{"id":20758,"date":"2019-07-12T10:50:55","date_gmt":"2019-07-12T10:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20758"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:34:36","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:34:36","slug":"se-olhares-a-tua-volta-veras-que-ja-nao-estou-ca-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-olhares-a-tua-volta-veras-que-ja-nao-estou-ca-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Se olhares \u00e0 tua volta, vais reparar que me fui embora"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Se olharem \u00e0 vossa volta, v\u00e3o reparar que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estou \u00e0 espera das vossas mensagens. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o estou a enviar nada.  N\u00e3o estou a tentar ligar-me mentalmente a ti e obrigar-te a responder. N\u00e3o vou enviar a segunda mensagem quando n\u00e3o tiveste a dec\u00eancia de responder \u00e0 primeira. Estou farto de olhar para um<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/merecem-olhar-para-o-ecra-vazio\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ecr\u00e3 vazio.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I have a lot going on and don\u2019t have the time to worry about why you are acting stupidly. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not waiting for you to make time for me.<\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am not there so you can cancel on me or serve me your lame excuses. I am not bending over backward and ignoring my own plans just so I can see you when it\u2019s convenient. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice you are not getting anything from me, not anymore.<\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cansei-me de dar e n\u00e3o receber nada em troca. Cansei-me de me sentir t\u00e3o s\u00f3 e t\u00e3o pouco apreciada quando estava contigo. Cansei-me de n\u00e3o saber qual \u00e9 a minha posi\u00e7\u00e3o. Cansei-me de dar dois passos atr\u00e1s sempre que d\u00e1vamos um em frente.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice that you miss this smile of mine. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lembras-te de quantas vezes consegui fazer aquele sorriso, apesar de me teres feito chorar na noite anterior? Lembras-te da facilidade com que perdoei e ultrapassei tudo porque nos pus sempre \u00e0 frente de qualquer problema que pud\u00e9ssemos ter? N\u00e3o voltarei a fazer isso. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not there to listen anymore. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am not there to support you no matter what. I am not there to understand you when nobody else can. I am not there to read between the lines and guess the things you refuse to say. I can\u2019t be there anymore because I never got those things from you. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am no longer there to boost your ego. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Elevar-te a um pedestal enquanto me p\u00f5es em baixo e despertas as minhas inseguran\u00e7as. Quero rodear-me de pessoas que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">capacitar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e tornar-me mais forte do que j\u00e1 sou. S\u00f3 me fizeste sentir fraca e indigna.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not waiting anymore. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not waiting and I am not expecting anything from you anymore. You drowned my hopes of a better life together a long time ago. I finally realize life is too short to be strong for someone who uses the fact that they are your weakness to manipulate you. Life is to short to spend it on somebody who is never sure about anything. Life&#8217;s too short to settle for less than I deserve. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esqueceste-te-de-a-amar-e-e-por-isso-que-ela-se-foi-embora\/\">Fui-me embora<\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am gone for good this time. I know you don\u2019t believe me because I went and I came back so many times before. I gave you<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estragaste-todas-as-tuas-oportunidades-de-estar-comigo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> oportunidades infinitas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you misused them all. &nbsp;I know you don\u2019t believe me and I don\u2019t care because this time, I believe it myself. <\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41397\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not waiting for your texts anymore. I am not sending any either. &nbsp;I am not trying to mentally connect with you and make you answer. I am not sending that second text when you had no decency to reply on the first one. I am done looking&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20759,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jessica-felicio-463231-unsplash-4.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20758","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20758"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20758\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20758"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20758"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20758"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}