{"id":20004,"date":"2020-06-20T12:04:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T12:04:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20004"},"modified":"2022-02-27T11:01:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T11:01:27","slug":"perdoar-se-a-si-proprio-por-amar-a-pessoa-errada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoar-se-a-si-proprio-por-amar-a-pessoa-errada\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3prio por amares a pessoa errada"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you don\u2019t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you\u2019re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can\u2019t you forgive yourself? You didn\u2019t know he was going to hurt you.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know he would take you for granted. You didn\u2019t know!<\/p>\n

Por isso, perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3prio por apaixonar-se pela pessoa errada<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

No one will tell you that they\u2019re messed up when they meet you. No one will tell you all about their faults, flaws or demons when they meet you.<\/p>\n

And no one will tell you that their love is not the love for you. And there\u2019s no way knowing if you don\u2019t give it a chance.<\/p>\n

And I know that you hate yourself for giving the wrong people chances, I know you\u2019re angry with yourself for staying with the wrong people.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019re not a quitter and you never have been. When you love, you love wholeheartedly. And when you choose someone, you do it every single day with your entire being.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what makes you so special, that\u2019s what makes you so amazing.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Nunca deixes que as pessoas erradas te tirem isso, porque as pessoas certas est\u00e3o mesmo ao virar da esquina do teu desgosto.<\/p>\n

Perdoa-te por teres confiado nas pessoas erradas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca se sabe quem vai jogar com a nossa confian\u00e7a e quem a vai manter segura. Nunca se sabe quem o respeitar\u00e1 por confiar nele e quem o tratar\u00e1 como um tolo.<\/p>\n

But imagine how sad and lonely your life would\u2019ve been if you had pushed everyone away and held it all inside yourself.<\/p>\n

Imagine how pressured you would have felt and how fed up you would\u2019ve been. Let it all go and let it all out.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 sempre pessoas que vos mostrar\u00e3o que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 complicada, mas tamb\u00e9m haver\u00e1 pessoas que vos mostrar\u00e3o que they\u2019re worthy<\/a> da vossa confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Perdoa-te por teres deixado entrar as pessoas erradas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando deixamos algu\u00e9m entrar, confiamos que ele manter\u00e1 o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o seguro. Quando deixamos algu\u00e9m entrar, deixamos que ele veja as partes mais profundas e obscuras de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

And sometimes it doesn\u2019t work out. Sometimes they don\u2019t know how to hold you, sometimes they don\u2019t know how to share silence with you. And sometimes they don\u2019t want to learn.<\/p>\n

Mas haver\u00e1 pessoas que ter\u00e3o a honra de vos abra\u00e7ar \u00e0 noite. Haver\u00e1 pessoas que ter\u00e3o a honra de te amar e de ouvir o bater do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que te beijar\u00e1 na testa e sentir\u00e1s como se tivesse beijado a tua alma.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que ver\u00e1 todos os teus defeitos e os beijar\u00e1 na mesma. Algu\u00e9m que te ajudar\u00e1 a pegar em todos os teus peda\u00e7os partidos e a beij\u00e1-los juntos. Perdoa-te por deixares entrar as pessoas erradas, para poderes dar uma oportunidade \u00e0s pessoas certas.<\/p>\n

Perdoa-te por amares a pessoa errada.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know it hurts, I know you feel stupid for loving someone so bad. I know you\u2019re angry for letting yourself fall for someone so shallow and mean. But you didn\u2019t know. And don\u2019t let him hurt you any longer.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let his toxic words poison you any longer. Let them go, let him go. Forgive yourself for loving an idiot, because it taught you something much more valuable.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It taught you that it\u2019s not love if it hurts. It taught you that there is a bunch of assholes out there who are only interested in playing with your emotions and heart.<\/p>\n

Ensinou-vos que h\u00e1 psicopatas<\/a>, fuckboys and shit-boys who don\u2019t know how to love. But just because they don\u2019t know how, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not worth it.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t deny yourself the chance of meeting someone who will be everything you ever needed and everything you never thought you needed, because you\u2019re still mad at yourself. <\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let all those idiots from your past chase away your happiness. <\/b><\/p>\n

Deixa-os onde eles pertencem e pega fogo a tudo. Mereces mais do que estar preso no passado com as pessoas erradas. <\/b><\/p>\n

Look to the future with the right ones. Even if you have to be the One for yourself, it\u2019s still better than lost in the past.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Perdoa-te<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you don\u2019t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you\u2019re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can\u2019t you forgive yourself? You didn\u2019t know he was going to hurt you. You didn\u2019t know he would take you for granted. You didn\u2019t know! So, forgive…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":95812,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Forgive-Yourself-For-Loving-The-Wrong-Person.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}