{"id":20670,"date":"2019-07-10T08:33:16","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T08:33:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20670"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:41:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:41:52","slug":"podias-te-la-tido-para-toda-a-vida-mas-perdeste-a-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/podias-te-la-tido-para-toda-a-vida-mas-perdeste-a-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Podias t\u00ea-la tido para toda a vida, mas perdeste-a para sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela tinha a certeza que voc\u00eas estavam na mesma p\u00e1gina. E quem \u00e9 que a pode culpar? Nunca disseste nada que a fizesse pensar o contr\u00e1rio. <\/span><\/p>\n

She remembers telling you that she was sure about you, that she was there to stay a lifetime. She remembers you telling her that you felt the same way. That\u2019s why nothing that happened later on made any sense to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see, she is totally unlike you. She doesn\u2019t have an insincere bone in her body. She meant every word she said. And for you, it was nothing more than just words. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era o facto de lhe dizeres o que ela queria ouvir para que, sempre que a desiludisses, ela tivesse algo a que se agarrar. <\/span><\/p>\n

You lost her bit by bit. It didn\u2019t happen overnight. It wasn\u2019t one big thing that drove you apart, it was millions of little things that accumulated over time. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Foi uma desilus\u00e3o atr\u00e1s da outra. A \u00faltima coisa que fizeste foi apenas a ponta do icebergue. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ela adorava-o. Ela teria feito qualquer coisa pelo seu amor, exceto implorar. Ela recusou-se a implorar por aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o. Ela recusou-se a implorar por respeito. <\/span>Ela estava cansada <\/span><\/a>de procurar a vossa aten\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentia-se como se estivesse consigo e sozinha ao mesmo tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a ao servir-lhe mentiras quando ela s\u00f3 te deu a verdade.<\/b> Alimentaste-a com falsas promessas at\u00e9 ela n\u00e3o conseguir ouvir mais nada. Ela saberia que tudo o que sa\u00edsse da tua boca era mentira. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a ao fazeres com que tudo girasse \u00e0 tua volta em vez de olhares para voc\u00eas os dois como uma equipa. <\/b>She felt left out. You made sure your needs were met and you didn\u2019t pay much attention to hers. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pelo menos j\u00e1 n\u00e3o. Costumava faz\u00ea-lo antes. Ela queria tanto que mudasses a tua maneira de ser, mas nunca imaginou que fosse para pior. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a porque ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o te reconhecia. <\/b>You weren’t the man she fell for. That sweet and loving man who had all the time in the world for her was no longer there. <\/span><\/p>\n

As vossas visitas eram mais curtas. Esperavas cada vez mais tempo para responder \u00e0s suas mensagens. Desmarcavas os planos que tinhas feito com ela se aparecesse algo melhor. S\u00f3 estavas l\u00e1 quando era necess\u00e1rio <\/span>conveniente<\/span><\/a> e nem mais um momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a porque a fizeste pensar que ela era a \u00fanica causa dos teus problemas. <\/b>Disse-lhe que ela n\u00e3o era assim t\u00e3o inocente em tudo isto. Que muitos dos problemas que tinhas eram com ela. <\/span><\/p>\n

She lacked understanding, she hadn\u2019t supported you enough and so on and so on. Your claims were unfounded because even though she admitted she knew she wasn\u2019t perfect, she knew that she had done her best for your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a porque pediste desculpa em v\u00e3o.<\/b> Saying, \u201cI am sorry,\u201d meant nothing to you. You would say the words and go ahead and do it again. <\/span><\/p>\n

Saberias como acalm\u00e1-la e voltar a ficar do lado dela. Mas ela come\u00e7ou a ver atrav\u00e9s de ti. Viu que todas as tuas desculpas n\u00e3o valiam nada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a porque nunca lhe deste valor. <\/b>You mistook her kindness for weakness. You took her for granted. You couldn\u2019t see how amazing she was just because she was so grounded and humble.<\/span><\/p>\n

She would always put herself in your shoes before making a decision. You couldn\u2019t recognize all the efforts she made to understand you better. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdeste-a por a tratares como se ela fosse a tua rede de seguran\u00e7a.<\/b> Sabias o quanto ela te amava, por isso pensaste que podias ir e vir quando quisesses. <\/span><\/p>\n

You thought no matter what you did, she would always forgive you, she would always take you back. She had done so before so why wouldn\u2019t she now? <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas tu atingiste esse limite dentro dela. O limite que ela pr\u00f3pria desconhecia. Nessa altura, ela soube que j\u00e1 era suficiente. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That if she kept on forgiving you it would be a lifetime all right but a lifetime of misery. And misery was one word and one feeling that she couldn\u2019t connect with love. She chose to make herself happy by refusing to let you continue making her <\/i><\/b>infeliz<\/i><\/b><\/a>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why this time, her goodbye is final. She can\u2019t wait anymore. She can\u2019t be the one who understands and forgives anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even try to get back with her. She no longer has time to waste on you. <\/span>Desta vez, perdeste-a de vez e s\u00f3 te podes culpar a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><\/p>\n

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She was positive you guys were on the same page. And who could blame her? You never said anything to make her think otherwise. She remembers telling you that she was sure about you, that she was there to stay a lifetime. She remembers you telling her that you felt the same way. That\u2019s why…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":20671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20670","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jordan-sanchez-44890-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20670","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20670"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20670\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20670"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20670"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20670"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}