{"id":20099,"date":"2020-10-22T09:00:05","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T09:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20099"},"modified":"2022-09-26T12:21:34","modified_gmt":"2022-09-26T12:21:34","slug":"7-razoes-pelas-quais-tantos-homens-sofrem-de-problemas-de-compromisso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-tantos-homens-sofrem-de-problemas-de-compromisso\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais tantos homens sofrem de problemas de compromisso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e parece que as coisas nunca avan\u00e7am, deve estar a perguntar-se porque \u00e9 que isso acontece.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably thinking it\u2019s all your fault because you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s true but maybe it\u2019s not you at all. I know it\u2019s not fair to blame it on men all the time but in this case, if you\u2019re clean and not guilty for your relationship fallout, then it must be him.<\/p>\n

E desta vez \u00e9. Ele tem medo de se comprometer<\/a> para si e n\u00e3o s\u00f3 para si, mas para quase toda a gente.<\/p>\n

No entanto, isto pode ser resolvido, mas apenas se souber qual \u00e9 o verdadeiro problema e porque \u00e9 que ele tem medo de investir na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e de lhe dar uma oportunidade de se tornar eterna.<\/p>\n

E se quiser descobrir qual \u00e9 o verdadeiro problema, tem de se oferecer para o ajudar, para que possa tentar resolver o problema.<\/p>\n

O problema dele remonta ao seu passado. Ele tem medo de se comprometer porque provavelmente teve problemas no amor, com um membro da fam\u00edlia ou com um amigo.<\/p>\n

Once you find the cause, you\u2019ll be able to find the solution, too. But only if he wants to cooperate and if he is honest with you.<\/p>\n

As raz\u00f5es pelas quais tantos homens t\u00eam medo do compromisso podem ser:<\/p>\n

Medo de rejei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Muitos homens t\u00eam simplesmente medo de amar algu\u00e9m porque tiveram uma m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia amorosa no passado.<\/p>\n

They may have loved someone but that person walked out on them or didn\u2019t love them back, which caused them to never trust anyone again.<\/p>\n

Foram magoados e agora \u00e9 preciso tempo para se abrirem e voltarem a confiar em algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Medo de falhar<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Some men are scared they are not going to fulfill the other person\u2019s expectations.<\/p>\n

They are scared that their relationship is not going to work and since they want everything to be perfect and this relationship potentially won\u2019t be, they will avoid it to avoid failure.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 sempre uma escolha<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Some men are just cowards. Instead of fighting and trying to work out problems, it\u2019s easier for them to just break up and find someone who won\u2019t object to their demands and someone who will do whatever they say.<\/p>\n

So they won\u2019t commit because it\u2019s easier to find someone else who will do as they say. In this case, don\u2019t waste your time trying to \u2018fix\u2019 him because it\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

Medo de abandono<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Este medo desenvolve-se devido a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada que um homem teve. Ele apaixonou-se antes de si e talvez tenha pensado que era s\u00f3 isso.<\/p>\n

Maybe he thought that he had found the right one and that \u2018right one\u2019 dumped him on his birthday, let\u2019s say.<\/p>\n

Whatever she has done to him, it has caused him to be scared of abandonment. That\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t apegam-se t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tem medo de que, se o fizer, a pessoa com quem est\u00e1 o deixe e tenha de passar por todo o processo de cura outra vez.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to lose their independence<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Some men think that dating will take away their independence. They don\u2019t understand that dating is basically sharing and mutual helping. It\u2019s not about who obeys whom.<\/p>\n

They have these independence issues because they don\u2019t want to depend on anyone, especially a woman.<\/p>\n

What they don\u2019t understand is that they don\u2019t depend on a woman but they are in a relationship where both of them are equal.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t let go of the past<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

If a man who is in a relationship has commitment issues, it\u2019s possible that he suffers from it because he is already committed to someone else.<\/p>\n

Maybe he fell in love long time ago and that relationship failed and although it failed he can\u2019t let go of the past. He can\u2019t force himself to stop loving whoever broke his heart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he can\u2019t commit to you. His heart belongs to someone else who sadly rejected him.<\/p>\n

Se trope\u00e7ar numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o como esta, o melhor que tem a fazer \u00e9 afastar-se, porque \u00e9 voc\u00ea que vai acabar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido se ficar.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t like you enough to commit<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to hear it but sometimes it\u2019s true. Sometimes, it\u2019s as simple as that\u2014he doesn\u2019t like you enough to commit.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change that and you can\u2019t talk about this to him because you won\u2019t be able to change his mind.<\/p>\n

He likes you, he thinks you\u2019re fun, your relationship is cute but it isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to admit it to yourself and deal with it in your mind so you can move on, than to suffer and torture yourself by staying in a relationship with a man who will never love you.<\/p>\n

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If you are in a relationship and things never seem to move forward, you\u2019re probably wondering why that is happening. You\u2019re probably thinking it\u2019s all your fault because you\u2019re doing something wrong. Maybe that\u2019s true but maybe it\u2019s not you at all. I know it\u2019s not fair to blame it on men all the time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124526,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Reasons-Why-So-Many-Men-Suffer-From-Commitment-Issues-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20099"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20099\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}