{"id":20805,"date":"2020-06-22T08:42:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T08:42:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20805"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:43:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:43:42","slug":"a-mulher-em-que-te-estas-a-tornar-vai-custar-te-muito-mas-escolhe-a-na-mesma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-mulher-em-que-te-estas-a-tornar-vai-custar-te-muito-mas-escolhe-a-na-mesma\/","title":{"rendered":"A mulher em que te est\u00e1s a tornar vai custar-te muito, mas escolhe-a na mesma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Est\u00e1 a ficar mais forte a cada dia que passa. \u00c9 mais independente e autossuficiente do que alguma vez foi.<\/p>\n<p>You know who you are and what you deserve and you won\u2019t take shit from anybody. Don\u2019t let that frighten you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you are doing something wrong. Self-love is not selfish, it\u2019s necessary. Embrace the change you are experiencing. Love the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-a-relacao-da-sua-vida-sera-com-uma-mulher-ferozmente-independente\/\"> mulher feroz<\/a> em que se est\u00e1 a tornar.<\/p>\n<p>You are constantly learning. Life is making you learn, even when you don\u2019t want to. Some lessons will be hard to handle, some will go smoothly. Unfortunately, we get more from the tough ones.<\/p>\n<p>Os seus erros e acertos, as suas quedas e os seus altos, a sua dor e a sua felicidade transformaram-na na mulher que \u00e9 hoje.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who won\u2019t settle for anything half-assed.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95588\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"Uma jovem bonita com cabelo comprido e um vestido giro na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You learned that half-love, almost relationships, and fake friendships are nothing more than a waste of your time. You don\u2019t give endless chances to people anymore because you know they will end up disappointing you.<\/p>\n<p>Queres ter na tua vida pessoas que te apoiem. Queres um namorado, n\u00e3o um quase namorado. Queres amizades que sejam verdadeiras e genu\u00ednas, n\u00e3o aquelas que s\u00e3o criadas por conveni\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who won\u2019t stay silent when something is bothering her. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Os teus olhos est\u00e3o doridos de tanto olhar por entre os dedos. Olhaste para al\u00e9m de tantas coisas que te exigiam uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o. Os teus l\u00e1bios n\u00e3o param de se mexer porque foram selados nos momentos em que sentiram uma necessidade incr\u00edvel de falar.<\/p>\n<p>Pensou que estava a fazer bem \u00e0s suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es e amizades ao guardar sil\u00eancio sobre as coisas que o incomodavam ou magoavam.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, continuaram a engarrafar dentro de si, at\u00e9 que se passou. Agora sabes que a melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 falar e deitar tudo c\u00e1 para fora.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"homem parece confuso enquanto a mulher fala\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Est\u00e1 a tornar-se uma mulher que sabe o que pode e o que n\u00e3o pode tolerar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are slowly creating your own standards. You won\u2019t allow anyone to treat you poorly. You know your limits now. You know how many times you spent nights crying because somebody hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>You are tired of forgiving without hearing the actual words. You are tired of seeing the best in people who give you their worst. That\u2019s why you are slowly learning how to put a stop to all of that.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who doesn\u2019t chase anybody. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Aqueles que querem ficar na sua vida far\u00e3o um esfor\u00e7o. V\u00e3o investir na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. V\u00e3o arranjar tempo. Enviar\u00e3o aquela mensagem de texto. V\u00e3o telefonar. Eles v\u00e3o fazer um esfor\u00e7o extra para estar na sua vida. N\u00e3o dar\u00e1 desculpas nem lhe servir\u00e1 de mentiras.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You are becoming a woman who uses, &nbsp;\u201cNO!\u201d as her most powerful tool.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de uma mulher com \u00f3culos de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t even count how many times you have done something that you didn\u2019t really want to do just to make somebody else happy. You can\u2019t even count how many times you have put somebody else&#8217;s needs in front of your own.<\/p>\n<p>They have never appreciated it\u2014moreover, they took it for granted. That\u2019s why \u201cNo\u201d became your favorite word. &nbsp;You won\u2019t let anybody push you around.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Est\u00e1 a tornar-se uma mulher que quer as mesmas coisas que ela est\u00e1 a dar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>No passado, eras sempre tu que amavas, davas e fazias mais pelas pessoas que ela amava. Agora, tudo isso ficou para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 a exigir igualdade e reciprocidade. Sabe que \u00e9 digno de amor, respeito, tempo, aten\u00e7\u00e3o, afeto e todas as outras coisas que est\u00e1 disposto a retribuir. Sabes que nunca ser\u00e1s feliz se estiveres em algo unilateral, por isso n\u00e3o te est\u00e1s a comprometer com isso.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Est\u00e1 a tornar-se uma mulher que se ama mais a cada dia que passa.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>O amor que tem por si pr\u00f3prio est\u00e1 a crescer mais e mais a cada dia. As pessoas t\u00f3xicas na sua vida encheram-na de d\u00favidas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95592\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma jovem afro-americana sorridente ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eles prejudicaram seriamente a sua autoimagem e a sua confian\u00e7a. Come\u00e7a a ver agora que eles s\u00f3 estavam a transferir as suas pr\u00f3prias inseguran\u00e7as para si e que isso nunca teve nada a ver consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Aprendeste da maneira mais dif\u00edcil que tens de te amar de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e de te tratar bem para que os outros possam aprender com o teu exemplo.<\/p>\n<p>Escolhe a mulher em que te est\u00e1s a tornar. Vai custar-lhe muito. Vai custar-lhe pessoas na sua vida. Mas a<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-que-sentiras-quando-conheceres-a-pessoa-certa\/\"> certas<\/a> ficar\u00e3o. Eles dar\u00e3o as boas-vindas a esta nova mulher em que te est\u00e1s a tornar. V\u00e3o ficar contentes por ter tirado todo esse peso dos seus ombros. Ter\u00e1 mais qualidade em todos os aspectos da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t give up on the woman you are becoming even though it will get tough at times.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>You will stray to your old ways but just make sure you find your way back. You are on your way to creating a life you will be proud of. You are in the process of reinventing yourself and making yourself happy. Don\u2019t let anything or anyone stop you from doing that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A mulher em que te est\u00e1s a tornar vai custar-te muito, mas escolhe-a na mesma\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are getting stronger by the day. You are more independent and self-sufficient than you have ever been. You know who you are and what you deserve and you won\u2019t take shit from anybody. Don\u2019t let that frighten you. Don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you are doing something wrong. Self-love is not selfish, it\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":95587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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