{"id":20034,"date":"2020-06-21T07:06:19","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T07:06:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20034"},"modified":"2022-06-22T23:03:25","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T23:03:25","slug":"guia-passo-a-passo-para-ignorar-um-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/guia-passo-a-passo-para-ignorar-um-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Guia passo a passo para ignorar um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you think that by ignoring a narcissist you\u2019ve saved yourself from him, remember that is only the tip of the iceberg. So many more things will be going on afterward. It\u2019s even safe to say that it\u2019s only the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>You think that you\u2019ve gotten rid of him for good, but his rage and anger at being ignored will only spread and he will become even worse than he already was.<\/p>\n<p>Narcissists don\u2019t know how to love anyone because deep inside, they are emotionally crippled. They have probably had a trauma or any kind of fault when they were younger which led them to become insensitive beings, seriously lacking in empathy.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Assim, quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/guia-definitivo-para-ignorar-a-detecao-de-narcisistas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ignorar um narcisista<\/a>, be prepared for the battle of your life because that is when they go all in! Their behavior will escalate because their egos can\u2019t stand the fact that they are being rejected.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quando o cortarmos e deixarmos de ter contacto, ele sentir\u00e1 a enorme dor da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 que os narcisistas alimentam-se da sua energia. Eles sugam-na at\u00e9 ao tutano e precisam de o fazer para sobreviver.<\/p>\n<p>So, when you deny them their source of life (you), they are not going to be happy about it. It\u2019s difficult to say what will happen afterward, but be prepared for basically anything and everything.<\/p>\n<p>They will come at you with all they\u2019ve got. They will bad-mouth you to others.<\/p>\n<p>They will stalk you and find any kind of excuse to talk to you. And if you let them come near you, they won\u2019t have any problems crawling back into your life and manipulating you all over again.<\/p>\n<p>If you are in a situation where you simply can\u2019t go <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/4-coisas-que-acontecem-quando-se-deixa-de-ter-contacto-com-um-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">n\u00e3o ter contacto com um narcisista<\/a> because you\u2019re working with them, they are a member of your family, or you have children with them and you don\u2019t have a choice but to stay in contact with them, don\u2019t give them any reason to come near you or to talk to you about anything except standard, daily things.<\/p>\n<p>They will try to engage you in conversations by pretending they are sincerely interested in how you\u2019ve been and what\u2019s going on in your life, but be strong and answer with as few words as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, be appealing as a gray rock\u2014meaning: be as boring as hell. Show them that you are no longer interested and they won\u2019t benefit from manipulating you.<\/p>\n<p>Chama-se a isto o M\u00e9todo da Rocha Cinzenta e normalmente funciona, mas apenas se seguir todas as regras.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t afford to make even a tiny mistake when dealing with a narcissist because that mistake can cost you your life and all the effort you\u2019ve invested in your healing process will go down the drain.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, em primeiro lugar, como ignorar um narcisista? Siga a regra passo a passo para conseguir chegar \u00e0 fase de lidar com ele depois.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Ignora-o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like dealing with a bully. If you don\u2019t give them a reason to pick on you, they won\u2019t. Be as uninteresting as possible.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e3o tentar provocar-te. Utilizar\u00e3o todos os meios poss\u00edveis para obter uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o da tua parte, mas tens de te manter forte. Tens de resistir \u00e0s suas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-subtle-signs-of-manipulation-in-a-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">manipula\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> e temos de ficar surdos aos seus insultos e palavras duras.<\/p>\n<p>Even if the things they are saying to you are not true, and they aren\u2019t, you mustn\u2019t fall into their trap and try to defend yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Swallow it up and ignore them. After some time, they will see they don\u2019t have any power with you anymore and they will leave you alone.<\/p>\n<p>But, until you get there, just be strong and don\u2019t let them provoke or come near you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relacionadas: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/durante-quanto-tempo-e-que-um-narcisista-o-ignora\/\">Quanto tempo \u00e9 que um narcisista o vai ignorar? (+Porque \u00e9 que o fazem e como os fazer parar)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Don\u2019t seek revenge<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll hurt them the most by not giving them your attention. If the circumstances were normal and someone who is not a narcissist hurt you, your first reaction would be revenge.<\/p>\n<p>You would want to get even with the person who did you harm. But, that tactic won\u2019t work with a narcissistic person.<\/p>\n<p>By engaging in contact with them and trying to hurt them, you\u2019re only exposing yourself to getting hurt again by their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/abuso-narcisico\/\">abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> t\u00e1cticas. O contacto \u00e9 tudo o que eles precisam para voltar a entrar na sua vida e manipul\u00e1-lo novamente.<\/p>\n<p>If you really want to hurt him, you have to start your healing process and ignore him while you\u2019re at it. This is what will destroy him the most.<\/p>\n<p>You have to give him no attention and show him that his life doesn\u2019t interest you. Don\u2019t try to find out what he\u2019s been up to or whether he is hurting without you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ask around or try to see for yourself. That will give him importance and reason to strike at you again.<\/p>\n<p>Desligue-se dele e apague-o completamente da sua mente. Essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de o esquecer de uma vez por todas.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Don\u2019t fight with him<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This is only bait. It\u2019s his tactic with which he is trying to find out whether you\u2019re still into him or not. He will provoke you and drive you crazy with false accusations.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t even have to say it to your face. He will use your friends and social media to get into your head. The worst thing you can do is answer his provocations.<\/p>\n<p>Let it slide and ignore everything he is saying about you. If you\u2019re worried what other people will say to his lies, don\u2019t be.<\/p>\n<p>People that are important to you and who love you know what happened and who is the victim and they will never turn their backs on you. And the ones who do, screw them\u2014you don\u2019t need them anyway.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Don\u2019t serve them your energy on a plate<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, as pessoas enchem a sua energia com coisas positivas. Rodeiam-se de amigos e usam o amor e os pensamentos positivos para recuperar a sua energia.<\/p>\n<p>But narcissists do the opposite. They recharge themselves through someone else\u2019s pain and suffering. They need chaos in their lives to feel happy and satisfied.<\/p>\n<p>Narcissists are not happy with themselves. They are miserable and that\u2019s why they can\u2019t stand other people being happy.<\/p>\n<p>They need chaos and disorder around them, so they can feel that it\u2019s not only them who are miserable. There are others.<\/p>\n<p>The catch is they are the reason why people around them suffer. So when you take the bait and involve yourself in discussions with them, you\u2019re only feeding them and raising their energy levels through your pain and frustration.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow them to provoke you and evoke pain which only feeds them and makes them even stronger. Be happy and stay positive. Hurt them that way.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Tu \u00e9s a personagem principal desta hist\u00f3ria<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s o bom e ele \u00e9 o mau da fita. \u00c9 suposto a hist\u00f3ria acabar bem para ti, porque o bem vence sempre o mal.<\/p>\n<p>He can have his chances to beat you, but in the end, you\u2019re stronger than him. You don\u2019t have to go on looking for tools and trying to find solutions to get rid of him.<\/p>\n<p>You have had it in you this whole time. You are the main tool for beating him. Stay true to yourself and understand that nothing and no one can hurt you if you don\u2019t let them.<\/p>\n<p>Usa a bondade do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e usa todo o amor que tens contra ele. Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3pria porque essa \u00e9 a melhor vingan\u00e7a que podes ter.<\/p>\n<p>Respeite-se a si pr\u00f3pria e ele nunca mais voltar\u00e1 para a magoar. Transforme o seu pesadelo numa bela hist\u00f3ria com um final feliz. \u00c9s a \u00fanica que tem o poder de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24609 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Guy-Who-Sees-All-Her-Mess-And-Still-Thinks-Shes-Worthy-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Guia passo a passo para ignorar um narcisista\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Guy-Who-Sees-All-Her-Mess-And-Still-Thinks-Shes-Worthy-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Guy-Who-Sees-All-Her-Mess-And-Still-Thinks-Shes-Worthy-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Guy-Who-Sees-All-Her-Mess-And-Still-Thinks-Shes-Worthy-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you think that by ignoring a narcissist you\u2019ve saved yourself from him, remember that is only the tip of the iceberg. So many more things will be going on afterward. It\u2019s even safe to say that it\u2019s only the beginning. You think that you\u2019ve gotten rid of him for good, but his rage and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":20035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/tanja-heffner-321381-unsplash.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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