{"id":20072,"date":"2020-06-21T12:42:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T12:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20072"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:45:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:45:04","slug":"e-assim-que-se-reconhece-um-homem-destrocado-com-bagagem-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-reconhece-um-homem-destrocado-com-bagagem-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se reconhece um homem destro\u00e7ado e com bagagem emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se ouve falar de homens desfeitos, parte-se do princ\u00edpio de que se \u00e9 capaz de os reconhecer imediatamente, \u00e0 primeira vista. Assume que este tipo de homem nunca a poderia enganar e que, pelo menos, a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o lhe diria que algo estava errado.<\/p>\n

But trust me\u2014that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

When you first meet a damaged guy who carries a lot of emotional baggage within himself, you will have no idea about everything he\u2019s been through. Instead, he will act like any other guy.<\/p>\n

Actually, he even might act better than any man you\u2019ve met before him. You might think you\u2019ve finally found the man of your dreams and that he is everything you\u2019ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n

But as time goes by, you\u2019ll see some sinais de que ele est\u00e1 quebrado<\/a>. You\u2019ll see that there is something bothering him, deeply hidden inside of him. And you\u2019ll try to figure out what this is.<\/p>\n

Apesar de cada indiv\u00edduo ser diferente, todos os homens quebrados t\u00eam algumas coisas em comum.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, este homem ser\u00e1 provavelmente misterioso consigo. Ele ser\u00e1 reservado em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu passado e \u00e0s suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019ll assume he is just pretending to be this tough guy and that he might not be in touch with his feelings. You\u2019ll think that he is afraid of looking too desperate and less of a man in front of you and that is why he pretends to be cold.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019ll try very hard to get to the bottom of this. You\u2019ll want to know what is hiding behind this mask and you\u2019ll want to meet the man who is hidden deep inside of this guy. You\u2019ll want to meet the real him.<\/p>\n

E embora o seu lado misterioso devesse afugentar-te, na verdade vai aproximar-te ainda mais dele.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that this guy is cold toward everyone and you\u2019ll have the urge to change that. You\u2019ll have the urge to prove to him and to yourself that you can become special to him\u2014that you can be the only person in this world he trusts and can open up to.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think he is special and his love is special, because he apparently isn\u2019t giving it away to just anyone who comes into his life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mesmo quando se aceita que ele est\u00e1 emocionalmente afetado<\/a>, you\u2019ll want to prove that you are the only one worthy of his love and trust. You\u2019ll want to prove to yourself that you have a special place in his life, that you are different from everyone else and that you\u2019ll manage to do some things nobody before you has.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never know much about this guy\u2019s dating history, about his traumas from the past, about his trust issues, his insecurities or his anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n

Whenever this guy feels bad, he\u2019ll want you to stay away.<\/b> He might simply disappear on you, wanting some time for himself because he feels like he can\u2019t trust anyone and that he can solve his problems on his own.<\/p>\n

Embora no in\u00edcio este homem possa fingir que tem muita confian\u00e7a, a verdade \u00e9 que, no fundo, ele sente que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom para si. <\/b>A verdade \u00e9 que ele \u00e9 emocionalmente inseguro<\/a> e que se compara a todos os outros homens, mas tenta disfar\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never know his weaknesses and you\u2019ll rarely see his vulnerable side.<\/b> Pode pensar que ele tem vergonha de lhe mostrar este lado dele, mas a verdade \u00e9 que ele tem medo.<\/p>\n

This guy is terrified to give you his heart and to open up to you, because he is certain you\u2019ll use all of this against him, despite the fact that you\u2019ve never done anything that could make him think or feel this way.<\/p>\n

Sei que esta \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que ele quer que saiba, mas a verdade \u00e9 que este homem sofre de um trauma de abandono. A verdade \u00e9 que ele foi magoado e prejudicado no passado e perdeu a confian\u00e7a nas pessoas, especialmente nas mulheres.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple\u2014he assumes that every woman who comes into his life will break him even more and will hurt him the same way someone toxic from his past did.<\/p>\n

Por isso, criou um escudo, uma fachada para se proteger de toda a gente, o que o tornou emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel.<\/b><\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll have to be pretty damn special to change that.<\/b> <\/p>\n

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