fooled by the thought that alpha females are spared shitty relationships and bad breakups. It takes a strong man to handle an alpha female and not many out there are able to keep up with her. It\u2019s way easier to settle for a woman who won\u2019t challenge him as much as the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":96793,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-Alpha-Females-Deal-With-Breakups.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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