{"id":19883,"date":"2020-03-18T12:59:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T12:59:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19883"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:38:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:38:43","slug":"o-meu-maior-arrependimento-e-te-la-tido-na-minha-vida-e-te-la-deixado-partir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-maior-arrependimento-e-te-la-tido-na-minha-vida-e-te-la-deixado-partir\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu maior arrependimento \u00e9 t\u00ea-la tido na minha vida e t\u00ea-la deixado partir"},"content":{"rendered":"

As a man, I have a hard time admitting I was wrong. But I have no other option now but to come clean about my biggest mistake as it’s starting to suffocate me. The truth is as simple as it is painful.<\/p>\n

Amei, agi como um completo idiota e perdi-a para sempre. Eu tinha uma namorada fant\u00e1stica, uma num milh\u00e3o, e tratei-a como se fosse vulgar.<\/p>\n

Eu sabia o que ela sentia por mim desde o in\u00edcio. Eu sabia que ela estava perdidamente apaixonada, era bastante evidente e ela n\u00e3o fazia nada para o esconder. Os seus olhos iluminavam-se sempre que me via.<\/p>\n

Derretia-se nas minhas m\u00e3os. Gostava tanto da minha presen\u00e7a que tentava impedir-me sempre que eu me queria ir embora.<\/p>\n

But I didn’t know how to stay at the time. Not for very long anyway. As much as I loved her pulling me close, it was also freaking me out. <\/b>So I did what any man unsure of himself does\u2014I played it cool.<\/p>\n

Eu estaria l\u00e1 num momento e afastar-se<\/a> no dia seguinte. Dizia-lhe as palavras mais doces antes de nos deitarmos e desaparecia com elas de manh\u00e3.<\/p>\n

Lembro-me do meu telem\u00f3vel a tocar. Levantava-o e via que ela tinha enviado uma mensagem de texto e pousava-o por defeito. Ficava feliz por causa da mensagem, mas respondia sempre mais tarde.<\/p>\n

Deixava-a \u00e0 espera durante horas, por vezes at\u00e9 um dia, s\u00f3 para a poder manter perto, mas n\u00e3o o suficiente.<\/p>\n

I would postpone our plans often. I was always the type to put my friends first, so if they had something going on I wouldn’t have any problem calling her and canceling last minute.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I was so caught up with that \u2018bros before hoes\u2019 mantra that I exaggerated big time and she was paying the price.<\/p>\n

I was a jerk and though I did most things unintentionally, it doesn’t excuse everything that I put her through.<\/b> It’s not that I was playing games, or at least I had no intention of doing so. It was just easier keeping her at arm’s length.<\/p>\n

Estava t\u00e3o habituado a que ela estivesse presente, acontecesse o que acontecesse. Estava t\u00e3o habituado a que ela me perdoasse sem sequer ter de pedir desculpa.<\/p>\n

Estava habituado a ser bem tratado por agir como merda. Estava habituado a isso e pensei que duraria para sempre. Pensei mal.<\/p>\n

She warned me that she couldn\u2019t handle my inconsistency anymore. She was sick of me being only halfway in the relationship. She said she didn\u2019t know how much more she could take if something didn\u2019t change.<\/b><\/p>\n

She told me she wouldn\u2019t beg for my time. She told me I needed to treat her better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ela disse-me muitas coisas e todas elas eram verdadeiras, mas nunca chegaram at\u00e9 mim at\u00e9 ser demasiado tarde. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don’t know why I acted that way. I want to blame it all on the fact that I was young and foolish.<\/p>\n

Quero colocar tudo no meu perp\u00e9tuo medo do compromisso<\/a>. Mas nada parece ser suficiente.<\/p>\n

Qualquer que tenha sido a causa do meu comportamento pouco inteligente, estou agora a pagar um pre\u00e7o elevado por isso.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I have to watch her from a distance instead of holding her close. She is happy with him, it pains me to say, but maybe happier than when she was with me. He has given her all I couldn’t or didn’t know how to.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a apreciar tudo o que eu tinha e que tomei como garantido. Ele \u00e9 um homem melhor. Ele \u00e9 um homem de sorte.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, eu sou o homem que teve a oportunidade de estar com algu\u00e9m fant\u00e1stico e desperdi\u00e7ou-a.<\/p>\n

For what? For lonely nights and random girls now and then, who don\u2019t even come close to her. I deserve it.<\/p>\n

Mere\u00e7o o arrependimento que tenho agora por todas as l\u00e1grimas que pus no seu lindo rosto. Mere\u00e7o todos os \"e se\" que me mant\u00eam acordado \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\n

What if I\u2019d had the balls to put her above my fears?<\/b> I can’t understand now o que eu estava a combater<\/a> contra.<\/p>\n

Talvez ela ainda estivesse ao meu lado se eu tivesse baixado a guarda e lhe tivesse dito o que realmente sentia.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que eu precisava de fazer era cair nos seus bra\u00e7os e arriscar tudo.<\/p>\n

E se eu tivesse sido o homem que ela merecia?<\/b> A man who would appreciate her being just the way she was. A man who was able to give back all that she gave him. She didn’t ask for much.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ela queria o meu respeito, queria que eu a protegesse como ela me protegia a mim. Queria o meu tempo e a minha aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Queria sentir-se amada.<\/p>\n

E se eu a tivesse posto em primeiro lugar? <\/b>I love my friends but they didn’t need all of my time. I love my job but I didn’t have to work overtime, at least not always. I should have made time like she did for me.<\/p>\n

I should have answered her texts and calls like she did mine. I should have pulled her close and not run away. I should have. But I didn’t. Now I have to live with that.<\/p>\n

E se eu lhe tivesse pedido para ficar?<\/b> Maybe she would have given me one more chance to make it right even though I didn’t deserve it. Maybe she wouldn’t have stayed but I should have asked nonetheless.<\/p>\n

Ela trope\u00e7ou no seu orgulho tantas vezes por mim, eu devia ter feito o mesmo por ela. Em vez de fazer alguma coisa, n\u00e3o fiz nada.<\/p>\n

I didn’t fight for the one I loved. I did nothing to keep her in my life. That’s why all I am left with now are what ifs and the hope that one day I will be able to forgive myself for letting her go.<\/p>\n

Por Owen Scott<\/em><\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

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