{"id":19871,"date":"2020-07-18T13:17:15","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T13:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19871"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:35:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:35:14","slug":"podes-te-la-magoado-mas-foste-tu-que-perdeste-no-final","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/podes-te-la-magoado-mas-foste-tu-que-perdeste-no-final\/","title":{"rendered":"Podes t\u00ea-la magoado, mas no fim foste tu que perdeste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Como \u00e9 que pudeste magoar uma rapariga que s\u00f3 queria amar-te? Como \u00e9 que n\u00e3o viste que ela merecia o mundo porque estava disposta a fazer quase tudo por ti?<\/p>\n<p><strong>She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You promised to love her forever but you lied to her. You said there would never be another one for you but that wasn\u2019t true. You swore to appreciate her but you only ended up taking her for granted.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela merecia muito mais do que tu lhe deste. Ela merecia muito mais do que ser magoada por algu\u00e9m que ela amava mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fizeste com que ela se apaixonasse por ti, prometeste-lhe um futuro e fizeste-a acreditar que eras a sua alma g\u00e9mea, que eras o tal e que voc\u00eas estavam mesmo destinados a ficar juntos. E estavam, mas depois mudaram.<\/p>\n<p>No final, tudo o que ela recebeu foi dor e uma facada com uma faca diretamente no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, sempre que teve oportunidade para isso.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t choose the tools, you did everything possible to hurt her. You started lying to her, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/e-por-isso-que-ela-esta-farta-de-jogar-jogos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jogar jogos<\/a>O que \u00e9 que se passa com ela? A sua atitude \u00e9 a de quem se sente quente e frio, de quem a usa quando lhe conv\u00e9m e de quem a deixa de lado quando \u00e9 ela que precisa de si.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 sentada junto ao passeio\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-woman-is-sitting-by-the-sidewalk-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Acabaste por ser um desses idiotas ego\u00edstas que usam os outros para as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que fizeram?<\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga merecia ser amada porque s\u00f3 tinha amor por ti. Ela merecia ser apreciada porque se esfor\u00e7ou por ti.<\/p>\n<p>She should\u2019ve left you a long time ago but she chose to fight for you and she chose to fight for your love. When you had nobody, she was by your side. When everyone decided to leave you, she chose to stay.<\/p>\n<p>You know why she is this way? She can\u2019t help it, it\u2019s just in her nature. When she loves, she loves till the end, unlike you. When she loves, she accepts both good and bad sides.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ela ama, faz at\u00e9 o imposs\u00edvel por aqueles de quem gosta. E nunca desiste porque encontra sempre uma raz\u00e3o para ficar em s\u00edtios que mais ningu\u00e9m pensaria em procurar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See, you really are something. You managed to push all her buttons to the point where she just couldn\u2019t do it anymore. <\/strong><strong>Fizeste-a desistir de algu\u00e9m que ela amava tanto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher triste deita-se no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-lies-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela simplesmente cansou-se das suas mentiras, dos seus jogos e da sua manipula\u00e7\u00e3o. Cansou-se de ouvir as mesmas promessas que nunca tencionou cumprir.<\/p>\n<p>Ela cansou-se de dar tudo de si e n\u00e3o receber nada em troca. Ela cansou-se de viver das migalhas do teu amor.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly she was exhausted from always coming last on your list when she always put you first. It wasn\u2019t fair and she should\u2019ve gotten more than this. She deserved it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead of loving her, you chose to hurt her. It\u2019s a lie that you didn\u2019t mean to hurt her. Nobody hurts people accidentally.<\/p>\n<p>Porque de cada vez que decidiste n\u00e3o a p\u00f4r em primeiro lugar, de cada vez que a ignoraste, de cada vez que usaste palavras m\u00e1s para a deitar abaixo, de cada vez que lhe negaste o teu amor, estavas a mago\u00e1-la. V\u00eas, foi uma escolha, por isso deixa-te de tretas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela \u00e9 uma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-caracteristicas-de-uma-boa-namorada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">boa rapariga<\/a> and she didn\u2019t deserve the hell you put her through. She deserved to be happy and she needed just a little but even that little was too much to ask from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s okay, don\u2019t worry, because it is you in the end who pulled the short straw.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher triste est\u00e1 sentada nas escadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-on-the-stairs-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll get over it. It\u2019s just a matter of time. Soon, she\u2019ll come to realize you\u2019ve done her no good.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll realize you were just a parasite who fed off of her love. And she might be hurting now but she\u2019ll heal.<\/p>\n<p>We all get hurt by love and we all have our cross to bear but she\u2019ll get over you, she will be fine. And you? Well, I\u2019m not sure you\u2019ll ever get over her. Because even though you hurt her, it\u2019s you who lost in the end.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes ao menos que tipo de rapariga conseguiste perder?<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/parabens-a-rapariga-perdida-queria-mesmo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Perdeste uma rapariga que realmente queria ser tua<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nunca ningu\u00e9m te amar\u00e1 como ela o fez. Ningu\u00e9m se esfor\u00e7ar\u00e1 por ti como ela o fez. Ningu\u00e9m mais se esfor\u00e7ar\u00e1 para te fazer feliz. Ningu\u00e9m sacrificar\u00e1 a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade s\u00f3 para te ver sorrir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Parab\u00e9ns, rapaz, fizeste mesmo asneira. Conseguiste perder uma boa rapariga.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And perhaps you might not see it now but I promise you, eventually it will hit you. It will hit you and you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve lost a girl who just wanted to love you and make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>And when you finally come to your senses and you wish to get her back, don\u2019t bother. She won\u2019t be waiting for you. Because she will have moved on with someone who\u2019d rather die than hurt her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-104378 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Podes t\u00ea-la magoado, mas no fim foste tu que perdeste\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How could you hurt a girl who just wanted to love you? How could you not see that she deserved the world because she was ready to do just about anything for you? She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for. You promised to love her forever but you lied to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":104377,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Mightve-Hurt-Her-But-Its-You-Who-Lost-In-The-End.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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