{"id":20740,"date":"2020-08-11T12:45:08","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T12:45:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20740"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:55:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:55:31","slug":"e-se-eu-nunca-amar-mais-ninguem-como-te-amei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-se-eu-nunca-amar-mais-ninguem-como-te-amei\/","title":{"rendered":"E se eu nunca amar mais ningu\u00e9m como te amei a ti?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I think of you, somehow I manage to forget everything bad that happened between us. I\u2019ve managed to forget all the pain you caused me and all the toxicity in our relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, I\u2019ve managed to forget all the tears I cried because of you and everything I went through in our relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know how but with time, I\u2019ve managed to forget your jealousy, your manipulations and your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-signs-emotional-abuse-relationship\/\"> abuso emocional <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve forgotten how you made me feel worthless and how you caused me to question myself and everything I was doing.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve forgotten how you always blamed me for everything wrong in our relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Como fizeste tudo o que estava ao teu alcance para me fazeres sentir culpado e para me convenceres de que eu merecia tudo o que de mau me estava a acontecer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107946\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve forgotten about all the times you insulted and belittled me and about all the times you made me feel bad about myself.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, I\u2019ve even forgotten about the pain you put me through when you left me. I\u2019ve even forgotten about the fact that you walked away from me. That you abandoned me and never looked back.<\/p>\n<p>That you didn\u2019t care about my feelings or how everything you did made me feel.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve forgotten how you moved on with your life, as if I was never a part of it. How you didn\u2019t think about me even for a second, about what would happen to me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sabes, eu estava assustado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I was petrified that I wouldn\u2019t be able to function without you. I was certain that my life lost all of its meaning without you in it and that I would be lost all by myself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107947\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-looking-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no ch\u00e3o e a olhar para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-looking-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-looking-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-looking-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-looking-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-and-looking-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I was scared that you\u2019d forget all about me and that you would continue living your life as soon as you found another victim.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E foi exatamente isso que aconteceu.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But somehow, I\u2019ve survived.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Da mesma forma que sobrevivi ao nosso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-signs-toxic-relationship\/\"> rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica <\/a> . E da mesma forma que sobrevivi ao facto de me teres deixado, embora pensasse que isso me ia matar.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve survived almost all of my fears. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 it didn\u2019t happen because I managed to overcome and outgrow them.<\/p>\n<p><b>No, I\u2019ve survived almost all of my fears related to you because they all came to life. And none of them killed me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Mas o mais forte permaneceu.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You might find this funny but despite everything that happened between us, I only remember the beautiful things. Because let\u2019s face it \u2014 we have some amazing memories.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107948\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-serious-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher s\u00e9ria a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-serious-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-serious-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-serious-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-serious-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-serious-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas, acima de tudo, lembro-me de como te amava.<\/p>\n<p><b>E o meu maior medo est\u00e1 ligado exatamente ao meu amor por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You might find this funny too but I\u2019ve never loved anyone else the way I loved you. I know this probably sounds like an empty phrase or a clich\u00e9 but, sadly for me, it\u2019s the only truth.<\/p>\n<p>Years have passed since you and I were together but I\u2019ve never grown to love anyone the way I loved you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I am not telling you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ainda-amo-embora-toxico\/\"> Continuo a amar-te <\/a> because I don\u2019t think I do. I am just telling you that the love I felt for you can\u2019t be compared with anything else I\u2019ve experienced in my life.<\/p>\n<p><b>Eu sei que n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que as coisas devem ser. Eu sei que o amor \u00e9 a \u00faltima emo\u00e7\u00e3o que eu deveria ligar a ti. Sei que \u00e9s o \u00faltimo homem que merece ter o t\u00edtulo de pessoa mais amada da minha vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107949\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e pensativa a olhar para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que eu possa controlar. E n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que eu tenha escolhido.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>O que eu tenho medo \u00e9 de nunca amar algu\u00e9m como te amei a ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tenho medo de passar toda a minha vida a lembrar-me de ti e a pensar em tudo o que se passou entre n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>I am petrified that years will pass and that you\u2019ll still be the man I loved the most.<\/p>\n<p>Que vou comparar os meus sentimentos por todos os homens do meu futuro com a forma como te amei. E que nenhum amor por qualquer outro homem se aproximar\u00e1 do amor que senti por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Que me vou casar, ter filhos e que vou envelhecer sem nunca ter amado algu\u00e9m como te amei a ti.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tenho medo que continues a ser para sempre a pessoa mais importante da minha vida, enquanto tu nem sequer pensas em mim.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107951 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"E se eu nunca amar ningu\u00e9m como te amei a ti?\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I think of you, somehow I manage to forget everything bad that happened between us. I\u2019ve managed to forget all the pain you caused me and all the toxicity in our relationship. Somehow, I\u2019ve managed to forget all the tears I cried because of you and everything I went through in our relationship. I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":107950,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20740","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-If-I-Never-Love-Anyone-Else-The-Way-I-Loved-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20740","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20740"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20740\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107950"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20740"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20740"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20740"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}