{"id":20018,"date":"2020-09-20T13:15:14","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T13:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20018"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:15:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:15:02","slug":"eis-o-que-acontece-quando-aquele-que-fugiu-regressa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eis-o-que-acontece-quando-aquele-que-fugiu-regressa\/","title":{"rendered":"Eis o que acontece quando aquele que se foi embora regressa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando olha para o seu vida amorosa <\/a> from this point of view, you can say you\u2019ve had a rich dating experience.<\/p>\n

Foram muitos os rapazes que passaram pela tua vida. Gostaste menos de uns e mais de outros e podes dizer que amaste alguns. E alguns amaram-te tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Mas h\u00e1 um tipo que sempre se destacou, o \u00fanico tipo que era especial e diferente de todos os outros.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you come to think about it, you don\u2019t know what made him so unique. It wasn\u2019t his looks, it probably wasn\u2019t his brains either.<\/p>\n

When you look at things realistically, it wasn\u2019t his personality that made him stand out from all these other men in your life.<\/p>\n

O que torna este tipo diferente \u00e9 como ele te fez sentir.<\/b><\/p>\n

E \u00e9 um facto que se sente como ele fugiu de si<\/a>. Sentimos que ele nos escapou por entre as m\u00e3os, como se tivesse permanecido sempre inating\u00edvel e inalcan\u00e7\u00e1vel para n\u00f3s, apesar de o termos tido. <\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, n\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de pensar em tudo o que poderia ter acontecido entre voc\u00eas os dois e em como as vossas vidas poderiam ter sido.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Sim, tiveste outros homens na tua vida depois dele. E amou-o depois dele.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t even say you miss him all the time and that you actively think of him.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, independentemente do que aconte\u00e7a na sua vida, ele existe algures no fundo da sua mente. Independentemente do tipo de homem com quem andas, d\u00e1s sempre por ti a compar\u00e1-lo com esse homem.<\/b><\/p>\n

Independentemente do que estejamos a passar, perguntamo-nos sempre como seria se esse homem voltasse para n\u00f3s.<\/b><\/p>\n

Assume que os dois seriam finalmente felizes se tivessem uma segunda oportunidade. Assume que tudo se resolveria na segunda vez. Que desta vez tudo daria certo, se tivessem a oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que est\u00e3o enganados.<\/p>\n

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but the truth is that you don\u2019t love this guy<\/b>\u2014<\/b>s\u00f3 gosta da ideia dele, s\u00f3 gosta da mem\u00f3ria dele e <\/b>sentir falta da sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar apaixonado<\/b> <\/a>com ele.<\/b><\/p>\n

You think of this man because nobody after him provoked the same intensity of emotions inside of you. But that doesn\u2019t mean it won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

And it definitely doesn\u2019t mean this guy is your soulmate and the person you are meant to be with.<\/p>\n

Veria isso com os seus pr\u00f3prios olhos se ele voltasse para si.<\/p>\n

You hold on to him and to the idea that your relationship with him would have worked out if he hadn’t gotten away and you idealize everything that went on between the two of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se lembra das coisas boas e das belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es e ignora completamente tudo o que de mau aconteceu.<\/p>\n

You think that your life would have been different if he hadn\u2019t left you or if he came back. You think you would be happier and that everything would be better.<\/p>\n

But the truth is that it probably wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you probably wouldn\u2019t know what to do with this guy if he came back to you, because he wouldn\u2019t be the same man you pictured in your head.<\/p>\n

Because there is a reason the two of you didn\u2019t work out.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

E mesmo se ele voltasse a rastejar <\/a> , you two would still be facing the same problems you had. You two would still have your differences and you wouldn\u2019t be complete.<\/p>\n

Because he is not perfect and he wouldn\u2019t give you the perfect life you crave. He is a man made of flesh and he has his flaws.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que esse homem s\u00f3 existe na sua imagina\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que conhecias e tu j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s a rapariga que o amava.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, you two don\u2019t know each other any longer because you are not the people you were. You have different opinions, attitudes and habits.<\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, parem de fantasiar sobre este tipo e sobre como as coisas poderiam ter sido entre voc\u00eas os dois, porque isso \u00e9 tudo menos realidade.<\/b><\/p>\n

Instead, focus on your present and future because this won\u2019t lead you anywhere.<\/p>\n

Deixem este tipo no passado, onde ele pertence. Aprecie-o como uma mem\u00f3ria distante e am\u00e1vel, porque ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada mais do que isso.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Eis<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you look at your love life from this point of view, you can say you\u2019ve had a rich dating experience. There were numerous boys who passed through your life. You liked some of them less and some more and you can say you loved some. And some loved you back. But there is this…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":119764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20018"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20018\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}