{"id":20721,"date":"2019-07-11T11:01:23","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T11:01:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20721"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:47:23","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:47:23","slug":"7-coisas-que-os-homens-passam-depois-de-um-desgosto-de-amor-e-que-tem-dificuldade-em-admitir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-os-homens-passam-depois-de-um-desgosto-de-amor-e-que-tem-dificuldade-em-admitir\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que os homens passam depois de um desgosto de amor (e que t\u00eam dificuldade em admitir)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Os desgostos amorosos s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis, independentemente de se ser homem ou mulher. A dor, a desilus\u00e3o e aquela horr\u00edvel sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de solid\u00e3o est\u00e3o sempre presentes. O que \u00e9 diferente \u00e9 a forma como lidamos com toda essa dor.<\/p>\n<p>A diferen\u00e7a na forma como o homem e a mulher lidam com as separa\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 exatamente o que faz com que os homens pare\u00e7am insens\u00edveis depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, embora estejam longe disso. As coisas que se passam nas suas almas e mentes permanecem normalmente um mist\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, eu estava determinado a chegar ao fundo das coisas, por isso perguntei a trinta homens sobre as suas experi\u00eancias de desgosto amoroso. Todos e cada um deles tinham algo \u00fanico a acrescentar, mas os seus pensamentos gerais e padr\u00f5es de comportamento eram quase id\u00eanticos. Resumi tudo em 7 coisas pelas quais os homens passam <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/esta-entre-o-desgosto-e-a-cura-7-formas-de-ultrapassar-o-limbo-emocional\/\">depois de um desgosto<\/a>:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Esconder o facto de estar magoado<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Just because they don\u2019t show they are hurt doesn\u2019t mean they handle breakups more easily than women. Men stumble upon bad relationships and wrong woman just as much. They are not shielded in any way from all the pain that a breakup brings.<\/p>\n<p>While women will talk to their friends and receive much-needed compassion and support, men don\u2019t have that. If they utter aloud just how much someone messed them up, they will get mocked and ridiculed by their friends. Not only that, most men feel like they are weaker if they talk about their feelings (no matter whether those are good or bad) so they avoid talking about them completely,<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Fazem o seu melhor para agir com alegria<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A \u00eanfase aqui est\u00e1 na palavra atuar. Est\u00e3o de rastos, mas fazem o seu melhor para o encobrir. Fazem de conta que n\u00e3o aconteceu nada, que nada lhes toca e que tudo est\u00e1 bem.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma das piores e mais devastadoras <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/esta-entre-o-desgosto-e-a-cura-7-formas-de-ultrapassar-o-limbo-emocional\/\">t\u00e9cnicas de cura<\/a>. Instead of dealing with their feelings, they brush them under the carpet and put on their tough front. They are crumbling from the inside and pretending won\u2019t do them any good.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Ir ao gin\u00e1sio<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Instead of dealing with what they feel from the inside, they concentrate on the outside. So they hit the gym in an attempt to recover their bruised egos. They focus on getting in shape and forming those six packs, and they redirect their thoughts to themselves\u2014which is essentially a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, suam toda a sua dor e frustra\u00e7\u00e3o durante o processo, mesmo que n\u00e3o tenham consci\u00eancia de que o est\u00e3o a fazer. Tudo o que sabem \u00e9 que se sentem melhor e, por isso, continuam.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Encontrar algo que os distraia<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>They need something that creates a distraction from this unbearable pain. So they find it by trying out something new, burying themselves in work, playing video games, having marathon movie nights or watching all the seasons of their favorite series for a few nights in a row. In the worst case scenario, they try to drown their pain in alcohol. The next morning, they realize that didn\u2019t go so well and all they accomplished was getting a horrible headache.<\/p>\n<p>Em todo o caso, estas distrac\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o-lhes \u00fateis. Permitem-lhes distrair-se de tudo o que acabou de acontecer. D\u00e3o-lhes tempo para relaxar. Mas se as mantiverem durante um per\u00edodo mais longo, estas distrac\u00e7\u00f5es tornam-se uma forma de n\u00e3o lidar com a realidade.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Atingir um certo n\u00edvel de depress\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Repetem todos os cen\u00e1rios poss\u00edveis nas suas cabe\u00e7as. Sentem nostalgia de momentos passados que nunca existir\u00e3o. Muitas vezes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/isolofilia\/\">preferir a solid\u00e3o<\/a>, so they avoid socializing with anybody. They either eat all the time (comfort food) or they don\u2019t eat at all, depending on their personality.<\/p>\n<p>Perseguem as contas das redes sociais e os estados online dos seus ex. A ideia de ver o seu ex com outra pessoa est\u00e1 a mat\u00e1-las. Ficam dominadas pela dor e n\u00e3o fazem ideia do que fazer. O pior de tudo \u00e9 que guardam tudo dentro de si, o que faz com que demorem muito mais tempo a processar as coisas e a ultrapassar a separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Envolver-se em encontros de uma noite<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Eles v\u00e3o para a cama com qualquer uma. T\u00eam na cabe\u00e7a a ideia de que o sexo com mulheres ao acaso os far\u00e1 sentir-se melhor e menos sozinhos. No entanto, a maioria deles arrepende-se logo a seguir ou mesmo durante o ato sexual.<\/p>\n<p>Lembram-se de como era ter uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira. Lembram-se dos sons, dos movimentos corporais e dos gestos faciais do seu ex-companheiro. Comparam. Sentem falta da felicidade que sentiam antes. Ent\u00e3o, os seus <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/one-night-stands-cant-heal-a-broken-heart\/\">encontros de uma noite<\/a> n\u00e3o s\u00e3o mais do que um monte de arrependimentos que nunca ajudam.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Apressar-se para a pr\u00f3xima rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Rebound relationships are more connected with brokenhearted men than women. It\u2019s a gender difference. They have this feeling they will be the winner of the breakup if they move on first\u2014if they find somebody else to fill the void that\u2019s left. It really feels good at first. They have someone new by their sides.<\/p>\n<p>But as their feelings get onto more stable ground, they realize that they rushed into things. They don\u2019t know the person they are with now or they are still not completely over their ex.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52259 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg.jpg\" alt=\"7 COISAS PELAS QUAIS OS HOMENS PASSAM DEPOIS DE UM DESGOSTO DE AMOR (QUE T\u00caM DIFICULDADE EM ADMITIR)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heartbreaks are hard no matter if you are a man or a woman. Pain, disappointment and that horrible sense of loneliness are all there. What\u2019s different is the way we deal with all that pain. The difference in the way man and woman deal with breakups is just the thing that makes men seem heartless&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20722,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/ali-yahya-650261-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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