{"id":20547,"date":"2020-06-05T11:18:06","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T11:18:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20547"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:47:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:47:29","slug":"as-8-coisas-mais-comuns-que-os-homens-dizem-quando-nao-querem-saber-de-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-8-coisas-mais-comuns-que-os-homens-dizem-quando-nao-querem-saber-de-si\/","title":{"rendered":"As 8 coisas mais comuns que os homens dizem quando n\u00e3o querem saber de si"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando um homem n\u00e3o quer saber de si, comporta-se de forma diferente. N\u00e3o vai mexer um dedo para que as coisas funcionem ou para a fazer feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m disso, diz coisas que s\u00e3o muito ofensivas e condescendentes.<\/p>\n<p>As suas declara\u00e7\u00f5es revelam a sua indiferen\u00e7a e falta de interesse por si e pela sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o alguns dos mais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-8-coisas-mais-comuns-que-o-seu-homem-diz-sobre-si-nas-suas-costas\/\">coisas comuns que os homens dizem<\/a> when they don\u2019t give a damn about you:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cIt\u2019s your fault, not mine.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-young-woman-listening-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e s\u00e9ria a ouvir um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-young-woman-listening-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-young-woman-listening-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-young-woman-listening-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will try to turn the tables and make everything seem like it\u2019s your fault. He will spin the story around to suit him.<\/p>\n<p>Ele distorcer\u00e1 as suas palavras e f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 acreditar que est\u00e1 a fazer algo de errado.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ficou t\u00e3o bom em <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-fazer-de-vitima\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fazer-se de v\u00edtima<\/a> that he doesn\u2019t even put any extra effort into it. He is just too self-absorbed to admit that you are right.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cThat was never the problem\u2014you just overthink everything.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele quer que os seus problemas e as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es pare\u00e7am pequenos, por isso quer manipul\u00e1-lo para que pense que est\u00e1 a exagerar.<\/p>\n<p>If you know that something is worth getting upset over, you shouldn\u2019t ignore it just because he said it\u2019s not a big deal and that you are blowing things out of proportion or that you are obsessively analyzing or overthinking things.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cDo whatever you want!\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94537\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com uma mulher zangada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo whatever you want\u201d is his comment to almost anything you want to do.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 sabes que podes fazer tudo o que quiseres, por isso \u00e9 redundante e condescendente.<\/p>\n<p>Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o quer ser um participante ativo na sua vida ou dar-lhe a sua vis\u00e3o das coisas. Ao dizer isto, ele est\u00e1 a mostrar a sua indiferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cIf you don\u2019t like it, find somebody else.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94541\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/shocked-woman-looking-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher chocada a olhar para um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/shocked-woman-looking-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/shocked-woman-looking-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/shocked-woman-looking-at-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to solve things. He wants you to sit silently and put up with his bad behavior or leave.<\/p>\n<p>Se um homem gosta de si, reconsiderar\u00e1 as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e far\u00e1 o seu melhor para encontrar um terreno comum consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Ele nunca <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/planeado-ficar-afastado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">afastar-vos<\/a> ou dizer algo do g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cI don\u2019t have to explain myself.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94542\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-young-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com uma jovem mulher zangada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-young-angry-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-young-angry-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-talking-to-young-angry-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In cases where a woman is overly jealous for no apparent reason and acts more like a detective than his partner, this statement isn\u2019t offensive.<\/p>\n<p>However, in almost all other cases, it\u2019s a major red flag. Why wouldn\u2019t you explain your actions to a person you care about?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t your relationship something that is worthy of your words? If he doesn\u2019t want to make things clear and be open and honest with you, he clearly doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cYour friends are idiots.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94543\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem zangado a apontar o dedo a uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ou qualquer outra express\u00e3o semelhante \u00e9 algo que deve ser motivo de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o. Se ele te respeita, tamb\u00e9m deve respeitar os teus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode gostar ou n\u00e3o gostar deles, mas nunca deve dizer mal deles.<\/p>\n<p>Eles s\u00e3o uma parte importante da sua vida e ele deve trat\u00e1-los como tal.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cI don\u2019t care if you are seeing somebody else.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94544\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a falar com uma mulher num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This statement is pretty straightforward and hurtful. Of course, you don\u2019t want some overly jealous boyfriend but he shouldn\u2019t be indifferent to you dating other people or having sex with them.<\/p>\n<p>If he says something like this, he most definitely doesn\u2019t give a damn about you\u2014don\u2019t doubt it for a second.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cI can\u2019t deal with you right now.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94545\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/annoyed-man-listening-woman-in-the-car.jpg\" alt=\"homem irritado a ouvir a mulher no carro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/annoyed-man-listening-woman-in-the-car.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/annoyed-man-listening-woman-in-the-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/annoyed-man-listening-woman-in-the-car-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Basicamente, ele est\u00e1 a dizer que n\u00e3o tem tempo para si ou para o que quer que a esteja a incomodar.<\/p>\n<p>He is saying it\u2019s not his concern and he doesn\u2019t want to waste time dealing with it.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 vales o tempo dele quando tudo na tua vida \u00e9 perfeito e n\u00e3o tens problemas.<\/p>\n<p>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam a ver com o bom e o mau.<\/p>\n<p>If he backs off from a conversation when things are going downhill in your life, or when you are hurt or upset, he doesn\u2019t care enough and he is the one <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-types-men-not-worthy-time\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno do seu tempo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94531\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-8-Most-Common-Things-Men-Say-When-They-Don\u2019t-Give-A-Damn-About-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As 8 coisas mais comuns que os homens dizem quando n\u00e3o querem saber de si\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-8-Most-Common-Things-Men-Say-When-They-Don\u2019t-Give-A-Damn-About-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-8-Most-Common-Things-Men-Say-When-They-Don\u2019t-Give-A-Damn-About-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a man doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, he will behave differently. He will not lift a finger to make things work or to make you happy. In addition, he will say things that are very hurtful and condescending. His statements will display his indifference and lack of interest in you or your life&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":94550,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20547","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-8-Most-Common-Things-Men-Say-When-They-Don\u2019t-Give-A-Damn-About-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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