{"id":20451,"date":"2020-04-03T10:48:37","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:48:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20451"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:38:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:38:41","slug":"uma-carta-a-alguem-que-amo-e-odeio-ao-mesmo-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-a-alguem-que-amo-e-odeio-ao-mesmo-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para algu\u00e9m que amo e odeio ao mesmo tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fazes parte da minha vida e amo-te com todo o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Amo-te por tudo o que fizeste por mim.<\/p>\n<p>I love how you make me smile and how loved I\u2019ve felt since I met you. Can you imagine how big my love is?<\/p>\n<p>Tenta imaginar a montanha mais alta que existe. Agora, ao lado dessa montanha, imagine uma exatamente igual. A primeira \u00e9 o meu amor por ti. A outra \u00e9 o \u00f3dio.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s a minha rocha, a minha pessoa, aquela que est\u00e1 sempre l\u00e1 para mim, aquela que me deu tudo o que eu precisava na vida.<\/p>\n<p>How could I not love you for all of this? You are my first love, my true love and I don\u2019t want to live in this world without you.<\/p>\n<p>Muitas pessoas n\u00e3o t\u00eam a sorte de encontrar a sua alma g\u00e9mea t\u00e3o cedo na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Tive sorte e estou grata por isso. Parecias perfeito para mim no in\u00edcio e, como se veio a verificar, \u00e9s mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve been through many things together and we matured together. <b>Quanto mais te conhecia, mais te amava. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Al\u00e9m disso, no processo de te conhecer, comecei a odiar-te um pouco.<\/b> Isso foi crescendo com o tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Sabias o quanto significavas para mim e aproveitaste-te disso. Simplesmente negligenciaste os meus sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88156\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Rear-view-of-offended-woman-looking-at-stubborn-lover.jpg\" alt=\"Vista traseira de uma mulher ofendida a olhar para o amante teimoso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Rear-view-of-offended-woman-looking-at-stubborn-lover.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Rear-view-of-offended-woman-looking-at-stubborn-lover-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Rear-view-of-offended-woman-looking-at-stubborn-lover-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We love each other and you think that because of that love I\u2019ll always be with you no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Baby, that\u2019s not how a relationship works.<b> Amo-te pelos sentimentos que me deste, mas odeio-te por n\u00e3o os respeitares. <\/b>Odeio-te por me fazeres pensar em acabar contigo. Mas se continuares a agir assim, talvez tenha de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p>You are angry because your job is not going well. Why do you have to take it out on me? You are frustrated because you are not at the stage of your life you\u2019d want to be at.<\/p>\n<p>Why do you have to take it out on me? Why don\u2019t you hold my hand and let me help you with something that\u2019s bothering you?<\/p>\n<p>Why can\u2019t you be calm and happy that we\u2019re alive and together? <b>It doesn\u2019t take much to be truly happy but you don\u2019t want to see the <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/felicidade-nao-sentir-escolha\/\"><b>felicidade<\/b><\/a><b> that\u2019s right in front of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need much in life, only a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/alcancar-a-felicidade-saude-total-do-corpo\/\">voc\u00ea saud\u00e1vel<\/a>. Essa \u00e9 a minha felicidade. Tu \u00e9s a minha casa e o meu lugar feliz. Preciso que cuides da minha casa e do meu lugar feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t force yourself, don\u2019t get frustrated at the things you can\u2019t change. I know I am your rock now but you have to understand that even a rock can break.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88160\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-with-a-headache.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com dor de cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-with-a-headache.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-with-a-headache-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-with-a-headache-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once I get to my limits, I\u2019ll fall off of a cliff and you\u2019ll see me broken into a thousand pieces. Is this what you want for someone you love with all your heart and soul? &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Please don\u2019t make me worry about you so much. Don\u2019t be reckless. When you\u2019re leaving town, get ready, pack enough clothes and call me when you get a chance. When you\u2019re at work, don\u2019t get angry.<\/p>\n<p>Simply take a deep breath and remember that I\u2019m waiting for you at home and that at the end of the day, everything will be all right. Take care of your body.<\/p>\n<p>Dormir a horas. Coma os seus vegetais e caminhe o mais que puder. Fa\u00e7a uma lista de prioridades e coloque-se em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care which number I am on that list, as long as you stay number one.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be able to take care of me if you haven\u2019t taken care of yourself. And I\u2019m telling you this because I want you to take care of me, to be my one and only for the rest of our lives.<\/p>\n<p>Be kind to yourself and be kind to me. Respect my love for you and respect the fact that I\u2019m always thinking of you, so don\u2019t make me worry. <b>If you love me, you won\u2019t make me worry about you ever again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88161\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal preocupado a olhar um para o outro num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1s bom para ti pr\u00f3prio, respeitar\u00e1s as tuas necessidades, o teu corpo e, claro, a mim.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to keep up with you, I want us to have a path we could both walk on. Love should be the name of our path.<\/p>\n<p>Respect could be our shoes and the sparkle in our eyes could be the signs on the path. I don\u2019t want much from life, only health and you by my side.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t understand why you would want anything more. We\u2019ll have each other, be each other\u2019s rock and we\u2019ll get through anything in life.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ruin what has been built. For the past six years, you\u2019ve been making me very happy. I am still head over heels in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>But you also make me crazy from time to time. You live your life like there\u2019s no tomorrow and consider material things as the only things worth fighting for. And have you noticed how tomorrow always comes?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88162\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa coloca a cabe\u00e7a nas costas de um homem enquanto este se encontra no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Remember that I don\u2019t need you. <\/b><b>Eu quero-te.<\/b> And I want you to take care of yourself so that I won\u2019t have to take care of you. I want us to take care of our children together. Are you capable of doing that? If not, I\u2019ll have to let you go.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much I love you, I don\u2019t have the strength to deal with your temper.<\/p>\n<p>And I hate your temper so badly. I\u2019m sorry but sometimes love is not enough.<\/p>\n<p>If I ever say goodbye to you, remember that you\u2019ll always be my soulmate no matter what. I\u2019ll love you till the end of time. Me leaving you will never mean I stopped loving you.<\/p>\n<p>Significa apenas que me respeito mais do que tu alguma vez me respeitaste. E, querida, o amor e o respeito andam de m\u00e3os dadas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-88154 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta para algu\u00e9m que amo e odeio ao mesmo tempo\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are part of my life and I love you with all my heart. I love you for everything you\u2019ve done for me. I love how you make me smile and how loved I\u2019ve felt since I met you. Can you imagine how big my love is? Try imagining the highest mountain there is. Now,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":88153,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-Someone-I-Love-And-Hate-At-The-Same-Time.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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