{"id":20007,"date":"2020-06-20T12:19:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T12:19:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20007"},"modified":"2022-04-01T11:14:33","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T11:14:33","slug":"8-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-e-altura-de-desistir-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-e-altura-de-desistir-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Sinais dolorosos de que est\u00e1 na altura de desistir dele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Talvez nunca tenha pensado que isto iria acontecer, mas aqui est\u00e1 agora, a pensar se deve ficar com ele ou encontrar a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/p>\n<p>And you think and think, but you can\u2019t think of anything smart. A part of you still loves him while the other part is hurt deeply by his behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Para o ajudar a encontrar a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o, eis algumas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/11-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-nao-es-nada-mais-do-que-o-plano-de-reserva-dele\/\">sinais dolorosos<\/a> que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/talvez-seja-altura-de-desistir-das-citacoes\/\">\u00e9 altura de desistir<\/a> sobre ele.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que isto lhe abra os olhos quando vir que coisas como estas lhe est\u00e3o a acontecer diariamente, mas que se recusou a v\u00ea-las durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ele faz-nos duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta a roer a unha em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your partner doesn\u2019t accept you the way you are and you need to doubt your self-worth in your relationship, it is time to give up on him.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que a ame verdadeiramente aceit\u00e1-la-ia com todos os seus defeitos e nunca lhe pediria para mudar. Mas se te sentes mal e como se n\u00e3o fosses suficiente, algo tem de mudar.<\/p>\n<p>Pode tentar falar com ele sobre os seus sentimentos, mas se ele persistir na sua decis\u00e3o, qualquer outra coisa ser\u00e1 em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Andas a pisar ovos quando est\u00e1s com ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa coloca a cabe\u00e7a nas costas de um homem enquanto este se encontra no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you feel like you need to watch out what you say or do in front of your partner? Are you afraid that he will freak out if you do something that he doesn\u2019t like?<\/p>\n<p>If the answer is \u2018yes\u2019, then you should think about where you are now and if you want to be in the same place in a couple of years.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t put your life on hold just to satisfy him and you can\u2019t put him first all the time. What was the last time he did that for you?<\/p>\n<p>Nunca, eu sei. Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que te sacrificarias<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/carta-a-rapariga-esforcou-se-muito-o-homem-nao-quis-saber\/\"> for the man who couldn\u2019t care less for you<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele menospreza-te \u00e0 frente de toda a gente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg\" alt=\"homem a envergonhar a namorada em p\u00fablico\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele considera que se trata apenas de uma brincadeira, mas a verdade \u00e9 que, por causa dessa brincadeira, se sente profundamente magoado.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, he always says something that you don\u2019t think is nice in front of the others and he never shows that he cares about you. By belittling you, he feels dominant and like someone who is the main part of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de lhe dizer que o que ele faz n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada simp\u00e1tico e que tem de se recompor se quiser ficar consigo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nada do que fizeres ser\u00e1 bom para ele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal sentado \u00e0 mesa num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabe qual \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de nunca ser suficiente para o homem que \u00e9 o seu mundo? Tudo o que fazes n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para ele e ele quer sempre algo melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it is time to sit down and think about your feelings toward him. Maybe you don\u2019t like his behavior as well, but you just don\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n<p>I am telling you\u2014it is better to be alone than in a bad and toxic relationship. I am sure that in the end, you will figure out what is the best for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn\u2019t interested in you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher jovem e de um homem jovem ao ar livre na rua com problemas de relacionamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sente que ele vive a sua vida sem <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/you-shouldnt-be-the-only-one-putting-in-all-the-effort\/\">fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/a> para fazeres parte dela?<\/p>\n<p>Sente que a velha fa\u00edsca desapareceu da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que ele perdeu totalmente o interesse por si?<\/p>\n<p>If these are the things you think about, it is time to give up on him because he obviously doesn\u2019t give you what you crave.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you don\u2019t think that you will ever meet someone new, someone who will know to cherish you, you are not right.<\/p>\n<p>The man who thinks you are worthy will come along. But you know, good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Imploras pelo seu amor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96699\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenciosa a abra\u00e7ar um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se tiver de lhe implorar o amor e o afeto que s\u00e3o uma parte normal de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o j\u00e1 n\u00e3o vale a pena tentar essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Se fores o \u00fanico a amar, a tentar e a fazer um esfor\u00e7o, n\u00e3o faz sentido continuar esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Se um homem v\u00ea que voc\u00ea precisa dele e se afasta, \u00e9 sinal de que algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem e que voc\u00ea estaria melhor sem ele.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esperas que ele mude<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96700\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa coloca a cabe\u00e7a nas costas de um homem enquanto este se encontra no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se sofrer em sil\u00eancio, esperando que ele mude, ent\u00e3o n\u00e3o vale a pena lutar por essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, your man doesn\u2019t cherish you and he does things his way, not even thinking about what you will say about it.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, quando descobres toda a merda que ele fez para te magoar, perdoas-lhe porque, foda-se, ainda o amas, e rezas a Deus para que ele mude.<\/p>\n<p>Darling, let me tell you something: He will never change. If you let him, he will lead you on and he won\u2019t even feel remorse about that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O seu instinto diz-lhe que algo est\u00e1 errado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de vestido branco apoiada no joelho, olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know that small voice inside you telling you what is wrong and what isn\u2019t? What does it say right now?<\/p>\n<p>Nada de bom, certo? Provavelmente diz que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o vale a pena lutar e que deve deix\u00e1-lo e encontrar algu\u00e9m que a fa\u00e7a realmente feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Diz-lhe para desistir do homem que j\u00e1 desistiu de si h\u00e1 muito tempo e para se p\u00f4r finalmente em primeiro lugar. Se eu fosse a si, ouvia-a porque nunca est\u00e1 errada!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96703 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 Sinais dolorosos de que est\u00e1 na altura de desistir dele\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t think that this will ever happen, but here you are now, thinking if you should stay with him or find your own happiness. And you think and think, but you can\u2019t think of anything smart. A part of you still loves him while the other part is hurt deeply by his behavior&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":96691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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