{"id":20623,"date":"2020-07-09T09:22:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:22:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20623"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:35:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:35:02","slug":"e-assim-que-se-ama-alguem-que-esta-sempre-a-pensar-demais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-ama-alguem-que-esta-sempre-a-pensar-demais\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se ama algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 sempre a pensar demais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se gosta de um <\/i><\/b>pensador excessivo<\/i><\/b><\/a>Se n\u00e3o for poss\u00edvel, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que saiba que \u00e9 um grande desafio, mas que vale a pena.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sabe-se que o c\u00e9rebro deles est\u00e1 a trabalhar no m\u00e1ximo a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

For every answer you give them, they have so many questions to ask because that is the way they function and they can\u2019t control it. They can\u2019t just shut down their brain.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o sempre a pensar demais em tudo o que acontece \u00e0 sua volta. <\/i><\/b>They won\u2019t believe you when you say that you love them, so you will have to prove that.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t believe when you say that everything will be okay, so they need to wait to see if it actually happens.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t believe that you did something nice for them until they hear about it from someone else.<\/p>\n

They are full of negative thoughts and constant wondering. So you have to be their own inner voice, telling them that many people actually like you and that you weren\u2019t lying to them.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso dizer-lhes que todos os seus amigos acham que \u00e9 divertido, um bom <\/i><\/b>pessoa <\/i><\/b><\/a>e que querem passar tempo consigo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You need to tell them and later show them that you love them and that even if they don\u2019t think like that, they are still very special and unique.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You always need to be there to defend yourself from the things they\u2019ve heard about you and now blame you for.<\/p>\n

You need to know that they feel bad when they find out something about you that you didn\u2019t share with them.<\/p>\n

Pensam imediatamente que lhes mentiu e que os est\u00e1 a tomar por garantidos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim que um pensador excessivo pensa e devo admitir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada f\u00e1cil. <\/i><\/b>No matter how much they want to change they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

No matter how much they want to relax they can\u2019t because there is a constant feeling that something bad will happen.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you need to understand that they will ask the same questions over and over again.<\/i><\/b> Perguntar-lhe-\u00e3o se os ama e se s\u00e3o suficientes para si.<\/p>\n

Perguntar-lhe-\u00e3o se gostaria de estar com outra pessoa ou se a vida com eles \u00e9 tudo o que procura.<\/p>\n

Perguntar\u00e3o se est\u00e1 satisfeito com eles sempre que o virem a olhar para o espa\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

They will worry all the time. And that is something they simply can\u2019t change.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, sejam pacientes. Sejam carinhosos. Sejam carinhosos. Os excessivamente pensadores n\u00e3o est\u00e3o a fazer tudo isso intencionalmente.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o pessoas fant\u00e1sticas, mas t\u00eam tend\u00eancia a preocupar-se e a pensar mais do que os outros. \u00c9 por isso que as pessoas t\u00eam preconceitos contra elas.<\/p>\n

Pensam que todos os pensadores excessivos s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis de lidar, que nunca seremos felizes com algu\u00e9m assim, que nunca conseguir\u00e3o relaxar o suficiente para nos fazer felizes e satisfeitos.<\/p>\n

Mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade. Se lhes dermos uma oportunidade, podemos ser muito felizes com algu\u00e9m que pensa demais.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ter\u00e1 o amor que tanto desejou com eles se retribuir da mesma forma. Poder\u00e1 ter felicidade, apoio, compreens\u00e3o e honestidade da parte deles.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisa de sentir alguma empatia para com eles, porque eles precisam que algu\u00e9m compreenda o que realmente sentem.<\/p>\n

Precisam de algu\u00e9m que lhes diga que s\u00e3o fant\u00e1sticos tal como s\u00e3o e que se sentem muito sortudos por terem uma pessoa t\u00e3o emotiva na vossa vida.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Precisam de se sentir dignas. Precisam de sentir que s\u00e3o suficientes.<\/p>\n

Eles precisam de sentir que s\u00e3o importantes. E a melhor maneira de lho mostrar \u00e9 amando-o incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n

Trust me, you won\u2019t regret it. Actually, you will get more than you thought out of life with them!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you love an over-thinker, you probably know that it is a huge challenge but that they are worth it. You know that their brain is working on maximum all the time. For every answer you give them, they have so many questions to ask because that is the way they function and they can\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":120498,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20623"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163639,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623\/revisions\/163639"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}