{"id":20186,"date":"2019-06-26T07:39:49","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T07:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:10:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:10:53","slug":"eu-sei-que-apaixonar-se-e-assustador-mas-o-homem-certo-fara-com-que-valha-a-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eu-sei-que-apaixonar-se-e-assustador-mas-o-homem-certo-fara-com-que-valha-a-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu sei que apaixonar-se \u00e9 assustador, mas o homem certo far\u00e1 com que valha a pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca foi um cobarde. Pelo contr\u00e1rio, sempre caminhou pela vida com firmeza e sem medo. Sempre foste corajoso e forte.<\/p>\n

Exceto por uma coisa.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even a ideia de se apaixonar tornou-se assustadora<\/a> para si.<\/p>\n

You justify yourself by saying that you can\u2019t force yourself to have faith in love when you\u2019ve been betrayed and hurt so many times because of it. You can\u2019t believe that love can be pure and that it can have a positive outcome on you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve even become sarcastic and pessimistic when love is in question. But if you are honest toward yourself, you\u2019ll see that you are only trying to mask your fear with this sarcasm and irony.<\/p>\n

But the way you see love is nothing unnatural, taking into consideration everything you\u2019ve been through in the past.<\/p>\n

Quando olhamos para a nossa vida amorosa e para a nossa hist\u00f3ria de amor deste ponto de vista, n\u00e3o vemos nada de positivo.<\/strong> Sim, \u00e9 claro que tem algumas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es amorosas, mas as feias prevalecem.<\/p>\n

Sadly, the pain and the sadness prevail in the rare moments of happiness you\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n

Era como se todos os homens que entravam na sua vida tivessem um objetivo oculto. Era como se todos eles apenas quisessem usar-te, magoar-te e deixar-te a lutar sozinha, enquanto eles continuavam as suas vidas.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve had different types of men in your life but somehow they all turned out to be wrong for you. Somehow, they\u2019ve all managed to hurt you in different ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E, claro, tudo o que aconteceu deixou consequ\u00eancias na tua personalidade. Mudou a tua vis\u00e3o da vida e do amor e mudou-te como pessoa.<\/p>\n

All of these men didn\u2019t just hurt you\u2014they\u2019ve made you believe that every person in this world will treat you the same. They\u2019ve made you think that you are obviously not worthy of someone loving you the right way and they\u2019ve convinced you that you shouldn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So naturally, you\u2019ve become scared and you\u2019ve prometeu a si mesmo n\u00e3o voltar a amar<\/a>. You\u2019ve become afraid of letting anyone in your life, of giving yourself to someone new and of giving men a chance.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve become petrified of trusting people and most of all, you\u2019ve become scared of falling in love, thinking it would only bring you suffering.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know you are scared and there is nothing wrong with that. I know you\u2019ve lost all faith in ever finding the man who would derrubar os vossos muros<\/a> because you think he would destroy you. I know you\u2019ve lost all faith in ever loving someone and of ever being loved.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that the right guy will make all of these fears go away, as if they never existed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele dar-te-\u00e1 todo o seu amor e apoio e far-te-\u00e1 compreender que podes sempre contar com ele, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer. Ele far\u00e1 o seu dever de a convencer de que \u00e9 algu\u00e9m em quem pode confiar.<\/p>\n

Ele far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para lhe mostrar que nunca sair\u00e1 do seu lado e que ficar\u00e1 consigo para o que der e vier.<\/p>\n

Este homem nunca te far\u00e1 duvidar da sua lealdade ou do amor que sente por ti. Ele nunca te far\u00e1 questionar o teu valor e nunca te far\u00e1 implorar pelo seu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And most importantly\u2014he will always fulfill his promises. He will never back out on you nor will he leave you hanging.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, ele apoiar\u00e1 sempre as suas palavras, mostrando-lhe que pode confiar nele.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca far\u00e1 nada para a magoar deliberadamente, porque ter\u00e1 sempre em considera\u00e7\u00e3o as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

E, finalmente, este homem nunca a abandonar\u00e1 e esfor\u00e7ar-se-\u00e1 por lhe provar que \u00e9 diferente de todos os outros.<\/p>\n

I know you think a guy like this doesn\u2019t exist. And even if he does, that he won\u2019t happen to you.<\/p>\n

But trust me\u2014all of this is just in your head. Because this guy will come along when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

When he comes, he\u2019ll show you why it never worked out with all of these men from your past. And he\u2019ll make you understand that everything you went through was worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque todas as pequenas coisas na tua vida, todos os tipos errados e todos os passos errados que deste, levaram-te at\u00e9 ele.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n

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You\u2019ve never been a coward. On the contrary, you\u2019ve always walked through life fiercely and fearlessly. You\u2019ve always been brave and strong. Except for one thing. With time, you\u2019ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even the thought of falling in love has become scary to you. You justify…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":20191,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/valerie-elash-623418-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20186\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}