{"id":20243,"date":"2020-10-27T17:22:38","date_gmt":"2020-10-27T17:22:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20243"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:55:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:55:41","slug":"7-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-deve-continuar-a-ser-amigo-do-seu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-deve-continuar-a-ser-amigo-do-seu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o se deve dar ao trabalho de continuar a ser amigo do seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

No matter how tough you’re pretending to be, break-ups are painful for all of us.<\/p>\n

I mean, it’s a person we love and hold very dear leaving our life and probably never coming back as a romantic partner.<\/p>\n

That’s why we tend to hold on to those people tightly, thinking that having them in our life, even as friends, would be a good idea.<\/p>\n

But believe me, it’s not. There are some things that simply don’t allow you two to stay friends without one of you (or both) getting more broken.<\/p>\n

So listen to me, you can’t stay amigos do teu ex<\/a> pelas seguintes raz\u00f5es:<\/p>\n

1. It isn’t healthy<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Just imagine, he’s finding a new girlfriend, they’re having an amazing time together and he introduces the two of you.<\/p>\n

Tendo em conta o facto de ter tido (e talvez ainda tenha) sentimentos por ele, ser\u00e1 imposs\u00edvel para si para n\u00e3o sentir ci\u00fames<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You will envy her for no other reason than the fact that she has him and that he’s not holding you in his arms.<\/p>\n

Whenever she tells you about something he did for her, it’ll remind you of your past with him and it will only hurt you more.<\/p>\n

Don’t do this to yourself. You will end up caught in memories and the horrible feeling of envy.<\/p>\n

2. You won’t be able to move on<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que conhe\u00e7as um novo homem, estar\u00e1s ligada ao teu ex.<\/p>\n

Voltar\u00e1 sempre para ele porque ele conhece-a melhor e, se continuarem amigos \u00edntimos, ele consult\u00e1-la-\u00e1 sobre o seu novo parceiro.<\/p>\n

You will compare them and all you are going to do with this is turn down an opportunity for a whole new beginning with someone who hasn’t done anything para vos magoar.<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Acabar\u00e3o por ir para a cama juntos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Achas mesmo que podes ficar amiga de algu\u00e9m que te viu nua?<\/p>\n

E acreditam mesmo que voc\u00eas os dois podem sair, embebedar-se e depois n\u00e3o acabarem juntos na mesma cama?<\/p>\n

Ele sabe onde queres ser tocada e tu sabes o que o faz ficar louco pelo teu corpo. Voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o um desastre \u00e0 espera de acontecer.<\/p>\n

4. O seu novo parceiro vai ter problemas com isso<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Even if you do get the chance to move on and you find a new boyfriend, do you really think that he’s going to be OK with you two sitting at the same table as your ex?<\/p>\n

Of course not. It’s disrespectful and you shouldn’t even bother to try and make them become friends.<\/p>\n

That’s just asking for trouble. Respect your partner and discard your ex.<\/p>\n

5. Um de v\u00f3s acabar\u00e1 com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o em si tenha sido terr\u00edvel, mas o facto de decidirem continuar amigos \u00e9 a garantia de que um de voc\u00eas vai ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido outra vez.<\/p>\n

Um de voc\u00eas vai continuar a interpretar mal os sinais que o outro est\u00e1 a enviar ou um de voc\u00eas pode encontrar uma raz\u00e3o para tentar pedir um recome\u00e7o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas o outro vai simplesmente rir-se disso.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que haveria de querer passar por essa situa\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

6. O fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser orientado para o crescimento pessoal<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you end a relationship, no matter whether you were the one hurt or the one who hurt someone else, you should always look at a break-up as a new beginning, like you’re starting your life anew and there is nothing to stop you.<\/p>\n

This is the right time to try all those things you weren’t able to do while in a relationship\u2014go out, be sexy, get drunk and so on.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que tem mesmo de ter uma lembran\u00e7a ao seu lado da sua experi\u00eancia passada, do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, etc.?<\/p>\n

7. It’s not necessary<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tantas pessoas maravilhosas por a\u00ed que est\u00e3o mortas por serem suas amigas. Ent\u00e3o, porque n\u00e3o tentar?<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea manter a amizade com um ex<\/a> who probably doesn’t appreciate you enough to be there for you when you need him anyways?<\/p>\n

Of course, I’m not saying to be sworn enemies, saying ‘Hi!’ while passing each other is OK.<\/p>\n

Mas ficar por a\u00ed e fingir que nada aconteceu \u00e9 realmente um erro.<\/p>\n

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