{"id":20145,"date":"2020-09-25T08:04:16","date_gmt":"2020-09-25T08:04:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20145"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:10:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:10:24","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-ele-nao-precisa-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-ele-nao-precisa-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que quer voltar para ele: Tu n\u00e3o precisas dele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tens saudades dele. Tens saudades da forma como ele te abra\u00e7ava, fazendo-te sentir s\u00e3 e salva. Tens saudades da sua voz e da forma como ele dizia o teu nome.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sinto-falta-do-teu-sorriso-mas-sinto-ainda-mais-falta-do-meu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tem saudades dele<\/a>. I get it. There is a lot to miss because all those memories that are piled up inside you make you think that you might have left an amazing person but believe me\u2014you don&#8217;t need him.<\/p>\n<p>With all those tears in your eyes, you&#8217;re listening to your heart that&#8217;s telling you how you should go back to him.<\/p>\n<p>Your heart is telling you that he&#8217;s the one whom you should be looking at for the rest of your life. But please, think about it one more time. Do you really want to go through all that again?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Queres mesmo voltar para um homem que s\u00f3 te fez mal?<\/strong> Por detr\u00e1s de todas essas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es felizes que agora lhe passam pela cabe\u00e7a e que o fazem arrepender-se de ter partido, h\u00e1 uma parte que \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ignora-lo-para-chamar-a-sua-atencao-10-dicas-simples\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">optar por ignorar<\/a> and it&#8217;s the most important part.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the way he made you cry every night and the way he wasn&#8217;t even there for you to wipe away your tears.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You shouldn&#8217;t go back to a man who made you miserable.<\/strong> Por que raz\u00e3o quererias ser tocada por um homem cujas m\u00e3os cheiram a outra mulher?<\/p>\n<p>A man who isn&#8217;t even aware of what he lost? You were only miserable while you were with him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112366 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher desiludida senta-se nas escadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-stairs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Est\u00e1 preso numa batalha entre o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a sua mente. Eu conhe\u00e7o a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Como se o teu peito se estivesse a rasgar de dentro para fora enquanto o teu c\u00e9rebro te diz para continuares a afastar-te dele.<\/p>\n<p>I understand you and those thoughts that are fighting each other, never knowing who&#8217;s going to win. But trust me on this one, you don&#8217;t need him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You don&#8217;t need him and you never will.<\/strong> O que \u00e9 que ele lhe deu para al\u00e9m de l\u00e1grimas indesejadas e pequenos momentos de afeto que se revelaram sedu\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>Did he give you his comforting words and an understanding tone? No. Did he give you security, attention and love? No. He gave you nothing but wasted time that you won&#8217;t get back ever again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E d\u00f3i, mas sobreviver\u00e1s.<\/strong> <strong>Look at yourself! You&#8217;re a fighter!<\/strong> \u00c9s maravilhosa para al\u00e9m de qualquer medida, por isso, mesmo que doa, mesmo que pare\u00e7a que as tuas pernas est\u00e3o a desistir e que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o se est\u00e1 a despeda\u00e7ar, sabe que vais ficar bem. Tal como ele est\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vais ficar bem sem ele.<\/strong> Maybe even better than that, because you won&#8217;t be stuck with a man who isn&#8217;t able to love you the way you deserve and isn&#8217;t able to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/12-sinais-de-que-ele-te-quer-beijar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">beijar-vos<\/a> sem pedir algo em troca.<\/p>\n<p>In a few years all this will seem like a faded memory, which you won\u2019t even know why you were sticking to so badly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Olhar\u00e1 para tr\u00e1s e sentir-se-\u00e1 orgulhoso.<\/strong> When everything is over and your heart stops screaming out his name, when your feet don&#8217;t feel so heavy anymore and you stop shedding tears for him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112370 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com longos cabelos castanhos caminha pela rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Chegar\u00e1 o momento em que voltar\u00e1s a esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o e ser\u00e1s a pessoa mais orgulhosa do mundo, porque conseguiste! Tornaste-te mais forte e ningu\u00e9m te pode tirar isso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Leve a sua for\u00e7a consigo e continue a caminhar.<\/strong> Going back to him isn&#8217;t even an option anymore when all he did was turn you into this wreck.<\/p>\n<p>So gather all the strength you have and leave. He doesn&#8217;t deserve your mercy and he doesn&#8217;t deserve your forgiveness. He doesn&#8217;t deserve YOU!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Antes de a deixar sozinha com os seus pensamentos, deixe-me recordar-lhe aquele homem que a espera no fim desta estrada. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Um homem que s\u00f3 te quer e que te mostrar\u00e1 como uma mulher deve ser amada. Por isso, continua a caminhar, com a tua for\u00e7a, cura as tuas feridas e ele vir\u00e1. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Um verdadeiro homem que saiba tratar-te bem e que seja capaz de ver a b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o que \u00e9s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Assim <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-olhar-para-tras\/\">don&#8217;t look back<\/a>. Continua a andar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-112363 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para a rapariga que quer voltar para ele, n\u00e3o precisas dele\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You miss him. You miss the way he would hold you in his arms, making you feel safe and sound. You miss his voice and the way he would say your name. You miss him. I get it. There is a lot to miss because all those memories that are piled up inside you make&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":112360,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Go-Back-To-Him-You-Dont-Need-Him-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20145\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112360"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}