{"id":20752,"date":"2020-06-12T09:04:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T09:04:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20752"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:55:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:55:11","slug":"antes-de-se-apaixonar-por-uma-rapariga-ferozmente-independente-mas-ridiculamente-emocional-saiba-isto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/antes-de-se-apaixonar-por-uma-rapariga-ferozmente-independente-mas-ridiculamente-emocional-saiba-isto\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de se apaixonar por uma rapariga ferozmente independente mas ridiculamente emotiva, saiba isto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela \u00e9 autossuficiente. Sempre soube o que precisava e o que tinha de fazer sozinha. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca nada lhe veio servido numa bandeja de prata. Teve de ganhar tudo na sua vida com o seu trabalho \u00e1rduo e a sua teimosia.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tem medo de ir e fazer as coisas sozinha. Ela j\u00e1 passou por tudo e isso ensinou-lhe que a \u00fanica pessoa em quem pode confiar \u00e9 nela pr\u00f3pria.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy for her to open up to someone and let them love her. She, who has learned to do everything by herself and never to depend on anyone,<\/span> n\u00e3o consegue imaginar-se a perder-se num n\u00f3 de sentimentos confusos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a outra pessoa. <\/span><\/p>\n

But believe it or not, she can love and her love is the same as she is\u2014fiercely <\/span>independente<\/span><\/a> e ridiculamente emocional. <\/span><\/p>\n

When she falls in love, it\u2019s something that lasts for as long as you don\u2019t break it yourself by doing something selfish and stupid. She will never be the one who\u2019ll break her promise of loving you. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is tearing her apart because on the one hand, she wants to give all of herself to someone who deserves it, but she doesn\u2019t want to lose who she is. You see, it\u2019s so hard loving her, but it\u2019s also worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is afraid that she\u2019ll stumble upon someone who won\u2019t be able to understand her and give her the space she needs. She\u2019s afraid she\u2019ll have to become dependent and that she\u2019ll lose her true self, but at the same time, she wants to give that someone special all of her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela quer inclu\u00ed-lo na sua vida. Ela quer que eles juntem os seus caminhos e lutem juntos. Embora isto seja assustador como o raio, ela quer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Her mind is the biggest problem here. She\u2019s trying to shush it. She\u2019s  trying to fight with her reason which is telling her that she doesn\u2019t need anybody. <\/span><\/p>\n

Diz-lhe que ela j\u00e1 est\u00e1 completa e que outra pessoa s\u00f3 a pode arruinar, enquanto o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o luta tamb\u00e9m para vencer. O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, o seu lado emocional, que \u00e9 t\u00e3o forte como o racional, quer que ela ceda ao prazer, que se entregue ao amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Depois, d\u00e1 por si a abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo, a beij\u00e1-lo, a entregar-se completamente a ele. Nada mais importa. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A sua luta entre a raz\u00e3o e o cora\u00e7\u00e3o terminou. O cora\u00e7\u00e3o venceu. Ela depende agora do seu amor. Ela agora depende do seu toque carinhoso e das suas palavras gentis. Ela agora est\u00e1 apaixonada.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s when she gets vulnerable. That\u2019s when she loses herself because she has nothing under control. She is exposed to you completely. She is suddenly aware of the situation she is in. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela deixou-o entrar. Confiou em ti e tu podes facilmente mago\u00e1-la. Ent\u00e3o, ela afasta-se. <\/span>Ela constr\u00f3i um enorme muro emocional<\/span><\/a> \u00e0 sua volta, porque se apercebeu que est\u00e1 completamente nua, \u00e0 mostra e \u00e0 sua merc\u00ea. <\/span><\/p>\n

She is scared. Being just independent or just emotional is impossible for her. She can\u2019t choose to be just one thing and yet it\u2019s impossible to be just one. <\/span><\/p>\n

She has to find the balance. If she\u2019s independent, she craves love and when she is love, she misses her freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela tem de ser fiel a si pr\u00f3pria. Tem de se manter independente e confiar mais em si pr\u00f3pria. Ela sabe que as suas decis\u00f5es s\u00e3o as melhores para ela. <\/span><\/p>\n

She knows her mind will never trick her, but she can\u2019t be afraid of love so much. You have to show her that there is a balance between the two. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to make her aware that even if she falls in love, she won\u2019t lose herself. She won\u2019t lose the ability to make her own decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Help her be who she is and help her embrace her emotional side because that is the part of her, too\u2014not only her reason and her mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 uma mulher forte. \u00c9 uma mulher emotiva. Ela \u00e9 a mistura perfeita de ambos. <\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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