{"id":19968,"date":"2020-06-20T08:04:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T08:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19968"},"modified":"2022-03-22T02:04:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T02:04:18","slug":"se-queres-ser-aquele-que-o-inferno-nunca-esquece-nao-jogues-o-seu-jogo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-queres-ser-aquele-que-o-inferno-nunca-esquece-nao-jogues-o-seu-jogo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se queres ser a pessoa que ele nunca esquecer\u00e1, n\u00e3o jogues o seu jogo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It\u2019s filled with players and their manipulative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-psicologia-por-detras-do-jogo-dos-encontros\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jogos quentes e frios<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, most women don\u2019t see much choice in the matter other than playing along.<\/p>\n<p>Ao fazerem isso, ficam presos nesta teia de amor de meia-tigela que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-jogador-enviar-lhe-ia-mensagens-todos-os-dias\/\">os jogadores<\/a> constru\u00eddo que nunca ser\u00e1 suficiente para os fazer felizes.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see if some of these scenarios sound familiar: You receive a text message and then you wait a bit to text back; you do your best to make him jealous; you give him attention then you pull away and pretend like you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, you are giving him a taste of his own medicine. And while that works for a bit, it doesn\u2019t give you the result you need, it just keeps you in the game.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Correct me if I am wrong but inside of the game isn\u2019t somewhere you want to live. It\u2019s exhausting and tiring to always keep your guard up.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o normal e amorosa. Quer calor, respeito e honestidade que possa retribuir.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to think ahead and strategize your every move. You want love that flows, not one that is full of dams.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t play his game. You should have your own rules and do your own thing.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de se envolver em manipula\u00e7\u00f5es e jogos mentais e de se rebaixar ao n\u00edvel dele.<\/p>\n<p>Ele deve estar ao seu n\u00edvel e trat\u00e1-la bem ou sair da sua vida para sempre.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"casal a olhar um para o outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t change your essence, stay true to yourself but by all means <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estabelecer-normas-relacao-algo-obrigatorio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">estabelecer algumas normas<\/a>. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A \u00fanica forma de obter o amor e o respeito que merece \u00e9 amar-se e respeitar-se a si pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Having standards means demanding that at all times. It means not putting up with somebody&#8217;s poor treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Significa amarmo-nos o suficiente para nos afastarmos de situa\u00e7\u00f5es que nos fazem sentir infelizes ou miser\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Be the one who isn\u2019t afraid to close her eyes, fall in love and hope for the best.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sim, a queda pode ser m\u00e1 e pode magoar-se. Mas tamb\u00e9m podes continuar a levitar se o amor for verdadeiro.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t pretend like you don\u2019t care or act like a bitch to make somebody like you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Seja aquele que graciosamente se recusa a participar em algo de meia-tigela.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>If he wants something laidback, casual, or no strings attached, tell him that\u2019s great for him but it doesn\u2019t quite work for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90215\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a falar enquanto o homem se sente ofendido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wish him luck and send him on his way. Someone who will give you everything will come along but you won\u2019t be able to notice if you are playing games that will lead you nowhere.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Seja a pessoa que ama sem se conter.<\/strong> <\/em>Aquela que lhe dar\u00e1 tudo para que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\n<p>The one who doesn\u2019t give up easily but knows that sometimes enough is enough and it\u2019s time for her to go.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ser a pessoa que persegue apenas se for perseguida.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t go after somebody who doesn\u2019t go after you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be the girl waiting by the phone hoping to hear from him. Don\u2019t be the one who drops everything when he calls.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not playing games, it\u2019s not prioritizing somebody who never puts you first.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00ea a pessoa que constr\u00f3i a sua pr\u00f3pria vida. S\u00ea tu que te orgulhas de ser.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Be someone who conquers her fears and thrives in spite of everything that\u2019s holding her back.<\/p>\n<p>Be the one who doesn\u2019t allow sadness to stay in her life for too long. Be the one who laughs from her soul and smiles with her heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90216\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com camisa branca casual ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Seja a pessoa que espera o mesmo respeito, amor, honestidade e investimento que ela est\u00e1 a trazer para a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for lame excuses. Don\u2019t buy into stories that players use to lure you in. Don\u2019t participate in the game\u2026 leave.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him treat you like a toy and you won\u2019t be remembered as one.<\/p>\n<p>Um dia, esse jogador em que est\u00e1s agarrado agora vai-se cansar dos seus jogos. Ele vai mudar.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/vai-procurar-todas-as-mulheres-promete-que-nunca-vai-encontrar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ele vai procurar-te<\/a> when you lose all interest in him. He will look for you when you find your home in somebody else&#8217;s arms. He will remember your warmth. He will miss your smile.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pensar\u00e1 em todas as coisas que poderia ter feito de forma diferente para que talvez estivesses ao seu lado neste momento. Ficar\u00e1s encriptada na sua mente como aquela que escapou.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>O problema dos jogadores \u00e9 que s\u00f3 sabem o que tinham quando j\u00e1 o perderam para sempre.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-90210 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se queres ser a pessoa que ele nunca esquecer\u00e1, n\u00e3o jogues o seu jogo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It\u2019s filled with players and their manipulative hot and cold games. Naturally, most women don\u2019t see much choice in the matter other than playing along. By doing that, they get stuck in this web of half-assed love that the players constructed that will never be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":90213,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19968","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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