{"id":19864,"date":"2020-04-20T08:15:44","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T08:15:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19864"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:48:14","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:48:14","slug":"8-sinais-mais-comuns-de-incompatibilidade-nos-relacionamentos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-mais-comuns-de-incompatibilidade-nos-relacionamentos\/","title":{"rendered":"8 sinais mais comuns de incompatibilidade nos relacionamentos"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. They keep repeating the same mistake even though they promised they wouldn&#8217;t<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Close-up-of-unhappy-woman-man-leaning-against-wall-in-background.jpg\" alt=\"Grande plano de uma mulher infeliz, homem encostado \u00e0 parede ao fundo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Close-up-of-unhappy-woman-man-leaning-against-wall-in-background.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Close-up-of-unhappy-woman-man-leaning-against-wall-in-background-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Close-up-of-unhappy-woman-man-leaning-against-wall-in-background-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEles simplesmente mant\u00eam <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/agradecimentos-necessarios\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">decepcionando-o<\/a>. Let\u2019s say you and your partner had a problem, he did something to hurt you and he swore he would never do it again.&nbsp; He said he was sorry, it was a mistake and so on.<\/p>\n<p>Ele tem-se portado bem durante algum tempo e tudo parece \u00f3timo. Mas quando damos por isso, ele voltou a fazer o mesmo e sentimos que estamos a repetir o mesmo cen\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 que eles est\u00e3o habituados a safar-se e o seu perd\u00e3o torna-se algo que eles tomam como garantido.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o t\u00eam qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de mudar e limitam-se a repetir a mesma coisa vezes sem conta at\u00e9 que finalmente se cansa e admite para si pr\u00f3prio que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 com a pessoa certa.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Nunca ouvem o que tens para dizer<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87201\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Couple-on-couch-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Casal no sof\u00e1 de casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Couple-on-couch-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Couple-on-couch-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Couple-on-couch-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de ouvir, \u00e9 o \u00fanico que \u00e9 \u00f3timo nisso. Tudo o que lhes acontece, bom ou mau, est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para os ouvir.<\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, quando precisamos de um ouvido amigo e de algu\u00e9m com quem falar, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que escolhamos o nosso melhor amigo em vez do nosso parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that he is not the one you wouldn\u2019t want to share your thoughts with, you simply know that he won\u2019t be interested in what you have to say.<\/p>\n<p>He ignores your need to talk to them, it would never cross his mind to ask you how you are or how your day went, he only talks about themself, etc. Things shouldn\u2019t go that way.<\/p>\n<p>O seu parceiro deve ser a pessoa com quem partilha as suas boas not\u00edcias e a pessoa com quem partilha as suas tristezas.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t be in a relationship where you feel like you are not important and you are not treated as an equal.<\/p>\n<h2>3. A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o assemelha-se mais a um campo de batalha do que a um caso de amor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87208\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-arguing-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir sentado na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-arguing-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-arguing-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-arguing-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Parece que a vossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o se resume a discuss\u00f5es e nada mais.<\/p>\n<p>You never see eye to eye and you often go to bed angry at each other. It\u2019s obvious that your communication skills are catastrophic.<\/p>\n<p>You probably already tried to work things out and be more understanding but it didn\u2019t go as planned.<\/p>\n<p>Continuam a lutar e a discutir sobre isto e aquilo e parece que nunca mais acabam.<\/p>\n<p>Tem raz\u00e3o, provavelmente nunca acontecer\u00e1 porque s\u00e3o incompat\u00edveis. Se passam mais tempo a discutir do que a darem-se bem e a serem felizes, \u00e9 porque n\u00e3o s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis.<\/p>\n<p>You have totally opposite outlooks on what\u2019s wrong and what\u2019s right.<\/p>\n<p>Your viewpoints on life and relationships are completely different and that\u2019s why you haven\u2019t worked things out.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Quest\u00f5es sexuais<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87203\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Young-couple-arguing-in-the-bedroom-at-home..jpg\" alt=\"Jovem casal a discutir no quarto em casa.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Young-couple-arguing-in-the-bedroom-at-home..jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Young-couple-arguing-in-the-bedroom-at-home.-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Young-couple-arguing-in-the-bedroom-at-home.-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Existem dois cen\u00e1rios poss\u00edveis. O primeiro acontece quando o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/11-objectivos-sexuais-a-atingir\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">vida sexual<\/a> \u00e9 \u00f3timo, mas tudo o resto est\u00e1 a ir por \u00e1gua abaixo.  A vossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o na cama \u00e9 \u00f3ptima, mas fora dela, nem por isso.<\/p>\n<p>As vossas paix\u00f5es mant\u00eam-vos juntos porque quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-fim-a-uma-relacao-de-idas-e-vindas\/\">parar e avaliar realmente a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>Se n\u00e3o se sentir bem com o seu trabalho, pode ver que falta aten\u00e7\u00e3o, afeto e, por vezes, at\u00e9 respeito e confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>O segundo cen\u00e1rio acontece quando a vida sexual \u00e9 quase inexistente, muito rara ou simplesmente m\u00e1, mas todos os outros aspectos da rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o \u00f3ptimos.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o como os melhores amigos, mas falta a parte dos amantes e n\u00e3o est\u00e3o completamente satisfeitos.<\/p>\n<p>You know what they say, a good and healthy sex life is only 20% of the relationship but if it\u2019s bad it is everything.<\/p>\n<p>Ambos os cen\u00e1rios indicam que s\u00e3o incompat\u00edveis. N\u00e3o deve faltar nada e deve haver um certo equil\u00edbrio entre a amizade e a paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t hold on to someone who is wrong for you just because the sex is amazing.<\/p>\n<p>Likewise, you shouldn\u2019t settle for a passionless relationship just because you share a deep friendship with someone.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You feel like you can\u2019t be yourself around them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87204\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-blonde-woman-sitting-next-to-man-wearing-black-jacket-and-gloves-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loura e pensativa sentada ao lado de um homem de casaco preto e luvas no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-blonde-woman-sitting-next-to-man-wearing-black-jacket-and-gloves-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-blonde-woman-sitting-next-to-man-wearing-black-jacket-and-gloves-outside-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-blonde-woman-sitting-next-to-man-wearing-black-jacket-and-gloves-outside-768x522.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quer partilhar com eles as coisas que o incomodam ou aquelas com que se sente feliz, mas tem relut\u00e2ncia em faz\u00ea-lo porque eles provavelmente as descartar\u00e3o como est\u00fapidas. Nunca se sente \u00e0 vontade e tem a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar a esconder algo.<\/p>\n<p>You want to do things like sing along to the radio while you are driving or pick a new movie to watch but you feel like you can\u2019t because he will tell you to shut up or that you are stupid.<\/p>\n<p>When you are in a healthy relationship, you feel loved and accepted and you don\u2019t feel the need to dread your every step.<\/p>\n<p>You feel cozy enough to be your weird self and it\u2019s the best feeling in the world. If you are not feeling it, you are incompatible.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Sobrecarga de ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87205\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/upset-man-and-woman-sitting-outside-back-to-back.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher perturbados sentados no exterior, costas com costas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/upset-man-and-woman-sitting-outside-back-to-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/upset-man-and-woman-sitting-outside-back-to-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/upset-man-and-woman-sitting-outside-back-to-back-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Jealousy doesn\u2019t have to necessarily be a bad thing when it\u2019s within reason. But sometimes it can go too far and suffocate you completely.<\/p>\n<p>Duas pessoas excessivamente ciumentas s\u00f3 se retraem mutuamente, para al\u00e9m de que isso pode facilmente tornar-se t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n<p>If your relationship isn\u2019t based on trust it won\u2019t be able to survive for too long.<\/p>\n<p>Eventualmente, uma ou ambas as pessoas da rela\u00e7\u00e3o ficar\u00e3o exaustas com o telefone sempre a tocar, com algu\u00e9m a verificar o seu paradeiro e a controlar todos os seus movimentos.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not just a question of incompatibility, it becomes damaging to somebody&#8217;s physical and mental health.<\/p>\n<h2>7. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o tornou-se mon\u00f3tona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87206\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-sitting-against-each-other-and-typing-phone.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado um contra o outro a escrever ao telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-sitting-against-each-other-and-typing-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-sitting-against-each-other-and-typing-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-sitting-against-each-other-and-typing-phone-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 preso numa rotina e parece que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Sair com o seu parceiro \u00e9 isso mesmo, sair, ficar em casa a ver filmes, abra\u00e7ar-se um pouco e depois cada um segue o seu caminho ou vai para lados diferentes da cama. Os encontros noturnos e as sa\u00eddas parecem ser coisa do passado.<\/p>\n<p>There are different types of people. Some don\u2019t mind a rut and the stability it provides them with.<\/p>\n<p>Repetir os mesmos cen\u00e1rios vezes sem conta \u00e9 mais do que bom para eles, pois d\u00e1-lhes uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de seguran\u00e7a e estabilidade.<\/p>\n<p>O problema surge quando se envolvem com algu\u00e9m que precisa de mais movimento e diversidade na rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Algu\u00e9m que gosta de experimentar coisas novas, como viajar e sair.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that one person is bad and the other is good, both are completely normal; the thing is, they are completely different and therefore incompatible.<\/p>\n<p>Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o entre estes dois tipos de personalidade s\u00f3 pode resultar se ambos estiverem determinados a fazer um esfor\u00e7o e a encontrarem-se a meio caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Se o amor superar as suas diferen\u00e7as, ter\u00e3o grandes hip\u00f3teses de fazer com que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Diferentes percep\u00e7\u00f5es do ponto em que se encontram atualmente na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e do rumo a seguir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87207\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-looking-at-his-thoughtful-girlfriend-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para a sua namorada pensativa num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-looking-at-his-thoughtful-girlfriend-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-looking-at-his-thoughtful-girlfriend-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-looking-at-his-thoughtful-girlfriend-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, duas pessoas numa mesma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o est\u00e3o em sintonia.<\/p>\n<p>O seu n\u00edvel de envolvimento, investimento e perce\u00e7\u00e3o do rumo da rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e3o completamente desfasados.<\/p>\n<p>Enquanto um pode estar pronto para levar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o pr\u00f3ximo n\u00edvel, o outro foge para as colinas a um mero sinal de compromisso.<\/p>\n<p>One is already imagining married life with children while the other one is not ready for that yet. Or one wants children in the future but the other one doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo isto s\u00e3o grandes bandeiras vermelhas de incompatibilidade. Se n\u00e3o estiverem a avan\u00e7ar ao mesmo ritmo e se os vossos caminhos para o futuro tomarem direc\u00e7\u00f5es diferentes, nunca conseguir\u00e3o que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o resulte. Algumas pessoas s\u00e3o simplesmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/conseguir-que-um-homem-se-comprometa-usando-psicologia-inversa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para se comprometer<\/a> ao mesmo tempo ou nunca.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns imaginam passar a vida solteiros, sem filhos, etc.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is they need someone who is there to back that up. You can\u2019t force anything.<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o se sentirem confort\u00e1veis com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ter\u00e3o ainda mais dificuldades no futuro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-87197 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 sinais mais comuns de incompatibilidade nos relacionamentos\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Most-Common-Signs-Of-Incompatibility-In-Relationships-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. They keep repeating the same mistake even though they promised they wouldn&#8217;t They simply keep letting you down. Let\u2019s say you and your partner had a problem, he did something to hurt you and he swore he would never do it again.&nbsp; He said he was sorry, it was a mistake and so on&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":19866,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/sergio-souza-700468-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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