{"id":19861,"date":"2020-04-08T07:43:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T07:43:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19861"},"modified":"2022-04-29T00:31:40","modified_gmt":"2022-04-29T00:31:40","slug":"isto-e-que-e-ser-um-amigo-leal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/isto-e-que-e-ser-um-amigo-leal\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que realmente significa ser um amigo leal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When we get our hearts broken, when we feel like there\u2019s no one in this world who understands us, when everything is going badly\u2026 we always think about that one person in our life,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/carta-de-agradecimento-que-um-amigo-nunca-deu\/\"> aquele bom amigo que est\u00e1 sempre l\u00e1 para n\u00f3s<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how tough times may get, it\u2019s always important to have a loyal friend on our side.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ser um <\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b> \u00e9 muito mais do que aquilo que esperamos que seja.<\/b> It&#8217;s also much more than writing a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-de-feliz-aniversario-para-a-minha-melhor-amiga-amo-te\/\">carta de feliz anivers\u00e1rio para o seu melhor amigo<\/a> uma vez por ano. As pessoas tendem a perguntar-me porque \u00e9 que a lealdade \u00e9 importante nas amizades?<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that it\u2019s just as important to have a loyal friend as it is to have a loyal partner.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ser um <\/b><b>amigo leal significa<\/b><b> ter prioridades.<\/b> Whether we would like to admit it or not, we all have that one person in our life who\u2019s always on our mind in a non-romantic way.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s that one friend we always think about\u2014whether they are doing fine and if we can help them get through those tough times just a little bit more easily.<\/p>\n<p>To prioritize friendships means to know when to go to your best friend, even when they haven\u2019t asked you to.<\/p>\n<p>Significa ter sempre tempo livre para eles, deix\u00e1-los deitar-se no seu colo e ajud\u00e1-los a resolver quaisquer problemas que possam ter na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80295 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-female-friends-wearing-sunglasses-and-posing-for-camera-with-yellow-background.jpg\" alt=\"amigas felizes usando \u00f3culos de sol e posando para a c\u00e2mara com fundo amarelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-female-friends-wearing-sunglasses-and-posing-for-camera-with-yellow-background.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-female-friends-wearing-sunglasses-and-posing-for-camera-with-yellow-background-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-female-friends-wearing-sunglasses-and-posing-for-camera-with-yellow-background-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s knowing that they will be on your side no matter what.<\/b> O que \u00e9 um amigo leal sen\u00e3o algu\u00e9m que nos defende quando algu\u00e9m diz algo de mau sobre n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n<p>When there are times that they find themselves in the company of someone who might not like you, and they don\u2019t hesitate to shut them up, telling them how much of an awesome person you actually are\u2014this is what it means to have a loyal friend!<\/p>\n<p>Someone who won\u2019t think twice about defending you.<\/p>\n<p><b>When you have a boyfriend who doesn\u2019t seem right, a <\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b> vir\u00e3o ter consigo e dir\u00e3o o que pensam.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t even count the number of times that the people I thought to be my true friends lied to me, hiding the fact that they had seen my boyfriend cheating on me during high school and even gossiping around. Those aren\u2019t real friends!<\/p>\n<p><b>A <\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b> \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que faz da rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tem consigo a sua prioridade!<\/b> Ningu\u00e9m deve ser mais importante.<\/p>\n<p>Being a loyal friend means that they will run to you the moment they see something that\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s that friend who gives you an honest opinion that a guy might not be the right one for you for many reasons that they can see, but you don\u2019t because you\u2019re blinded by love.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s that friend who is not afraid to tell you when you buy something stupid that doesn&#8217;t look good on you. Yup. That is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/nao-sao-verdadeiros-amigos-12-verdadeiros-sinais-de-amizade\/\">a defini\u00e7\u00e3o de verdadeira amizade<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80300 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea-1.jpg\" alt=\"raparigas a divertir-se em casa e a beber um ch\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>And when I say \u2018<\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b>\u2019, there is someone who pops up in your mind.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta muito, e esse amor plat\u00f3nico \u00e9 suficiente para vos manter unidos para o resto das vossas vidas.<\/p>\n<p>You know you have a loyal friend if you don\u2019t have to talk to them every day, if you don\u2019t have to spend every minute of every waking hour together, but rather when you spend days, weeks or months separated and when you finally meet, you feel that sensation of belonging\u2014like you\u2019ve never been separated.<\/p>\n<p><b>O seu <\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b> \u00e9 aquela pessoa na sua vida a quem se dirige em primeiro lugar para falar sobre aquela mensagem de texto est\u00fapida ou um coment\u00e1rio que o seu homem lhe enviou no <\/b><b>redes sociais<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s that person in your life who ends up loving you, even though they know how crazy you are.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/9-coisas-que-os-melhores-amigos-fazem-e-que-mais-ninguem-faz\/\">It\u2019s that one friend<\/a> que se manter\u00e1 fiel \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o nos maus e bons momentos, para sempre e sempre.<\/p>\n<p>And when you introduce them to a new friend you\u2019ve just met, they are not jealous because they genuinely enjoy being in the company of all of your close friends.<\/p>\n<p>They know that they will always be your bff no matter what, and you don&#8217;t have to reassure them of how important and special they are to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Amigos leais<\/b><b> s\u00e3o aqueles amigos cuja principal <\/b><b>foco<\/b><b> \u00e9 melhorar a vossa amizade e n\u00e3o apenas abandon\u00e1-la quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Um dos meus vers\u00edculos b\u00edblicos preferidos sobre a amizade <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/melhores-versiculos-de-proverbios\/\">de Prov\u00e9rbios<\/a> 18:24 explains this one: &#8220;There are \u2018friends\u2019 who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There are friends who are only interested in your company when things are going smoothly\u2014which is the easiest part of any friendship.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80299 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-riding-bike-while-her-female-friend-is-on-back-of-bike.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a andar de bicicleta enquanto a sua amiga est\u00e1 na parte de tr\u00e1s da bicicleta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-riding-bike-while-her-female-friend-is-on-back-of-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-riding-bike-while-her-female-friend-is-on-back-of-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-riding-bike-while-her-female-friend-is-on-back-of-bike-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas as pessoas verdadeiras e leais sabem que o facto de se manterem unidas nos momentos dif\u00edceis, em vez de desistirem, \u00e9 o que torna uma amizade mais forte e mais profunda. Os verdadeiros amigos nunca desistem da sua amizade.<\/p>\n<p>Encontram uma forma de fazer com que as coisas funcionem e nunca desistem at\u00e9 que tudo volte a ser como dantes.<\/p>\n<p><b>A <\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b> nunca se esquece de <\/b><b>apanhar<\/b><b> their phone when you&#8217;re in need of their help or advice.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b>They don&#8217;t make excuses like: <i>I was busy doing this and that&#8230;<\/i>porque sabem que nunca lhes farias isso se estivessem na mesma situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>And even if they were really prevented from answering the phone, true friends don&#8217;t forget to call you after that.<\/p>\n<p>A prioridade deles \u00e9 o seu bem-estar e a sua felicidade, e nunca o fazem esperar porque s\u00e3o amigos leais at\u00e9 ao tutano.<\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t only think about themselves and they don&#8217;t only call you when they need something.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e3o sempre ao teu lado, prontos para te dar uma m\u00e3o e ajudar-te a combater as for\u00e7as e as pessoas m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Amigos leais<\/b><b> enterram os seus segredos no fundo dos seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es e nunca, em circunst\u00e2ncia alguma, traem a sua confian\u00e7a. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pode dizer-lhes tudo o que quiser sem recear que amanh\u00e3 metade da cidade saiba de alguma forma.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus segredos est\u00e3o seguros com eles porque os seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es e inten\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o puros.<\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t pretend to be your true friends only for the sake of collecting your &#8220;personal data&#8221; and sharing it with other people.<\/p>\n<p>Os verdadeiros amigos s\u00e3o aqueles que nunca nos d\u00e3o motivos para desconfiar.<\/p>\n<p>When you have something important to share with them, you don&#8217;t think twice about it.<\/p>\n<p>You just call them or go to them and tell everything that&#8217;s on your mind, knowing that your secrets will be safe with them because their beautiful hearts are the safest places on the planet.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80296 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-group-of-friends-cheering-a-beers-while-sitting-outside-during-night.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos felizes a aplaudir uma cerveja enquanto est\u00e3o sentados no exterior durante a noite\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-group-of-friends-cheering-a-beers-while-sitting-outside-during-night.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-group-of-friends-cheering-a-beers-while-sitting-outside-during-night-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/happy-group-of-friends-cheering-a-beers-while-sitting-outside-during-night-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>A amizade leal \u00e9 aquela que o inspira a tornar-se uma pessoa melhor.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b>Loyal friends don&#8217;t judge you (for any reason), and they don&#8217;t make you feel less important.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, inspiram-no a tornar-se uma pessoa melhor e a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re doing something wrong, they don&#8217;t just stay silent, watching you falling down.<\/p>\n<p>They let you know about your wrong decisions, and they don&#8217;t give up until you&#8217;ve understood what they are trying to tell you.<\/p>\n<p>Loyal friends don&#8217;t force you to do something you&#8217;re not comfortable with just because they are doing it.<\/p>\n<p>Compreendem que cada um tem as suas pr\u00f3prias escolhas e respeitam as suas.<\/p>\n<p>They respect you and love you for who you really are\u2014not for who they want you to be.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-as-pessoas-peculiares-sao-os-melhores-parceiros\/\">Eles adoram as suas peculiaridades<\/a> and flaws because that&#8217;s what makes you special in their eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Eles sabem que estas s\u00e3o as suas marcas registadas e d\u00e3o o seu melhor para cultivar a sua genuinidade.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ser leal aos amigos significa ser leal a algo em que se acredita, n\u00e3o porque se deve, mas porque se quer<\/b><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>It means hugging, cursing, yelling, crying and bleeding together because you believe in your special friendship, and you wouldn&#8217;t want to go through all those things with anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>Significa fazer coisas est\u00fapidas s\u00f3 pelo prazer de as fazer, rir mais tarde em conjunto sobre o qu\u00e3o est\u00fapidos realmente somos, e abra\u00e7ar esse momento com orgulho e mais risos.<\/p>\n<p>Being loyal to friends means rising up, falling down and rising up again, no matter how many times you&#8217;ve fallen.<\/p>\n<p>It means always supporting and understanding each other no matter what because if you won&#8217;t, you know that no one else will.<\/p>\n<p>Significa estarmos juntos na estupidez, nos bons e nos maus momentos, nos momentos de calma e nos momentos de sangramento.<\/p>\n<p><b>It means wiping tears from each other&#8217;s faces and plotting revenge together because that&#8217;s what <\/b><b>amigos leais<\/b><b> fazer. <\/b>Loyal friends feel each other&#8217;s pain and share their tears.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o t\u00eam medo de chorar \u00e0 frente um do outro e de serem vulner\u00e1veis, porque sabem que s\u00e3o mais fortes quando est\u00e3o juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Eles sabem que recordar as suas velhas mem\u00f3rias \u00e9 o que o far\u00e1 sentir-se melhor, e sabem como transformar as suas l\u00e1grimas num sorriso.<\/p>\n<p>And they are ready to plot revenge with you against the whole world if needed because that&#8217;s what loyal friends do.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-coisas-fantasticas-que-acontecem-quando-deixamos-de-nos-preocupar-com-o-que-os-outros-pensam\/\">They don&#8217;t give a shit about what other (irrelevant) people think<\/a>. Fazem o que t\u00eam de fazer e fazem-no porque realmente querem.<\/p>\n<p>A vossa felicidade \u00e9 um reflexo da felicidade deles, e os vossos corpos e almas est\u00e3o juntos nisto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Yes, that\u2019s what being a <\/b><b>amigo leal<\/b><b> tem tudo a ver.<\/b> So don\u2019t forget to treat your friends like they treat you\u2014with respect, love and protection.<\/p>\n<p>You might not find someone as amazing as they are ever again in your life, so don\u2019t make the mistake of thinking that they won\u2019t hold it against you for not being there for them (especially in hard times).<\/p>\n<p>Vai e mostra-lhes o quanto os aprecias. Vai e mostra ao mundo que os amas e que a tua amizade \u00e9 realmente algo especial.<\/p>\n<p>Now, let&#8217;s summarize all of this with one of the most beautiful quotes about loyal friends by Maurice R. Franks:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i>&#8220;Loyalty cannot be blueprinted. It cannot be produced on an assembly line. In fact, it cannot be manufactured at all, for its origin is the human heart \u2013 the center of self-respect and human dignity.&#8221;<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80297 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-What-Being-A-Loyal-Friend-Is-Really-About-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Isto \u00e9 o que realmente significa ser um amigo leal \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-What-Being-A-Loyal-Friend-Is-Really-About-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-What-Being-A-Loyal-Friend-Is-Really-About-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we get our hearts broken, when we feel like there\u2019s no one in this world who understands us, when everything is going badly\u2026 we always think about that one person in our life, that one good friend who is always there for us. No matter how tough times may get, it\u2019s always important to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":80298,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-What-Being-A-Loyal-Friend-Is-Really-About.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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