{"id":20642,"date":"2018-07-09T11:23:09","date_gmt":"2018-07-09T11:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20642"},"modified":"2022-04-27T12:16:39","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T12:16:39","slug":"7-temas-e-coisas-para-falar-com-uma-rapariga-que-esta-a-conhecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-temas-e-coisas-para-falar-com-uma-rapariga-que-esta-a-conhecer\/","title":{"rendered":"7 T\u00f3picos e coisas para falar com uma rapariga que est\u00e1 a conhecer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Est\u00e1 a come\u00e7ar a conhecer uma rapariga de quem gosta muito, mas tem medo de estragar tudo desde o in\u00edcio. Tens medo que a tua pobre compet\u00eancias de conversa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> will chase her away and that you won\u2019t have the chance to show this girl everything you have to offer.<\/p>\n

You are nervous because you feel like you won\u2019t have anything to talk about and you are scared that your date will be a complete disaster.<\/p>\n

Well, your troubles are about to end because you\u2019ve come to the right place. Here is some communication aconselhamento<\/a> e coisas para falar com uma rapariga de quem gostas para te ajudar a fechar o neg\u00f3cio.<\/p>\n

1. Como correram os vossos dias<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

When you are on a date with a girl you are just getting to know, especially if it\u2019s a primeiro encontro<\/a>O melhor conselho que pode dar \u00e9 come\u00e7ar com alguns temas ligeiros.<\/p>\n

After all, the two of you don\u2019t know each other very well just yet, so you don\u2019t want things to get awkward right from the start. That\u2019s why you need some ice breakers and some universal conversation topics you can talk about with everyone.<\/p>\n

Uma das melhores coisas para falar com uma rapariga no in\u00edcio \u00e9 perguntar-lhe como correu o dia dela e, claro, falar tamb\u00e9m sobre o seu dia.<\/p>\n

You may think this topic is boring but trust me, it can turn into one of the most interesting conversations and it can help you learn a lot about the girl sitting next to you. This way, you\u2019ll get to know her daily routine, the things she enjoys doing and as coisas que a incomodam<\/a>. Tamb\u00e9m lhe mostra desde o in\u00edcio que est\u00e1 interessado em mais do que apenas a sua apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica. Diz \u00e0 sua acompanhante que est\u00e1 a tentar estabelecer uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com ela e que o seu \u00fanico objetivo n\u00e3o \u00e9 saltar-lhe para cima.<\/p>\n

And trust me\u2014that is something every girl appreciates.<\/p>\n

Se tiver problemas em iniciar uma conversa, pode tentar contar-lhe uma hist\u00f3ria engra\u00e7ada sobre o seu dia. Lembre-se de que os iniciadores de conversa que descontraem um pouco o ambiente s\u00e3o sempre bem-vindos, porque s\u00e3o eles que determinam se esta vai ser uma \u00f3ptima conversa em geral e o in\u00edcio de algo mais.<\/p>\n

2. Tempo livre<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Uma das luzes temas para falar<\/a>\u2014and something that could help you get to know this person better\u2014is talking about free time.<\/p>\n

What are this girl\u2019s favorite hobbies? What relaxes her the most after a long and stressful day?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 do tipo extrovertido ou prefere ficar dentro de casa? Gosta de passar o seu tempo livre em locais com muita gente ou prefere passar o seu tempo livre num local mais calmo?<\/p>\n

Ela gosta de desporto ou de livros? Gosta de aventuras e de viajar?
\nWhat are the places she\u2019s visited so far and where would she like to go in the future?<\/p>\n

Tudo isto pode ajud\u00e1-lo a perceber se ela \u00e9 extrovertida ou rapariga introvertida<\/a> e pode ajud\u00e1-lo a compreender a melhor forma de lidar com ela.<\/p>\n

Claro que estas s\u00e3o todas as coisas que tamb\u00e9m lhe deve dizer sobre si.<\/p>\n

O que tem de compreender \u00e9 que este encontro pode ser o in\u00edcio de algo novo que pode durar. \u00c9 por isso que precisa de ver se voc\u00ea e esta rapariga s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis quando se trata de passar o seu tempo livre. Tem de ver se t\u00eam interesses semelhantes e se a vossa defini\u00e7\u00e3o de divers\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, existe a possibilidade de passar a maior parte do seu tempo livre com essa pessoa e tem de se certificar de que ambos querem as mesmas coisas, caso contr\u00e1rio, poder\u00e1 ter um problema.<\/p>\n

3. Interesses<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Para al\u00e9m dos seus passatempos e de passar o seu tempo livre, outra coisa sobre a qual deve falar com esta rapariga s\u00e3o os seus interesses e prefer\u00eancias. Fale sobre as coisas que esta rapariga adora. H\u00e1 coisas que voc\u00eas os dois t\u00eam em comum?<\/p>\n

V\u00e1 um pouco mais longe: pergunte a esta rapariga perguntas para explorar a sua mente.<\/a><\/p>\n

What kind of art does she enjoy? What is this girl\u2019s favorite book and author? What is her favorite movie? Does she enjoy watching any TV shows and if so, which ones?<\/p>\n

Esta rapariga gosta de ir a museus e teatros ou prefere ir a discotecas? Ou combina as duas coisas?<\/p>\n

T\u00eam interesses semelhantes ou s\u00e3o completamente diferentes?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014I\u2019m definitely not telling you that you should try and find the girl who likes exactly the same things you like. After all, that is practically impossible. And even if it were possible, it wouldn\u2019t be interesting.<\/p>\n

Mas o que tem de decidir \u00e9 se voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o demasiado diferentes no que diz respeito aos vossos interesses e prefer\u00eancias e se essas diferen\u00e7as t\u00eam um impacto negativo ou positivo na vossa potencial rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I know these are some things you probably don\u2019t want to think about from the start but trust me\u2014this is exactly the time when you should have these things in mind, before things go too far.<\/p>\n

4. Trabalho, carreira e escola<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

If you\u2019ve gone out on a blind date with a girl, you probably don\u2019t know much about the person sitting next to you. The same thing happens if you guys met in a club or in similar circumstances.<\/p>\n

Por isso, o encontro \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima oportunidade para descobrir mais sobre o outro.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que esta rapariga faz na vida? Ela gosta do que faz? Est\u00e1 feliz com as suas escolhas profissionais e est\u00e1 satisfeita com as coisas que conseguiu at\u00e9 agora?<\/p>\n

Embora os temas de trabalho possam parecer aborrecidos \u00e0 primeira vista, na realidade n\u00e3o s\u00e3o nada disso.<\/p>\n

First of all, it will give you the chance to talk about each other\u2019s education and what you wanted to become when you were younger.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ter\u00e1 a oportunidade de descobrir o tipo de pessoa que esta rapariga \u00e9. Ela \u00e9 do tipo criativo? Gosta de trabalhar com pessoas?<\/p>\n

Is she ambitious and is she looking for ways to progress or she is more than happy with her work position and she doesn\u2019t think of changing it?<\/p>\n

Conseguiu realizar os seus sonhos relativamente \u00e0 sua carreira? Est\u00e1 no s\u00edtio onde queria estar? Se n\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que ela est\u00e1 a fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso?<\/p>\n

Of course, you need to make sure not to turn this into a quiz and not to make this girl feel like she\u2019s being interrogated. Instead, these are just the things that will probably be mentioned through the conversation and the things she expects to find out about you as well.<\/p>\n

5. Esperan\u00e7as e sonhos<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

So, you\u2019ve covered most of the light topics and you\u2019ve definitely broken the ice. Now, you are both relaxed and comfortable around each other and you are both ready to start to getting to know each other better.<\/p>\n

That means it might be a good idea to start tackling some deeper issues and to show her that you\u2019ve been paying attention to everything this girl told you.<\/p>\n

Uma dessas quest\u00f5es \u00e9 a conversa sobre as suas esperan\u00e7as, sonhos e aspira\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

If you start this topic, you\u2019ll show this girl that you are way different than all the other guys out there. You don\u2019t want to get to know this girl shallowly. You want to get to know the core of her soul and personality.<\/p>\n

That means you\u2019ll want to know what this girl\u2019s deepest dreams and hopes are.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que ela quer da vida? Em que \u00e9 que ela sonhava tornar-se? E ser\u00e1 ela a pessoa que sempre quis ser?<\/p>\n

E, o mais importante, voc\u00eas os dois querem coisas semelhantes da vida?<\/p>\n

If you talk to any girl about these topics, she\u2019ll see that you stand out from others and you\u2019ll definitely interest her in giving you a chance and to start something more serious with you. You\u2019ll show her that you are a mature man and not a boy.<\/p>\n

6. Medos<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

A lot of guys are afraid of opening up to women, especially in the beginning. They are scared of tearing down their emotional walls because they think this will make them appear too vulnerable or less masculine. They also might be afraid of getting hurt if they show their real personality to the girl they\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 aqui que deve mostrar a essa mulher que n\u00e3o \u00e9 como qualquer outro homem e que adora falar sobre os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

You need to show her that you are just a human being made of flesh who doesn\u2019t pretend he is tougher than he actually is. You need to show her that you don\u2019t have any trouble whatsoever being in touch with your emotional and lado vulner\u00e1vel.<\/a><\/p>\n

E a melhor maneira de o conseguir \u00e9 falar com ela sobre os seus medos e desilus\u00f5es mais profundos.
\nNo, this won\u2019t make you weak and it definitely won\u2019t chase this girl away. Instead, she will just see that you are strong enough to get in touch with your emotions and that you don\u2019t have any problem talking about them.<\/p>\n

Of course, you opening up to this girl will probably inspire her to do the same thing. She\u2019ll realize that you trust her enough to be sincere around her and that will make her think you are also trustworthy, so she will feel like she can talk to you about the same things you\u2019ve been telling her about.<\/p>\n

Tudo isto constitui uma excelente base para uma excelente rela\u00e7\u00e3o e \u00e9 exatamente isto que precisa e quer.<\/p>\n

7. Relacionamentos<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

So you\u2019ve talked to this girl about work, about both of your hobbies and interests and you\u2019ve started tackling some more serious and deeper issues.<\/p>\n

Now is the right time to start talking about the thing that probably interests you the most\u2014relationships.<\/p>\n

I know you probably want to know as much as possible about this girl\u2019s relationship history, but you need to be aware of the fact that the of you are just getting to know each other and you can\u2019t expect her to tell you everything about her love life right away.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be too nosey and you definitely don\u2019t want to appear insecure. And that is exactly what she\u2019ll think of you if you start questioning her about every single detail of her romantic past.<\/p>\n

The thing you should never do is to ask a girl about the number of guys she\u2019s dated or about the number of men she slept with because that invades her privacy and has nothing to do with you anyway. Besides, it only shows that you are intimidated and insecure.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should be the first one to open up about your relationship past. I am not saying that you should tell her every single detail of it or that you should mention every girl you\u2019ve ever dated.<\/p>\n

But there is nothing wrong with mentioning the fact that you\u2019ve just gotten out of a serious relationship or something similar. Just make sure not to talk about your exes too much because that might seem you are still not over them completely, that you carry a lot of emotional baggage or that this girl is nada mais do que a sua rapariga de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n

After she sees you\u2019ve opened up, I\u2019m sure she\u2019ll follow.<\/p>\n

Outro tema que deve ser abordado \u00e9 o que ambos querem e esperam da vossa vida amorosa. Sei que est\u00e3o no in\u00edcio e que seria absurdo comprometerem-se com alguma coisa ou fazerem promessas um ao outro desde j\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Mas seria bom se ambos pudessem ser honestos e dizer sinceramente um ao outro o que \u00e9 que realmente procuram. Querem apenas divertir-se ou est\u00e3o \u00e0 procura de algo mais s\u00e9rio? Isto ajudar\u00e1 a perceber se est\u00e3o em sintonia e ajudar\u00e1 a construir o vosso potencial futuro juntos. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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