{"id":19953,"date":"2020-09-19T13:15:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T13:15:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19953"},"modified":"2022-01-09T22:14:51","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T22:14:51","slug":"mereces-o-amor-que-continuas-a-dar-a-todos-os-outros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mereces-o-amor-que-continuas-a-dar-a-todos-os-outros\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor que mereces e que d\u00e1s a todos os outros"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I wish there was a way for me to hug you over the screen. I wish there was a way for me to show you how incredible you are, to show you that you are everything but ordinary. To show you that you deserve so much more than you\u2019re settling for.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m writing over and over again, hoping that maybe someday, my words will help someone walk away from things that hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>Hoping that someday, my words will give someone courage to make a decision they should\u2019ve made long time ago. A decision to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/eu-dei-te-mais-do-que-merecias-agora-e-altura-de-me-por-em-primeiro-lugar\/\">colocam-se em primeiro lugar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por isso, deixem-me repetir: TU MERECES TUDO.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Mereces ser feliz.<\/b> All those quotes about how love is not real if it doesn\u2019t hurt, screw them! Love is not supposed to hurt you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-com-uma-alma-bondosa\/\">\u00c9 suposto o amor manter-nos seguros<\/a> when everything else falls apart. Yes, it gets hard, it gets messy, but if you don\u2019t feel safe, it\u2019s not real. If you don\u2019t feel like you can talk about it, it\u2019s not real.<\/p>\n<p>And happiness is not just about being in love. You deserve to be happy at home, at work, in your own mind. I know, life\u2019s a bitch, but you\u2019ll never know how happy you can be if you don\u2019t try it.<\/p>\n<p>They say that when things seem terrifying, you just need to jump. So, I\u2019m asking you to jump. Jump into the unknown and remember that you are strong enough to deal with whatever is in there. Just jump.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mereces ser respeitado.<\/b> O respeito n\u00e3o \u00e9 um privil\u00e9gio e custa-me ver que \u00e9 tratado como tal. N\u00e3o somos definidos pelo nosso g\u00e9nero, pelo nosso trabalho ou pela nossa etnia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad.jpg\" alt=\"bela rapariga no parque t\u00e3o triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/beautiful-girl-in-the-park-so-sad-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And respect shouldn\u2019t be based on those things. Respect shouldn\u2019t be given to only some people. Demand respect if you\u2019re not given any.<\/p>\n<p>There will always be assholes who will try to deny you the respect your deserve. There will always be assholes who will try to belittle the things you\u2019ve done. But show them you\u2019re stronger, better. Show them you\u2019re worth it and walk away. <b>Que se afoguem na vossa poeira, enquanto<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sobreviver-a-um-mau-momento-de-prosperidade\/\"><b> you\u2019re thriving<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve to be appreciated and accepted\u2014as you are and for who you are.<\/b> If someone wants you to change, screw them. If someone says that you\u2019ve changed, it usually means you\u2019re not the person they need anymore.<\/p>\n<p>It has nothing to you being worse or better. It\u2019s just the idea of you they had that changed. But the thing is, if we don\u2019t change, we don\u2019t grow. And if we don\u2019t grow, we keep on being stuck at the same fucking place for years until we fade away.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t let anyone dim your light, because you have the ability to outshine the Sun. Don\u2019t let anyone make you question your worth, because no one walked through your Hell but you. No one walked in your shoes but you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ningu\u00e9m amou, esperou ou sonhou como tu e nunca ningu\u00e9m o far\u00e1. S\u00ea quem \u00e9s e nunca mudes pelos outros. Mude por si, para si.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Mereces o amor que continuas a dar a todos os outros.<\/b> It\u2019s sad that you keep on lowering your walls to help people, how you keep on giving pieces of yourself to make someone better, but getting the same thing from those people is impossible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga inquieta sentada sozinha num caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Upset-young-girl-sitting-alone-in-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s heartbreaking to see you hurt because you think you\u2019re unlovable. But let me tell you one thing. You\u2019re not unlovable because someone doesn\u2019t know how to love. You\u2019re not any less pretty, worthy or good just because someone was too blind to see it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t close your eyes to your faults because they\u2019re your own. Learn to accept them and learn from them. And accept the truth that you deserve that movie kind of love. You deserve a happy ending and you deserve to be treated like a queen. And so what if there\u2019s no super-hero to save you? You\u2019re perfectly capable of doing it by yourself because you\u2019ve already saved so many people. So, why not save yourself this time?<\/p>\n<p><b>Do mais profundo do meu pequeno e confuso cora\u00e7\u00e3o, quero que sejas feliz. Quero que sejas amado e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-que-e-que-o-beijo-dele-diz-sobre-os-seus-sentimentos-em-relacao-a-si\/\"><b>beijado<\/b><\/a><b> like you\u2019ve never been kissed before. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Quero que te rias at\u00e9 sentires os teus abdominais a formarem-se e a \u00fanica dor que sentes \u00e9 a do riso. Quero que saltes t\u00e3o alto que te percas entre as estrelas. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Quero que aprendas a voar porque j\u00e1 tens as asas. Tudo o que tens de fazer agora \u00e9 largar toda essa merda que te pesa e saltar!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Com todo o meu amor,<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 apenas a dois cliques de dist\u00e2ncia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O amor que mereces e que d\u00e1s a todos os outros\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wish there was a way for me to hug you over the screen. I wish there was a way for me to show you how incredible you are, to show you that you are everything but ordinary. To show you that you deserve so much more than you\u2019re settling for. Instead, I\u2019m writing over&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122970,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/You-Deserve-The-Love-You-Keep-Giving-Everyone-Else-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19953"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19953\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122970"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}