{"id":20044,"date":"2020-07-21T08:50:35","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T08:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20044"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:56:19","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:56:19","slug":"ser-suficientemente-forte-para-se-afastar-de-um-manipulador-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-suficientemente-forte-para-se-afastar-de-um-manipulador-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"Seja forte o suficiente para se afastar de um manipulador t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que ainda o amas.<\/strong><\/em> E tamb\u00e9m sei que ainda queres que ele seja a pessoa com quem vais passar o resto da tua vida, mas, passo a passo, vais perceber que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem certo para ti.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s cega de amor por ele, mas o seu mau comportamento para contigo vai abrir-te os olhos. Ver\u00e1s como ele manipulou-a<\/a> e fez-te sentir mal durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n

You will realize that all this time, he didn\u2019t make any effort to make you happy. He just kept you close with his lies every time when he would feel like you are leaving.<\/p>\n

Ele enganava-a de tantas formas que a fazia perder-se completamente por causa de um homem t\u00f3xico como ele.<\/p>\n

So, I am begging you: don\u2019t listen to what he has to say.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t let him lead you on one more time. You are much smarter than that.<\/p>\n

If you could just think with your head instead of with your heart, you wouldn\u2019t have been hurt. If you could just open your eyes in time and see what he put you through.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He put you through hell and he called it love. Don\u2019t you know that you deserve better? And yes, you hear well, um homem<\/em> est\u00e1 a dizer-te que mereces muito mais do que ele te pode dar.<\/p>\n

Mesmo sendo um homem, consigo sentir a vossa dor.<\/strong> <\/em>Consigo v\u00ea-lo no fundo dos teus olhos. Sei que est\u00e1s a tentar escond\u00ea-lo com o teu sorriso, mas n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a resultar.<\/p>\n

Sempre que queres sorrir \u00e0 tua dor, os teus l\u00e1bios come\u00e7am a tremer como se estivesses prestes a chorar.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t try to fool me. I know very well what it looks like when a woman smiles with her heart and when she smiles with the pain that is inside her.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quero que saibas que deve deix\u00e1-lo<\/a> e ter uma vida melhor para si.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that nobody will want you because he once broke you. Even if you are broken, you will be someone\u2019s perfect woman.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Vir\u00e1 um homem que ver\u00e1 como \u00e9s digna.<\/p>\n

There will come a man who won\u2019t fix you but who will love all your broken pieces.<\/strong><\/em> E um homem assim ser\u00e1 verdadeiramente digno do vosso amor.<\/p>\n

But if you stay with the wrong one, you won\u2019t have a chance to meet the right one.<\/p>\n

Por isso, ganhe coragem suficiente para se afastar desse manipulador t\u00f3xico que \u00e9 arruinando a sua vida<\/a>. Afasta-te do homem que te leva \u00e0 morte emocional sempre que te negligencia.<\/p>\n

Afasta-te do homem que nem sequer \u00e9 capaz de se amar a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t choose to stay with someone who doesn\u2019t ask for any help and who pushes you away when you come closer.<\/p>\n

Afasta-te de um homem que nunca trat\u00e1-lo como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>mas tu estar\u00e1s sempre em segundo lugar para ele.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with the man who will never die for you and who will never be madly in love with you. And whatever you do, don\u2019t blame yourself for his behavior.<\/p>\n

O que est\u00e1 em causa \u00e9 ele e n\u00e3o tu. Ele \u00e9 que precisa de se recompor e, quando te fores embora, ele vai perceber que tipo de mulher perdeu.<\/p>\n

Once you walk away from him, he will be so lost because he won\u2019t have anyone to feed on.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Quando te fores embora, ele morrer\u00e1 com o seu esp\u00edrito porque jogou fora a melhor mulher que existe.<\/p>\n

Se decidires afastar-te dele, mas as suas m\u00e3os t\u00f3xicas tentarem impedir-te, lembra-te disto:<\/p>\n

Mereces ser amado. Mereces ser perseguido. Mereces que cuidem de ti. Mereces ser respeitado. E mereces que tudo isso aconte\u00e7a naturalmente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Since he never provided any of that to you, bite your lip and close the door once you leave him. Pretend that you don\u2019t hear him calling your name.<\/p>\n

Finge que n\u00e3o \u00e9s a desmoronar-se<\/a> because all that you had is now ruined. Pretend that you don\u2019t love him anymore and don\u2019t let him see that tear that is running down your cheek.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the pleasure to see your breakdown. Because if he sees that you are weak, he will try to win you back. He will come up with a million reasons for you to stay.<\/p>\n

He will use his claws to bring you to him again. But don\u2019t allow him to do that because I know you are strong enough to walk away from him. I know what I am talking about.<\/p>\n

If you go back to him knowing you shouldn\u2019t<\/a> ele voltar\u00e1 a maltratar-te.<\/strong> <\/em>Ele vai fazer com que te sintas mal outra vez e nunca te dar\u00e1 o amor que desejas.<\/p>\n

Life with him will be like a battle lost in advance, so please don\u2019t do that to yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que ainda o ame, afaste-se dele porque a situa\u00e7\u00e3o nunca vai melhorar.<\/p>\n

I know that he doesn\u2019t love you anymore. I can see that by the things he has done to make you cry. I know that from his every look toward you when you smile.<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 quer apagar esse sorriso do teu rosto e ver-te triste.<\/strong><\/em> Ele quer que te sintas culpada por todos os problemas que voc\u00eas t\u00eam e quer fazer com que te sintas um lixo.<\/p>\n

Because if you feel that way, you won\u2019t be strong enough. If you feel that way, you will always try to find comfort in him.<\/p>\n

And he will be there just to tell you that he won\u2019t give you what you need, but he will a coward to let you go.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t wait for him to embarrass you and hurt you once more. Leave while it is time; leave while you have at least a little bit of pride.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Because he can take it all away from you, but he can\u2019t touch your pride.<\/p>\n

E quando sa\u00edres, ver\u00e1s que as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o como ele dizia que eram.<\/strong> <\/em>Ver\u00e1s que h\u00e1 vida sem ele.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1 que pode respirar sem ele, amar sem ele e ser feliz sem ele.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1 que est\u00e1 muito bem sozinha e que ele foi apenas uma li\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil que teve de aprender.<\/p>\n

Quando vires que a vida pode ser bela sem ele, lembra-te das minhas palavras: que \u00e9s digna e que \u00e9s mais do que suficiente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know that you tend to avoid men\u2019s opinions after what you had with him, but I am begging you to listen to me this time.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sei que se sente insegura e que tem medo que o amor n\u00e3o volte a aparecer na sua vida. Sei que ele abalou a sua auto-confian\u00e7a e que duvida de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am here to tell you that I am proud of you for walking away from a man who was your whole world but who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n

E espero que apare\u00e7a um homem que veja como \u00e9s espantosa, tal como eu te estou a ver agora.<\/p>\n

Por isso, quando ele vier, sentir\u00e1 que \u00e9 a pessoa certa. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Finalmente, encontrar\u00e1s nele tudo o que tens procurado durante todo este tempo. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And this time, his love won\u2019t be manipulation. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

O seu amor ser\u00e1 real. O Seu amor sentir-se-\u00e1 como em casa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Seja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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