{"id":20275,"date":"2018-06-28T10:29:21","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T10:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20275"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:43:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:43:26","slug":"a-verdade-e-que-e-dificil-esquecer-alguem-com-quem-se-imaginou-passar-uma-eternidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-e-que-e-dificil-esquecer-alguem-com-quem-se-imaginou-passar-uma-eternidade\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade \u00e9 que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil esquecer algu\u00e9m com quem se imaginou passar a vida inteira"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensei que, quando me apaixonasse por ti, aprender\u00edamos a ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. \u00c9ramos o casal poderoso que toda a gente admirava. \u00c9ramos duas almas que se ligavam uma \u00e0 outra.<\/strong> Every fiber of my being loved every beautiful imperfection in you. However, every fiber in you looked at me as if I wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

If I\u2019m being honest with myself, it still burns that we didn\u2019t work out<\/strong>porque ainda vejo a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o atrav\u00e9s de uns \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa distorcidos. Ainda penso no nosso \"felizes para sempre\".<\/strong> Ainda penso nos bons momentos. Ainda nos vejo a rir na cozinha. Ainda nos vejo a trabalhar juntos para substituir a veda\u00e7\u00e3o que caiu durante a tempestade. Ainda tenho imagens de quando cuidava de ti quando estavas doente. I still see all the wonderful moments we had, and what\u2019s pathetic is that I still see glimpses of our future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, now you are just some ghost who haunts me when I\u2019m feeling weak.<\/strong> Now I have to learn to move on without you\u2014to live what feels like half a life without you. I have to learn to be OK with the stupid and selfish decision you have made. Tenho de aprender a viver com o facto de que o que era uma alma g\u00e9mea para mim era uma quase amor<\/a> para si.<\/strong> Agora somos apenas estranhos na noite, trocando olhares quando passamos.<\/p>\n

O desgosto nunca \u00e9 f\u00e1cil.<\/strong> However, with you this was different. You told me pretty little lies of wanting to settle down, wanting to have children, and wanting to lead an honest life. However, it still stings to know I wasn\u2019t the one for you. I wasn\u2019t the one for you because at 35 you were nowhere near ready to settle down. While I was ready to accept the future, you decided to close the door. To close the door because you weren\u2019t ready. To close the door because you couldn\u2019t fathom the idea of being with one single woman for the rest of your life. Deixaste-me completamente desorientado e o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partiu-se num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensava que eras o meu melhor amigo e perceber que nunca foste meu amigo foi um dos piores dias da minha vida.<\/strong> Best friends don\u2019t lie to each other. Best friends are honest and sincere toward one another. Best friends are empathetic and understand the hardships you\u2019ll endure throughout life. Best friends are persistent and never give up on each other\u2026 but that\u2019s exactly what you did.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Muitas vezes pergunto-me se o karma alguma vez vir\u00e1 para o morder no rabo.<\/strong> Pergunto-me muitas vezes se sente algum tipo de culpa pelos danos que causou. Mais importante ainda, Pergunto-me muitas vezes quando chegar\u00e1 o momento em que poderei perdoar-me por ter amado algu\u00e9m muito mais do que eu.<\/strong> And, again, I often wonder if or when you\u2019ll realize that uma boa rapariga vale muito mais do que mil cabras.<\/strong> I often wonder when the day will come when I\u2019ll hear my phone vibrate and the apologies will start pouring in. O dia em que reconheceres que era suposto estarmos juntos.<\/strong> I often wonder when I\u2019ll stop having these wretched fantasies.<\/p>\n

I understand that the ride is over. I understand this is for the best, because I deserve the absolute best. However, it still doesn\u2019t help the pain and hurt I feel. It still doesn\u2019t help knowing you gave up the best damn thing in your life for the choices and consequences you weren\u2019t ready to give up. And although we both got off of what was the best ride of our lives to walk in separate directions, my heart still turns around to follow you and your heart. O peso no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o parece-me esmagador.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Compreendo que sou a \u00fanica pessoa que pode resolver a minha dor de cabe\u00e7a. Tenho de aceitar as tuas decis\u00f5es e o teu ego\u00edsmo. Sei que tenho de crescer e curar o meu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Sei que, apesar de toda a dor de cabe\u00e7a e de todos os erros que cometemos, isto ter\u00e1 um resultado positivo. O que \u00e9 positivo \u00e9 saber que eu encontrar\u00e3o o verdadeiro amor<\/a>.<\/strong> Estou com uma mentalidade melhor para reconhecer o que \u00e9 e o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor. Vou encontrar o amor verdadeiro com algu\u00e9m que reconhe\u00e7a que sou uma pessoa \u00fanica, que goste disso em mim e que trabalhe em conjunto para criar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amor e apoio m\u00fatuo. Heartbreak is painful but it\u2019s only temporary. What\u2019s permanent is the happiness you learn to exhibit from within yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The truth is, it\u2019s hard to forget someone whom you\u2019ve imagined spending forever with.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I thought that when I fell in love with you we would learn to become the best version of ourselves. We were the power couple everyone looked up to. We were two souls who connected to each other. Every fiber of my being loved every beautiful imperfection in you. However, every fiber in you looked…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20276,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/rich-brown-219577-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20276"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}