{"id":20267,"date":"2018-06-28T09:33:32","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T09:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20267"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:56","slug":"o-maior-erro-que-alguma-vez-cometi-foi-dar-tudo-de-mim-a-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-maior-erro-que-alguma-vez-cometi-foi-dar-tudo-de-mim-a-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"O maior erro que j\u00e1 cometi foi dar tudo de mim a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Admito-o!<\/strong><\/em> Apaixonei-me como um louco, sem pensar no amanh\u00e3. Dei-te tudo o que tinha, sem te pedir que me retribu\u00edsses. Fui um tolo que usaste para os teus planos sujos. Eras um ator t\u00e3o bom. Nunca vi algu\u00e9m agir assim, com tantas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e o poder de fazer as pessoas acreditarem no que tu queres. E fez o mesmo comigo, a rapariga inocente que s\u00f3 queria experimentar um pouco de amor. Eu s\u00f3 queria algu\u00e9m que cuidasse de mim, que me beijasse e me abra\u00e7asse porque queria e n\u00e3o para conseguir o que queria.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Admito-o!<\/strong> <\/em>I made a terrible mistake. I totally lost myself over a toxic man like you. And the moment I gave my all to you, I made a mistake that almost killed me. Living with you, surrounded with your toxic love cost me my nerves, my health and my energy. You were like a vampire sucking all the positive energy from me. You were feeding your poor soul on me, not letting me leave you. During every attempt to leave you, you would tell me that you will change, that you are going through a crisis and that you love me. You knew a great way to deceive a girl who loved you. You knew what to say to make me feel good. You knew when to touch me so I could shiver from pleasure. You knew everything about me because I was like an open book to you. I told you even my darkest secrets while I didn\u2019t have a clue about you. I told you all about my life while you kept your mouth shut. You didn\u2019t want to reveal anything about yourself because there was nothing nice to tell.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Admito-o!<\/strong><\/em> I stayed longer than I should have, just because of your perfect lies. And that is something I can\u2019t forgive myself for. You told me you are going to change but you kept on with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ja-tenho-mentiras-suficientes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">as vossas mentiras<\/a> e a fazer batota. Sempre que tiveste oportunidade, tra\u00edste-me enquanto me dizias que eu era a \u00fanica mulher da tua vida e que estarias perdido sem mim. Contigo, nunca me senti suficientemente bonita, digna ou inteligente. Eras sempre tu que comandavas a conversa, que davas sugest\u00f5es, que decidias. E eu era como uma pessoa \u00e0 parte, \u00e0 espera que acabasses e te dissesse que, mais uma vez, concordava contigo. Nunca nada estava de acordo com as minhas regras e, enquanto vivia contigo, perdi a minha auto-confian\u00e7a nas coisas em que era boa antes.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Admito-o!<\/strong><\/em> A relationship with you was my biggest mistake and I will never forgive myself for staying with you for such a long time. I was a fool for letting you treat me like that. I gave you my all while you couldn\u2019t even try to fight for what we had. You were such a coward for making me stay with you all this time without any intention to give me the love I needed. And you didn\u2019t let me go find someone who would cherish me just the way I am. You wanted to have someone you could cure your frustration with. And that was the woman who loved you with all her heart. Even if you saw that you were hurting me, you didn\u2019t stop even for a second. You didn\u2019t feel any remorse for what you were doing to me and I was too weak to even react to that injustice.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Admito-o!<\/strong><\/em> I gave my love to the man who didn\u2019t deserve it. I gave my all to someone who took my heart and walked all over it. I fell for a man who couldn\u2019t love just one person, to be faithful to only one person. I was crazy in love with a man who couldn\u2019t even fight for me when I wanted him to do that. And in the end, I totally lost myself over a man like that. I completely lost myself over a man who meant the world to me but who closed his eyes to all the love coming from me. And now, after all this time alone, I can finally understand that you were just a lesson I had to learn. You were just someone who showed me what I DON\u2019T deserve.<\/p>\n<p>E tenho de admitir que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-eras-a-minha-alma-gemea-eras-apenas-a-minha-licao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Aprendi esta li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> de uma forma dura. Ainda sinto o sabor desse amor t\u00f3xico e ainda estou a lutar para voltar a ser o meu antigo eu. Mas nunca perdi a esperan\u00e7a de dias melhores. E sei que h\u00e1-de chegar uma altura melhor. Talvez n\u00e3o amanh\u00e3 ou daqui a um m\u00eas, mas h\u00e1-de chegar. Um dia, o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sarar\u00e1 completamente e estar\u00e1 pronto para um amor verdadeiro. Um dia, voltarei a ser o meu antigo eu. E nunca deixarei que nenhum homem me trate como tu fizeste.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>One day, I will feel the love I craved so much with a man who won\u2019t try to change me. He will just accept me completely and thank you for letting me go.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I admit! I fell in love like crazy, not thinking about tomorrow. I gave my all to you without asking you to reciprocate. I was a fool whom you used for your dirty plans. You were such a good actor. I have never seen someone acting like that, with so many emotions and the power&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mubariz-mehdizadeh-602647-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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