{"id":20391,"date":"2020-05-02T08:26:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T08:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20391"},"modified":"2021-08-11T19:19:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T19:19:01","slug":"e-por-isso-que-se-deve-lutar-por-quem-se-ama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-se-deve-lutar-por-quem-se-ama\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que deves lutar por quem amas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que te lembras, as pessoas n\u00e3o param de te dizer que \u00e9s uma mulher e que merecia ser perseguido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That means you shouldn\u2019t be the one to take the first step and that you shouldn\u2019t be the one chasing your man.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve also been telling you that devem manter a vossa dignidade, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I couldn\u2019t agree with that more.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas ser\u00e1 poss\u00edvel que tenhamos interpretado mal algumas coisas e que, pelo caminho, tenhamos perdido a no\u00e7\u00e3o do que \u00e9 realmente a dignidade?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que seguir o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o e lutar por algu\u00e9m que amamos \u00e9 realmente igual a humilha\u00e7\u00e3o e desespero?<\/b>Because I think it doesn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

Of course, I am not advising you to beg for anyone\u2019s love or attention or to beg for someone to be with you because that is the last thing you should do. I am also not asking you not to chase someone who obviously doesn\u2019t want to be caught because that will surely bring you more harm than good.<\/p>\n

\"mulherMas quando se pensa nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores e no seu passado de encontros, quantas vezes perdeste uma oportunidade de fazer algo que poderia ter feito a diferen\u00e7a por causa do teu orgulho?<\/b><\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 quiseste abordar um rapaz mas tiveste medo de parecer desesperada se o fizesses?<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes \u00e9 que <\/b>deixar ir algu\u00e9m de quem nunca imaginou dizer adeus<\/b>, sem mais nem menos, apesar de ter sentimentos por eles? <\/b><\/p>\n

Quantas vezes deixaste que um homem que ainda amavas te escorregasse pelas m\u00e3os sem dar luta e sem tentar impedi-lo, apesar de pensares que os dois podiam ter uma oportunidade?<\/b><\/p>\n

How many relationships in your life were ruined because of you or your partner\u2019s ego and pride?<\/p>\n

Sim, quando se pensa nelas deste ponto de vista, muitas destas rela\u00e7\u00f5es provavelmente n\u00e3o valeram a pena lutar e talvez tenha sido melhor deix\u00e1-las ir.<\/p>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

Mas o velho tu, o tu <\/i>before you bought in to everything people kept telling you, didn\u2019t think like that.<\/p>\n

The old you couldn\u2019t forgive herself for not giving some things another try and for not following her heart. The old you couldn\u2019t forgive herself for at least not trying to fight and for allowing her ego and pride to stop her from doing so.<\/b><\/p>\n

So the next time you want to fight for the person you love and care for, just go for it. Don\u2019t think of the consequences and give it a shot. After all, what is there to lose?<\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de embara\u00e7oso em dizer a algu\u00e9m o que se sente e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 definitivamente nada de humilhante em esfor\u00e7ar-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que \u00e9 importante para si.<\/p>\n

And no, it doesn\u2019t make you weak. <\/b>Torna-nos suficientemente fortes para enfrentarmos as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e ainda mais fortes e corajosos para admitirmos esses sentimentos \u00e0 outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Torna-nos suficientemente fortes para p\u00f4r o cora\u00e7\u00e3o em jogo e para nos expormos sem saber o que pode acontecer.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Torna-nos suficientemente fortes para voar, mesmo que exista o risco de falharmos.<\/b><\/p>\n

And no, I am not here to guarantee that you\u2019ll win all of your battles and I am not going to tell you that all of your fights will be worth it.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ll lose some wars and that some people <\/b>won\u2019t be worthy of the effort<\/b><\/a> que se coloca nelas.<\/b><\/p>\n

But at least, you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/b><\/p>\n

Whenever you look back at things, you\u2019ll know you gave your best and that there was nothing more you could have done to make things work.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll be guilt-free. You won\u2019t spend the rest of your life thinking how things could have turned out with someone and thinking about all the could haves, might haves or should haves.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que ama e se acha que h\u00e1 algo que pode fazer para que as coisas corram melhor entre os dois, seja suficientemente corajoso para sair da sua zona de conforto e dar o salto para o desconhecido.<\/p>\n

Se eles se revelarem indignos do seu tempo e energia, a perda \u00e9 deles e n\u00e3o sua.\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ever since you can remember, people kept telling you that you are a woman and that you deserved to be chased. That means you shouldn\u2019t be the one to take the first step and that you shouldn\u2019t be the one chasing your man. They\u2019ve also been telling you that you should keep your dignity, no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":92552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-Fight-For-The-One-You-Love.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20391\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92552"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}