Ok, ele tinha os seus momentos que me faziam duvidar por um segundo da sua integridade e da sua bondade, mas pedia sempre desculpa por tudo o que fazia e prometia n\u00e3o o voltar a fazer.<\/p>\n
Al\u00e9m disso, pensava que toda a gente tinha o direito de cometer um erro e de ter um dia mau.<\/p>\n
There have to be a few bumps in the road. It\u2019s how relationships work. You hit a bump and you solve it, so you move on.<\/p>\n
But after a while, you realize that it\u2019s not him who\u2019s apologizing anymore, it\u2019s you all the time.<\/strong><\/p>\n Something must be wrong in this picture. It was all perfect in the beginning but now you can\u2019t seem to catch a break.<\/p>\n Tudo o que fazes parece t\u00e3o errado porque as reac\u00e7\u00f5es dele te mostram isso.<\/p>\n Ele est\u00e1 constantemente insatisfeito consigo e critica-o constantemente.<\/p>\n Depois separam-se. <\/strong>And it doesn\u2019t end there. Either he begs or you beg for the two of you to get back together and you give him a second shot which he doesn\u2019t deserve.<\/p>\n Deep down inside you know that but you can’t help it because you\u2019re in love and you hope that this time around things will definitely change. Well, they don\u2019t change, they become even worse.<\/p>\n Then it\u2019s everything all over again so naturally you break up once again.<\/strong><\/p>\n The story doesn’t end there. He comes back and he tries to get you back but this time, you\u2019re a bit smarter.<\/p>\n Then the emotional blackmail begins. My narcissist did this to me. He played with my feelings because I didn’t have the courage or the strength to go nenhum contacto<\/a> com ele.<\/p>\n Respondi \u00e0s suas chamadas, encontr\u00e1mo-nos para tomar caf\u00e9. Cometi o erro de o deixar voltar \u00e0 minha vida, n\u00e3o como amante, mas como amigo.<\/p>\n Tive pena dele porque muitas pessoas o tinham enganado no passado. Tantas mulheres tinham-no magoado.<\/p>\n He couldn\u2019t trust anybody and he was careful with his feelings because of that.<\/p>\n Que grande treta!<\/strong><\/p>\n Ele nunca foi magoado. Era ele que magoava e manipulava os outros. E agora estava a tentar manipular-me, fingindo estar vulner\u00e1vel para que eu sentisse pena e o aceitasse de volta.<\/p>\n Ele estava a chantagear-me emocionalmente e eu n\u00e3o fazia ideia do que estava a acontecer.<\/p>\n Os narcisistas s\u00e3o predadores emocionais que pressentem se vamos cair no seu falso carisma e nos seus truques. <\/strong><\/p>\n Sabem exatamente qual a pessoa que escolhem e utilizam para se elevarem.<\/strong><\/p>\n They have a sixth sense for that and they can tell if you\u2019re going to buy their shit.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quer se aperceba ou n\u00e3o, tem certas caracter\u00edsticas que fazem de si um alvo de um narcisista.<\/p>\n Tem algo que eles sabem que podem utilizar e deitar fora quando acabarem.<\/p>\n You\u2019re naive and trusting which makes you blind to the subtle signs that you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not that you ignore those red flags a narcissist shows, and they have to show them sooner or later, but you simply can’t comprehend that someone can act that way and you don\u2019t pay attention.<\/p>\n It won’t cross your mind that this person is trying to use you and that this person is dangerous because you\u2019re not like that.<\/p>\n O seu car\u00e1cter ing\u00e9nuo leva-o a acreditar que todos agem como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n Faz-nos acreditar que todas as pessoas pensam nos outros como pensam nelas pr\u00f3prias.<\/p>\n You believe them because you don\u2019t think that they would do something that nasty ever.<\/p>\n You just can\u2019t see the red flags that this person is someone you should get away from as soon as possible.<\/p>\n You\u2019re too loving and you care about everybody. You have so much love to give and you don\u2019t save it for yourself.<\/p>\n It makes you happy when you make someone else happy, even if that means you put yourself second. That is something narcissists can\u2019t wait to get their hands on.<\/p>\n Narcissists see your kindness and they see how you\u2019re nice to everybody and how you genuinely care about everybody and they take advantage of that. They are like sharks when they smell blood.<\/p>\n You desperately want to find love and because you\u2019re lonely you\u2019ll take anything that is offered to you.<\/p>\n A sua autoestima \u00e9 quase nula, o que se adequa perfeitamente a uma personalidade narcisista.<\/p>\n When you have no self-love or self-respect, it\u2019s easier to control you and that\u2019s when a narcissist strikes.<\/p>\n Por isso, acaba por ficar com ele, porque ele \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa de que precisa nos seus tempos de solid\u00e3o e tristeza.<\/p>\nConfia nas pessoas<\/h2>\n
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