{"id":20476,"date":"2019-07-04T08:38:14","date_gmt":"2019-07-04T08:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20476"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:09:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:09:50","slug":"6-tipos-de-quase-relacoes-que-deve-evitar-a-todo-o-custo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-tipos-de-quase-relacoes-que-deve-evitar-a-todo-o-custo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tipos de quase relacionamentos que voc\u00ea deve evitar a todo custo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vivemos nesta era confusa em que as quase rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o mais comuns do que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es reais. Gra\u00e7as a esse facto, os encontros s\u00e3o mais complicados.<\/p>\n<p>Deparamo-nos com homens que s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/15-caracteristicas-dos-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a>N\u00e3o estamos preparados para nos comprometermos e estamos prontos para brincar com as nossas mentes e os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es. Como se isso n\u00e3o bastasse, tamb\u00e9m temos o h\u00e1bito de nos auto-sabotarmos no processo.<\/p>\n<p><em>How do we end up in these almost relationships? The honest truth, which some of us aren\u2019t always willing to hear, is that we allow them. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Contentamo-nos com meias rela\u00e7\u00f5es e promessas esfarrapadas porque assumimos que ter alguma coisa \u00e9 melhor do que n\u00e3o ter nada.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>We couldn&#8217;t be more wrong.<\/strong> Almost relationships aren\u2019t something we should settle for.<\/p>\n<p>Esgotam as nossas for\u00e7as, nunca somos completamente felizes enquanto estamos neles e, essencialmente, est\u00e3o destinados a acabar num dado momento.<\/p>\n<p>Everything we had was almost something\u2014almost love, almost commitment, almost a relationship. Unfortunately, our heart doesn\u2019t recognize almost. Our heart is all in and when it breaks, it breaks completely.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to protect our heart from breaking from that terrible \u201calmost\u201d is by cutting it from our lives as soon as we recognize the signs. Here are 6 types of almost relationships that you should avoid at all costs:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. The relationship in which we don\u2019t know where we stand<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A simple question such as, \u201cAre we exclusive?\u201d can be so difficult to utter in real life situations. It\u2019s easier to wait for the other side to drop the question than it is to ask it yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You feel safer not knowing than asking the question and getting the answer you don\u2019t want. What if he doesn\u2019t want the same things as you do? What if he is already seeing somebody else?<\/p>\n<p>This is not a place for what ifs. Your love life should be something safe and certain. You should know where you stand. And if he hasn\u2019t brought up the question of exclusivity, the odds are he is not ready for it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s best that you know early on than to hold on to some pseudo-relationship in which you are not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/validar-saber-sentir-real\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">validado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem r\u00f3tulos<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ele faz tudo o que um verdadeiro namorado faz. Mant\u00e9m-se em contacto. Leva-te a encontros. Ele passa a noite.<\/p>\n<p>Ele apresentou-te aos seus amigos. At\u00e9 conheceste alguns membros da fam\u00edlia dele. Ele faz tudo de acordo com as regras, mas nunca te chamou de namorada.<\/p>\n<p>While some might argue that it\u2019s more important to pay attention to things somebody does rather than says, in this case, words do count. Somebody\u2019s unwillingness to call you his girlfriend might be a major red flag that indicates fear of commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Fale com ele e veja qual \u00e9 o problema. Se ele se recusar a chamar-lhe namorada, recuse-se a ser a sua quase-namorada.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. O tipo secreto de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-se-esta-preso-numa-relacao-de-texto\/\">os dois est\u00e3o a enviar mensagens de texto<\/a> ou a sair juntos, tudo \u00e9 \u00f3timo. Entre as quatro paredes da sua casa ou da dele, s\u00e3o o casal mais feliz do mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Os problemas come\u00e7am quando se trata de vos apresentar a outras pessoas e de tornar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o p\u00fablica.<\/p>\n<p>He might even give you some reasons why you still can\u2019t go public with your relationship and if you listen closely, none of his excuses make any sense.<\/p>\n<p>Love is not loving when you keep it a secret. If he is being secretive about you or making you keep quiet about your relationship, there is something murky going on and you shouldn\u2019t tolerate it.<\/p>\n<p>If he can\u2019t make your love public there should be no place for him in your life.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. The almost \u2018back with your ex\u2019 type of relationship<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>These type of almost relationships are the worst\u2014when you are in the process of patching things up with your ex, but you never patch them completely.<\/p>\n<p>Portanto, continua oficialmente solteira, ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a investir na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tem todos os benef\u00edcios do namorado.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t see any necessity to change this situation. You have to let him know that there is no place for almost. Either you are back together or you are officially over.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se sente que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser algo que abra as suas asas e o fa\u00e7a voar ainda mais alto, e n\u00e3o algo que o esteja sempre a deitar abaixo.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of women out there who\u2019ve lost their confidence due to being mistreated, underappreciated and belittled in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Se algu\u00e9m estiver <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-te-perdoo-por-me-fazeres-sentir-que-nao-sou-suficientemente-boa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fazer-nos sentir que n\u00e3o somos suficientes<\/a>, make sure to say your goodbyes as soon as possible. Don\u2019t waste your life on somebody like this.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 definitivamente o teu quase namorado porque um verdadeiro nunca faria nada para te fazer sentir mal contigo mesma. Ele \u00e9 aquele que nunca ser\u00e1 suficiente para ti.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. A rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se baseia no sexo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o quase deveria ser f\u00e1cil de detetar, mas as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam esta forma impec\u00e1vel de nos toldar o discernimento.<\/p>\n<p>There will be some signs that he is not ready to commit\u2014like fleeing the scene right after sex with some great but still lame excuse.<\/p>\n<p>Ele quase nunca passa a noite. Ignora a parte dos mimos depois do sexo. Nunca aparece quando est\u00e1s com o per\u00edodo.<\/p>\n<p>Se 90% do tempo que passam juntos \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-inegaveis-de-que-so-quer-sexo-e-nao-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tudo sobre sexo<\/a>, you are not in a real relationship. And while sex is important, it\u2019s just a part of a relationship, not the whole thing.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anybody get away with it. If sex is all they want, let them look for it elsewhere you are worth so much more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-54364 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2.jpg\" alt=\"6 TIPOS DE QUASE-RELACIONAMENTOS QUE DEVE EVITAR A TODO O CUSTO\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We live in this messed up era where almost relationships are more common than real ones. Thanks to that fact, dating is more complicated. We come across men that are emotionally unavailable, unready to commit and ready to play with our minds and our hearts. As if that was not enough, we also have this&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":20477,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/joshua-rawson-harris-664983-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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