{"id":20159,"date":"2018-06-25T13:09:28","date_gmt":"2018-06-25T13:09:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20159"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:49:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:49:00","slug":"prometo-te-que-serei-o-homem-que-te-protegera-em-vez-de-abusar-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/prometo-te-que-serei-o-homem-que-te-protegera-em-vez-de-abusar-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Prometo-te que serei o homem que te proteger\u00e1, em vez de abusar de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know you\u2019ve been through a lot. You\u2019ve handled some things that not every woman can handle. You thought you had love, but actually, all you had was pain and suffering. You thought you had a real man by your side, but actually, you had a coward who used every opportunity to abuse you in every way possible.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo s\u00f3 te trouxe sofrimento. Ele diminuiu-te de todas as formas poss\u00edveis e fez da tua vida um inferno.<\/p>\n<p>Ele maltratou-a emocional e fisicamente e, depois disso, ainda tentou manipul\u00e1-la para que pensasse que tudo o que estava a acontecer era exclusivamente culpa sua. Mesmo quando mostrava sinais de remorsos, tentava convenc\u00ea-la de que tinha sido voc\u00ea a caus\u00e1-lo e que tinha sido voc\u00ea a provoc\u00e1-lo para que abusasse de si.<\/p>\n<p>E, claro, tudo isto mudou-o.<\/p>\n<p>This man played with your head and he ruined your confidence. He turned you into this negative and insecure women you never were. He convinced you that you are not worthy of anyone\u2019s love and respect and that you are basically good for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Although you\u2019ve finally realized that this abuse was never your fault, you still blame yourself. You think you are guilty for not stopping it earlier and for putting up with it for so long. You think you are obviously too weak to handle life and to fight for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Sente-se culpado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/deus-perdoa-o-abusador-ainda-amoroso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amou o seu agressor durante tanto tempo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>E, acima de tudo, isso fez com que perdesse a confian\u00e7a em todos os homens que se aproximam de si. Fez-te pensar que todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais e que nunca encontrar\u00e1s a tua felicidade no amor. Isso fez com que desistisse do amor e deixasse de acreditar num amanh\u00e3 melhor.<\/p>\n<p>And I know you\u2019ve probably heard this a thousand times and I know you don\u2019t believe me, but I really am different and I would never put you through the things this guy has.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque penso que um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/os-verdadeiros-homens-protegem-as-suas-mulheres-nao-abusam-delas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">real man can\u2019t abuse his woman<\/a>. E se o fizer, \u00e9 tudo menos um homem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Garanto-te que sou o homem que vai curar todas as tuas feridas, se decidires dar-me uma oportunidade. Que recuperarei a tua confian\u00e7a, a tua f\u00e9 no amor e, mais importante, que te ensinarei a amares-te de novo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prometo-vos que vos apoiarei e estarei ao vosso lado, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/strong> Que nunca sairei do teu lado e que te amarei tamb\u00e9m no teu pior.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prometo-te que serei o teu melhor amigo e amante.<\/strong> Que me preocuparei sempre contigo e com as tuas necessidades e que ser\u00e1s sempre a minha prioridade.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prometo-te que vou colocar toda a minha for\u00e7a e esfor\u00e7o para te fazer feliz<\/strong> porque nunca me sentiria bem comigo mesmo por te fazer infeliz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prometo-vos que serei <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/man-thinks-worthy-will-come-along\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">o homem que ver\u00e1 o teu valor<\/a>.<\/strong> That I will be the man who will see past your pain and past everything you\u2019ve been through. Because I know how valuable you are and I know that you have a lot to offer.<\/p>\n<p>E acima de tudo, <strong>Prometo-te que serei o homem que te proteger\u00e1 de tudo e de todos os que vierem <\/strong>em<strong> \u00e0 vossa maneira.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Em vez de cortar as tuas asas, eu serei o vento para elas. Em vez de vos tornar fracos, serei a vossa maior for\u00e7a. Em vez de vos prender, empurrar-vos-ei sempre para a frente. E em vez de vos desencorajar, acreditarei sempre em v\u00f3s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque \u00e9 isso que todos os homens a s\u00e9rio fazem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t believe a word I am saying. I know you assume I am just telling you all of this to get into your heart and head and so I could take better advantage of you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas s\u00f3 vos pe\u00e7o que me d\u00eaem uma oportunidade de provar que tudo o que vos prometi \u00e9 verdade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>D\u00ea-me apenas uma oportunidade de recuperar a sua f\u00e9 nos homens e de recuperar a sua f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00e1-me apenas uma oportunidade de te amar e eu farei o resto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>por Owen Scott<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you\u2019ve been through a lot. You\u2019ve handled some things that not every woman can handle. You thought you had love, but actually, all you had was pain and suffering. You thought you had a real man by your side, but actually, you had a coward who used every opportunity to abuse you in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20160,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Webp.net-resizeimage-21.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20159\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}