{"id":20441,"date":"2020-09-16T10:28:22","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T10:28:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20441"},"modified":"2022-01-14T01:29:03","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T01:29:03","slug":"apaixone-se-por-curar-se-a-si-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apaixone-se-por-curar-se-a-si-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"Apaixone-se por curar-se a si pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the corner of the room, with your head between your knees, there you are again. You&#8217;re hurting, aren&#8217;t you?<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t get one word out of your mouth without bursting into tears and crying until you&#8217;re so exhausted that you just fall asleep.<\/p>\n<p>He broke you. You are holding out your hands but all your broken pieces are falling aside because you just can&#8217;t seem to hold them all together anymore.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/5-sinais-de-que-ainda-nao-esta-totalmente-curado-depois-de-sobreviver-a-um-abuso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00c9 preciso curar<\/a>. Mas parece ser um processo t\u00e3o longo de estar sempre a falhar e a tentar de novo.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando se apaixonar pela sua pr\u00f3pria cura, tudo ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Fall in love with healing yourself! Those wounds and scars that are only visible to you shouldn&#8217;t be the reasons for your desperation.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118337 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira preocupada senta-se em casa e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-worried-blonde-sits-in-the-house-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They should motivate you to get on moving and start your days with words like, \u201cToday, I have healed a little more.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Apaixone-se por curar-se a si pr\u00f3prio!<\/strong> Once you do, you will start to love yourself even more. You will start to see your healing process and how you&#8217;re a survivor who can conquer anything that&#8217;s in her path.<\/p>\n<p>Lembrar-se-\u00e1 de onde estava e voltar\u00e1 a p\u00f4r-se de p\u00e9 para tentar, uma vez mais, juntar os seus peda\u00e7os quebrados.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 tempo para fazer uma pausa.<\/strong> I know that sometimes you do feel exhausted, you do feel like you&#8217;re going nowhere because whenever the thought of him catches you unaware, you burst into uncontrollable sobs but once more, look back at where you were and how there were no moments of peace in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Now there are. Even though you might seem confused by all the emotions that are going through you, it&#8217;s all part of the process. Even when you feel like doing nothing for days, it&#8217;s still you healing yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Apaixone-se por si e deixe de se apaixonar por ele.<\/strong> You have loved him for so long, haven&#8217;t you? Forgetting about him and moving on is a tough road that doesn&#8217;t allow you to go back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118338 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira de casaco e \u00f3culos de sol atravessa a rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-blonde-in-a-coat-with-sunglasses-crosses-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just with the thought of going back and reaching for his hug, your heart screams in agony because it doesn&#8217;t want to go through that ever again.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why falling in love with yourself is the most important task you can ever have.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Apaixona-te pela pessoa em que te vais tornar.<\/strong> Imagina a pessoa em que te tornar\u00e1s depois de tudo isto ter terminado.<\/p>\n<p>Quando o sofrimento acabar e perceber que existe uma luz brilhante ao fundo de cada t\u00fanel, tornar-se-\u00e1 tudo o que sempre quis ser. Por isso, porque n\u00e3o come\u00e7ar a sua viagem imediatamente, sem qualquer hesita\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Um dia compreender\u00e1s.<\/strong> I know that this sounds like something your parents would say but once you start loving everything about your healing process, everything about yourself and everything about what you&#8217;ve gone through, realizing that it all had a purpose\u2014you will understand!<\/p>\n<p>You will see why it all had to happen exactly how it did and that there is nothing for you to regret because your past is what turned you into the woman you are today and it&#8217;s turning you into the woman you will become in the future.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118339 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city.jpg\" alt=\"uma jovem morena bonita passeia pela cidade\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/a-young-beautiful-brunette-walks-through-the-city-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e1s tu. A chorar. A pensar se a dor alguma vez vai parar. Mas deixem-me ser o primeiro a dizer-vos que vai.<\/p>\n<p>The pain will pass and you will be freed from everything that holds you bound to him. You will be freed from the sorrow, the memories and the grudges that you&#8217;re holding against him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando se concentra na sua pr\u00f3pria cura, nada mais importa.<\/strong> He won&#8217;t matter anymore, and nor will your past. When you focus on your healing, you will make your own happiness and your self-love and recovery priorities above everything else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ele foi-se embora mas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-a-mulher-doente\/\">you&#8217;re still here fighting every day<\/a> e vais perceber, a cada segundo que passa, que vais voltar a amar e que vais voltar a juntar as pe\u00e7as. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>He&#8217;s gone, together with all the abuse and all the harsh words and he left behind a flower\u2014you, ready to bloom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118340 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Apaixone-se por curar-se a si pr\u00f3prio\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the corner of the room, with your head between your knees, there you are again. You&#8217;re hurting, aren&#8217;t you? You can&#8217;t get one word out of your mouth without bursting into tears and crying until you&#8217;re so exhausted that you just fall asleep. He broke you. You are holding out your hands but all&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":118336,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Fall-In-Love-With-Healing-Yourself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20441"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20441\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118336"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}