{"id":20271,"date":"2018-06-28T09:59:20","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T09:59:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20271"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:32","slug":"nao-te-contentes-com-um-rapaz-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-ser-um-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-contentes-com-um-rapaz-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-ser-um-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se contente com um rapaz que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para ser homem"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve always been someone who\u2019s followed your heart, especially when it came to love and romantic relations. Even when your mind was telling you that something was a bad idea and when you clearly saw that a certain guy was not good for you, you would still let your emotions guide you and they were always stronger than your reason.<\/p>\n

But when you come to think of it and when you look at your life so far from this point of view, you see that you\u2019ve made some wrong choices.<\/p>\n

Houve alturas em que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o te guiou para algumas decis\u00f5es erradas e para alguns homens errados.<\/p>\n

A maior parte destes homens eram emocionalmente imaturo<\/a> and they didn\u2019t know what they wanted from life.<\/p>\n

Yes, at first, they were attractive and interesting. They were fun to be around and they made you feel good. They made you feel like there was no tomorrow and like you shouldn\u2019t have a care on your mind.<\/p>\n

Mas nenhum desses rapazes tinha o que era realmente necess\u00e1rio. Nenhum deles era um verdadeiro namorado e nenhum deles estava pronto para construir uma vida consigo. A maioria deles vivia apenas o momento, sem pensar no futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And although living your life day by day was fun at the time because you didn\u2019t burden yourself with future plans, when you come to think of it, this type of guy rarely brought you something good in the long run.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 evidente que todos estes rapazes eram rapazes em vez de homens.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eles weren\u2019t ready to commit<\/a> e raramente estavam dispostos a assumir a responsabilidade pelas suas palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Yes, you would fall in love in love with them hard but when those initial butterflies would fade away, you would immediately see that these boys couldn\u2019t offer you what you were looking for.
\nViste que merecias mais. E eu estou aqui para vos dizer que tinham raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

After all, you are not some immature girl who doesn\u2019t know what she wants. Instead, you are a grown ass, independent woman who has a clear vision of the future and who needs a real man to accompany her through life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a boy who needs you to save him and to lead him through life.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a mama\u2019s boy<\/a> que quer que seja o seu pai, um homem que se sentir\u00e1 intimidado e amea\u00e7ado por estar consigo.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, precisa de um homem que a deixe ser independente e que lhe permita ter uma vida pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong> Someone who won\u2019t feel the need to complete you but who will want you two to be equals in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Precisas de um homem que confie em ti, mas tamb\u00e9m de um homem em quem possas confiar<\/strong>\u2014a man who will be your equal partner through life and someone who will be your rock, your home and your safe haven. I am not telling you that you need to find someone who will secure you financially, but you don\u2019t need a lazy boy who never thinks of the future and who doesn\u2019t know what he wants to achieve in life.<\/p>\n

Precisa definitivamente de um homem ambicioso que tenha objectivos na vida e que a apoie nas suas conquistas.<\/strong> \u00c9 preciso algu\u00e9m que saiba o que quer e que n\u00e3o tenha medo de o conseguir.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a boy who is scared of commitment and of real relationship.<\/strong> You don\u2019t need someone who will back out on you when things get serious or someone who will run away the second things get rough and when you need him the most.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, you need a man who is ready to share his life with someone and who knows when it\u2019s time to take responsibility for some things.<\/strong> Precisas de um homem adulto que n\u00e3o tenha medo de tudo o que a vida traz consigo.<\/p>\n

E acima de tudo, you need a man who won\u2019t be intimidated by your strength and power.<\/strong> You don\u2019t need someone to hold you back to make himself feel better and to make himself look like a bigger man because that is exactly what boys do. You don\u2019t need someone who will use you for his own insecurities and to boost his fragile ego.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, precisa de algu\u00e9m que o empurre sempre para a frente sem o tentar mudar. Precisas de algu\u00e9m que te aceite na tua grandeza e que te inspire a ser ainda maior e melhor, porque \u00e9 exatamente isso que um verdadeiro homem far\u00e1.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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