{"id":2072,"date":"2017-07-03T09:45:06","date_gmt":"2017-07-03T09:45:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2072"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:47:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:47:18","slug":"a-dura-verdade-e-que-foste-capturado-espera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-dura-verdade-e-que-foste-capturado-espera\/","title":{"rendered":"A dura verdade sobre como se \u00e9 capturado pela \"espera\" enquanto ele est\u00e1 l\u00e1 fora com ela"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019d swim the ocean for him, but you are not sure he\u2019d do the same for you. You\u2019d like him to stay with you for the rest of your life, but he\u2019s indecisive. He\u2019s always rushing somewhere and you only get a tiny piece of his day (if you\u2019re lucky).<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIf he really loved her, he wouldn\u2019t even think of being with you.\u201d are probably words of wisdom from an extremely sad \u2018other woman\u2019, so she found comfort in these words. They are actually nonsense. <\/span><\/p>\n

You might be his temporary desire, but the truth is he belongs to her. She is his first option and she is the one he\u2019s with almost every night. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, he keeps promising you the stars and saying everything is going to get better the moment he ends his relationship with her. He says he can\u2019t bring you out in the open and that you have to enjoy your time together in privacy because he wants to do things in the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n

As he is a sensitive creature that doesn\u2019t want to leave broken hearts behind him, he\u2019s waiting for the right moment to be with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

O \u00fanico problema \u00e9 que o momento certo nunca chega e os amanh\u00e3s n\u00e3o t\u00eam fim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you see what he did there? He might not even enter into the affair with you. You might have never even dated yet but you\u2019re there now, captured by \u2018the wait\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re waiting for him to do a rain-check and you are not even absolutely positive he\u2019s going to end up with you, but you\u2019re still waiting. <\/span><\/p>\n

A esperan\u00e7a nele destruir-vos-\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the way our women\u2019s brains work. See, there is no need for him to promise you stars, you\u2019ve already created this perfect future with only the two of you together and your dog. You\u2019ve planned it till the slightest detail. And you hold on to that thought so tight, waiting for him to come and to make your dreams come true.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s just playing with you. He\u2019s making you believe he\u2019ll be there eventually. We\u2019re accustomed to waiting for so many things in life that you\u2019re not even worried about waiting for him. You made yourself believe he is going to come knocking at your door every minute now and when you open it, he\u2019s going to be there in front of you, standing with his suitcase.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:\u00a0<\/strong>6 Clear Signs He\u2019s Twisting You Around His Little Finger<\/p>\n

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He\u2019ll come in with the words: \u201cHoney, I am home!\u201d and all your loneliness will be worth the wait. <\/span><\/p>\n

Detesto ter de vos dizer isto, mas ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o vosso prometido. <\/span><\/p>\n

While you\u2019re there waiting for him, he\u2019s just enjoying his time with her. He has no trouble showing her to the world nor holding her hand publicly.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not you. It\u2019s her that is beside him now, and no matter how hard you try, how lovely you are or if you are better than her, you will never be his first choice. He has it all with her, or at least he has most of the things he needs with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

She suits him, and you\u2019re there to fill in the blanks he feels like he\u2019s missing.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is no special story. There is no epic love nor the closure you\u2019re looking for. <\/span><\/p>\n

Girl, you\u2019re just wasting your time. You\u2019re just letting the most amazing period of time pass by you. And you couldn\u2019t be more mistaken. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are soon to realize he\u2019s just making things up. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s coming up with the excuses why he can\u2019t leave her. It\u2019s always something else that pops up a minute before he\u2019s done with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

What you need to understand is, he\u2019s just a player. He\u2019s playing you. It\u2019s not gonna serve you even if he dumps her for you because eventually, he might dump you for somebody else as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re putting all your eggs in one basket instead of giving up on him. The world is keeping its fingers crossed for you to see in time that he\u2019s just wasting your time. Don\u2019t spend the rest of your life waiting for somebody who might never come. Instead, devote your time and attention to somebody who\u2019ll truly love you back and who\u2019ll make you his #1.<\/span><\/p>\n

Oh, e diz adeus a esse idiota!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:\u00a0<\/strong>5 maneiras simples de deixar de se preocupar com um homem<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019d swim the ocean for him, but you are not sure he\u2019d do the same for you. You\u2019d like him to stay with you for the rest of your life, but he\u2019s indecisive. He\u2019s always rushing somewhere and you only get a tiny piece of his day (if you\u2019re lucky). \u201cIf he really loved her,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":2074,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2072","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/lovers-1468523_1920a-min.jpg",800,541,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2072","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2072"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2072\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2072"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2072"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2072"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}