{"id":20284,"date":"2018-06-28T11:24:41","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T11:24:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20284"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:40:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:40:46","slug":"dentro-da-mente-de-uma-rapariga-que-nunca-teve-um-encontro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dentro-da-mente-de-uma-rapariga-que-nunca-teve-um-encontro\/","title":{"rendered":"A mente de uma rapariga que nunca teve um encontro"},"content":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s pretty. She\u2019s smart. She\u2019s funny. There\u2019s nothing wrong with her. She\u2019s 20 years old<\/a> and she has never been invited on a date. But has she ever cried about it? Not a chance! For her, it\u2019s a blessing.<\/p>\n

All these years she\u2019s been single, she had all the time in the world to really get to know herself. She loves spending time alone because she\u2019s very proud of the person she has become. Of course, she gets lonely sometimes; it\u2019s normal but she deals with it (probably with a bucket of ice cream). There are many lessons she has learned during the past 20 years and here are some of them:<\/p>\n

1. Antes de escolheres conhecer algu\u00e9m, certifica-te de que te conheces primeiro<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You cannot understand someone\u2019s mind if you don\u2019t understand your own. You can easily get lost in the process of getting to know him without realizing whether you like his characteristics or not because you haven\u2019t defined what you like and look for yet.<\/p>\n

2. \u00c9s a \u00fanica pessoa em quem podes confiar<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Now, it\u2019s not that everyone else is bad\u2026 there are some cool people on this planet. But the point is: you are the only person you cannot escape from. You are by your side 24\/7. You have to be aware of that and take care of who you are. It is a must for you to always be there for yourself and learn how to give yourself a pat on the back.<\/p>\n

3. You don\u2019t NEED company<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sure, human beings are made to socialize with one another. But do we have to? No, we don\u2019t. You don\u2019t need anyone<\/a>. It\u2019s great if you have someone to go with you to that movie you\u2019ve been dying to see but if you don\u2019t, it\u2019s not the end of the world\u2014go by yourself.<\/p>\n

4. A vida \u00e9 um filme para uns e uma telenovela indiana para outros<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You are tired of waiting to fall in love? You really want someone to understand you and be there for you all the time? Your best friend is so happy with her boyfriend and their life is just like a young American romance? At the same time, you are frustrated that your life is a never-ending game of waiting. You don\u2019t see how your life is better than theirs? First of all, it\u2019s a young romance\u2014they\u2019re going to break up real soon.<\/p>\n

Second of all, they probably have irrational fights which you don\u2019t hear. Thirdly, they\u2019re not even going to stay friends. The only thing your friend could gain from that relationship is premature gray hairs. Now tell me, do you really, really want to deal with a young person drama that will end ASAP? I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

5. Cinderella didn\u2019t cry<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Once upon a time, there was a princess who would cry all day long because she was unloved. Oh wait, that doesn\u2019t sound familiar. You know why? Because there\u2019s no story that starts this way! None of the princesses wanted a prince or cried for him. They wanted to be themselves: Cinderella wanted to have fun and freedom, Snow White the same, Belle to set her father free, and Sleeping Beauty, well, I guess she only wanted to be awake. The point is: you crying over something won\u2019t make anything different.
\nIsto leva-nos \u00e0 li\u00e7\u00e3o mais importante de todas:<\/p>\n

6. Acreditar no destino<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

There is not much to say here except if something is meant for you, if you want it so badly and you are patient enough, it will come to you and there won\u2019t be any obstacles on its way. You just have to esperar, ver e acreditar<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s pretty. She\u2019s smart. She\u2019s funny. There\u2019s nothing wrong with her. She\u2019s 20 years old and she has never been invited on a date. But has she ever cried about it? Not a chance! For her, it\u2019s a blessing. All these years she\u2019s been single, she had all the time in the world to really…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":20285,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/pete-bellis-224507-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20284"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20284\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}