{"id":20106,"date":"2020-05-22T10:29:47","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T10:29:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20106"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:14:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:14:22","slug":"7-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-ele-nao-quer-que-voce-seja-sua-namorada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-ele-nao-quer-que-voce-seja-sua-namorada\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Sinais dolorosos de que ele n\u00e3o quer que voc\u00ea seja sua namorada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You want a boyfriend and you\u2019ve been searching for the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-adorable-signs-he-wants-you-to-be-his-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> sinais de que ele quer que sejas a sua namorada<\/a>, too, but you can\u2019t seem to find any?<\/p>\n<p>Well, maybe he really doesn\u2019t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you.<\/p>\n<p>This happens all the time and you are not the only one who\u2019s faced with this problem.<\/p>\n<p>Muitos homens d\u00e3o sinais de que gostam de si, mas quando come\u00e7a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, nota uma falta de interesse e acaba por ser voc\u00ea a tomar conta de tudo. Tu \u00e9s a \u00fanica que est\u00e1 a tentar fazer com que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a diferen\u00e7a entre os homens que est\u00e3o interessados em sair consigo e os que est\u00e3o apenas \u00e0 procura de divers\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o grande. Muitas vezes, pode misturar os sinais e interpret\u00e1-los da forma que mais lhe conv\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>So, to escape a potential catastrophe and run away in time, read the signs he doesn\u2019t want you to be his girlfriend:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o t\u00e3o diferentes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94088\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher jovem e de um homem ao ar livre na rua com problemas de relacionamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the reasons he doesn\u2019t want you to be his girlfriend can be that the two of you are very different.<\/p>\n<p>Podem ter sistemas de cren\u00e7as diferentes, ou ser vegetariano e ele n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what is at stake, if it bothers him, he won\u2019t be able to let it go that easily. Maybe he is shy and you are outgoing, it really doesn\u2019t matter as long as it\u2019s different.<\/p>\n<p>Most people don\u2019t see these differences as things that can bring you together even closer, things that can teach you a thing or two; they look at them as things they won\u2019t be able to handle, things that will destroy a potential relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94089\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"casal s\u00e9rio em p\u00e9 no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he refuses to define what kind of relationship you\u2019re in, then he definitely doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably just stringing you along because he doesn\u2019t have the courage to say to your face that it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<p>Os rapazes que querem estar consigo dir-lhe-\u00e3o isso e os que s\u00f3 querem uma coisa tamb\u00e9m lhe dar\u00e3o pistas de que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o passa de um engate.<\/p>\n<p>Os mais perigosos s\u00e3o aqueles que se recusam a rotul\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t show interest in you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem ignora a namorada e usa o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t mean sexual interest, I mean that he is not interested in what kind of a person you are.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t ask questions about your life and he is not interested in your past.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care whether you\u2019ve dated one guy or twenty. He doesn\u2019t care if you have a brother or sister and he really doesn\u2019t care about your hobbies.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who is into you will put the effort into trying to find out what you like and don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>Ele esfor\u00e7ar-se-\u00e1 por descobrir coisas sobre si porque se preocupa genuinamente consigo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele nunca te liga<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94091\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher desesperada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He only texts you and that is a clear sign that he doesn\u2019t want to communicate with you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to make your relationship deeper, he wants to keep you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n<p>Texting someone only means you\u2019re trying to avoid communication with that person.<\/p>\n<p>And why is someone trying to avoid communication? He doesn\u2019t care enough to get involved so much.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to introduce you to his friends<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher ao lado de homem com chap\u00e9u preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to involve you in his personal life. Friends are like family and if you don\u2019t mean that much to him, he won\u2019t introduce you to them.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want them to meet you because he is not planning on keeping you around that long, so why then bother introducing you to them?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t care about impressing you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para um homem enquanto se apoia numa veda\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care about your opinions because he is not interested in a long-term relationship with you and that\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t even bother impressing you.<\/p>\n<p>He basically doesn\u2019t care about what you think about him because he is probably just keeping you as a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/11-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-nao-es-nada-mais-do-que-o-plano-de-reserva-dele\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">plano de reserva<\/a>. He probably only wants you for sex and nothing else and he doesn\u2019t care about your opinions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He doesn\u2019t mention the future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together.jpg\" alt=\"casal de jovens pessoas juntas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is not specific any time you talk about the future, like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n<p>Is it to stay with you or to be with someone else? There are no future plans that involve you. That is the worst sign you can get from a man that you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n<p>Quando lhe perguntamos o que tenciona fazer no futuro, ele d\u00e1-nos respostas vagas.<\/p>\n<p>He does this because he doesn\u2019t want to include you in his plans, which means <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/6-sinais-de-partir-o-coracao-de-que-ele-nao-esta-interessado-em-si\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em si<\/a> tanto assim.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94086 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 sinais dolorosos de que ele n\u00e3o quer que voc\u00ea seja sua namorada\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You want a boyfriend and you\u2019ve been searching for the signs he wants you to be his girlfriend, too, but you can\u2019t seem to find any? Well, maybe he really doesn\u2019t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you. This happens all the time and you are not the only&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":94087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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