em sil\u00eancio.<\/span><\/p>\nMas sabes que mais?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Even if you thought that it was all your fault, just know that it wasn\u2019t. You just had the bad luck to be the child of an emotionally unavailable man, someone who couldn\u2019t even love himself properly, someone who gave up on life before his death. <\/span><\/p>\nFoste apenas mais uma v\u00edtima de um pai t\u00f3xico que te viu sofrer mas nunca te deu a m\u00e3o. Por isso, zanga-te, parte coisas, chora, faz o que quiseres. <\/span><\/p>\nDeixem passar a raiva.<\/span><\/p>\nDeixa sair toda essa toxicidade e raiva que est\u00e1 dentro de ti.<\/i><\/b> Porque se ficar dentro de ti, pode matar-te. <\/span><\/p>\nA quantidade de frustra\u00e7\u00e3o por n\u00e3o conseguir o amor que deseja \u00e9 t\u00e3o grande que pode lev\u00e1-lo \u00e0 morte emocional. Mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que queres, certo? <\/span><\/p>\nYou don\u2019t want your dad to see that he destroyed you<\/span>, <\/span>you don\u2019t want him to see the fire in your eyes getting smaller and smaller. <\/span><\/p>\nYou want him to see you standing on your own two feet after so many bad things that he did to you. You don\u2019t want him to see that you were his victim and that you will have scars on your heart your whole life. <\/span><\/p>\nNo, you don\u2019t want that at all.<\/span><\/p>\nThat\u2019s why you need to be smart.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
You need to think about how to overcome your problems. And whatever you do, don\u2019t try to take revenge on him. <\/span><\/p>\nTu sabes, <\/span>o karma \u00e9 uma cabra e vai faz\u00ea-lo pagar por tudo o que vos fez. <\/span><\/p>\nUm dia, ele pedir-vos-\u00e1 que lhe d\u00eaem um pouco do vosso amor, que lhe apertem a m\u00e3o com firmeza enquanto ele diz as suas \u00faltimas palavras. <\/span><\/p>\nUm dia, ele sentir-se-\u00e1 como tu, como uma crian\u00e7a com fome de amor e de perd\u00e3o. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Nesse dia, lembrar-se-\u00e1 de como lhe pediu para segurar a sua m\u00e3o enquanto tinha medo. E lembrar-se-\u00e1 de como ele largou a sua m\u00e3o, dizendo-lhe que devia enfrentar os seus medos. <\/span><\/p>\nEssa recorda\u00e7\u00e3o apunhalar-vos-\u00e1 no cora\u00e7\u00e3o com todo o seu poder, mas mesmo assim dar-lhe-\u00e3o a m\u00e3o. Perdoar-lhe-\u00e1s tudo o que ele te fez. <\/span><\/p>\nVais mostrar-lhe que \u00e9s uma pessoa melhor do que ele. Mas tamb\u00e9m o deixar\u00e1s partir. <\/span><\/p>\nBecause holding onto something that was never real doesn\u2019t make any sense. <\/span><\/p>\nAnd if you ever remember your dad, if something reminds you of him and if you wish he was there with you, don\u2019t pick up the phone to call him. <\/span><\/p>\nSim, ele \u00e9 o teu pai, \u00e9 o teu criador, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m o homem que te arruinou quando mais sofrias. <\/span><\/p>\n\u00c9-lhe permitido<\/i><\/b> para o amar. Mas am\u00e1-lo de uma forma que ele nunca venha a descobrir. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of winning in the end.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
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