{"id":19909,"date":"2020-06-19T08:11:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T08:11:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19909"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:04:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:04:54","slug":"se-a-amas-deixa-a-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-a-amas-deixa-a-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Se a amas, deixa-a ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dizes que a amas mas mago\u00e1-la<\/a> de qualquer maneira. Dizes que a amas, mas gostas mais de estar com os teus amigos do que com ela.<\/p>\n

Dizes tudo o que ela quer ouvir s\u00f3 para que ela fique contigo, s\u00f3 porque \u00e9s um cobarde para admitir que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o te v\u00eas com ela.<\/p>\n

You just want her to be there because you are afraid to be alone or to end up with someone who won\u2019t be able to understand you as well as she does.<\/p>\n

Porque o amor j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 o que sentes por ela.<\/strong> Adoras a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que ela te \u00e9 familiar.<\/p>\n

Adoras que ela saiba o tipo de comida de que mais gostas e a forma como comes salada com um pouco mais de sal.<\/p>\n

Adoras a forma como ela cuida de ti quando est\u00e1s doente e te d\u00e1 tudo o que precisas de ouvir quando est\u00e1s em baixo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Adoras v\u00ea-la perto de ti, dar-te palmadinhas no ombro quando fazes algo de bom. Adoras ver o brilho nos seus olhos quando ela te admira e te diz que est\u00e1 muito feliz por te ter na sua vida.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t love when she needs you to hold her hand when she is afraid to do something new. You don\u2019t love her hugs and kisses because you feel she is suffocating you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t love when she talks about her life, her work and her friends in front of you. You don\u2019t love when she asks you for advice because taking care of her problems is simply too much for you.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que a enganas dizendo-lhe que gostas de tudo nela?<\/strong> Amar tudo nela significa aceitar as suas mais pequenas partes e am\u00e1-las.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t do that, you don\u2019t even want to make an effort to make things work between the two of you. Don\u2019t think that you are doing her a favor for staying with her even if you don\u2019t love her.<\/p>\n

Isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 um favor, \u00e9 apenas uma extens\u00e3o da dor que ela vai sentir quando a deixar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t play jogos mentais<\/a> with her and instead admit to her that you don\u2019t love her anymore. Tell her that your love died because of some things that happened somewhere along the road.<\/p>\n

Diga-lhe que a vai deixar porque n\u00e3o faz sentido agarrar-se a algo que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 real.<\/p>\n

Nobody said that love can\u2019t die and unfortunately, that happened to the two of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas o truque est\u00e1 na forma como lida com isso. Se falar com ela abertamente e lhe explicar os seus sentimentos, tenho a certeza de que ela o compreender\u00e1.<\/p>\n

She also doesn\u2019t want to be in an almost relationship, she wants the real thing. So, if you can\u2019t provide her with mind-blowing love, just let her go. If you really love her, let her go.<\/p>\n

Deixa-a ir para o seu lugar mais feliz, deixa-a ir para os bra\u00e7os de um homem que lhe dar\u00e1 verdadeiramente o amor que ela merece.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

H\u00e1-de vir um homem que vai adorar a forma como ela sorri e a forma como ela chora quando v\u00ea um filme triste.<\/p>\n

There will come a man who will think that she is worthy, that she is enough and he won\u2019t be able to stop smiling when he sees her.<\/p>\n

Ele sentir\u00e1 borboletas cada vez que ela passar pela rua, estendendo as m\u00e3os para o abra\u00e7ar. E um homem assim dar-lhe-\u00e1 o amor que ela realmente merece.<\/p>\n

Com um homem assim, ela sentir-se-\u00e1 realizada, feliz e satisfeita. Ele ser\u00e1 o seu di\u00e1rio humano, o seu melhor amigo, a sua chamada nocturna e a sua alma g\u00e9mea. E o seu o amor sentir-se-\u00e1 como em casa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So when you realize how many ways you can actually make her happy, don\u2019t miss the chance to do that for her.<\/p>\n

Sei que ela faria o mesmo por ti. Ela preferia deixar-te ir, em vez de te dar corda.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se sentes pelo menos um pouco de amor por ela, por favor, deixa-a ir. At\u00e9 tu sabes que ela merece um homem melhor do que tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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