{"id":20811,"date":"2020-04-13T08:56:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T08:56:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20811"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:05:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:05:28","slug":"foi-por-isso-que-tive-de-enviar-aquela-mensagem-de-despedida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-por-isso-que-tive-de-enviar-aquela-mensagem-de-despedida\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que tive de enviar aquela mensagem de despedida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sempre me perguntei porque \u00e9 que algumas mulheres t\u00eam a necessidade de enviar aquelas mensagens longas aos homens. Parece-me in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n

Ou ser ignorado<\/a> ou receber uma resposta curta e ainda mais frustrante. Eu pr\u00f3prio me questionei antes de enviar uma.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what came over me. I just sat down and started writing:<\/p>\n

\u2018I am not a coward you know, I would tell you all of this in person but n\u00e3o me deixaste outra alternativa<\/a>. <\/i><\/p>\n

Foste-te embora sem uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o ou um adeus decente. Ser\u00e1 que eu merecia mesmo ser tratada assim? <\/i><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t believe that someone capable of having so much emotion could  be so heartless at the same time. <\/i><\/p>\n

Sabias que isto me ia quebrar. As despedidas s\u00e3o sempre dif\u00edceis, mas quando tudo \u00e9 deixado sem explica\u00e7\u00e3o, s\u00e3o ainda mais dif\u00edceis. <\/i><\/p>\n

Acho que nunca me apreciou o suficiente para me tratar bem, nem mesmo no fim. <\/i><\/p>\n

Sei que fui um tolo por me ter apaixonado por ti. Pensei que tinha visto algo em ti que mais ningu\u00e9m via. <\/i><\/p>\n

Heck, I still think there is some good deep down inside of you. Too bad it still hasn\u2019t come out. <\/i><\/p>\n

Fiz o meu melhor para compreender quando n\u00e3o conseguias compreender.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you wouldn\u2019t call or text for days, when you didn\u2019t find time for me, when you said something hurtful. <\/i><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even have to make up excuses, I would make them for you. I would always think about the best possible scenarios before thinking of the worst. <\/i><\/p>\n

I think I was even too good. That\u2019s why you took me for granted. You relied on me to be there for you, no matter what you did. <\/i><\/p>\n

Ouvir, compreender e apoiar. Esperar. E agora parece que tudo o que fiz contigo foi esperar pelo momento certo, que estivesses pronto, que me tratasses melhor em tudo. <\/i><\/p>\n

And the sad truth is that if you hadn\u2019t left me, I would still be waiting. <\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am writing this to thank you for leaving the way you did. If you hadn\u2019t, I would still be waiting in vain. <\/i><\/p>\n

Desta forma, deste-me a oportunidade de ver que posso ficar sozinha. Que at\u00e9 me sinto melhor e mais tranquilo agora que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1s na minha vida. <\/i><\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigado e adeus para sempre. <\/i>Escrevi isto tudo num s\u00f3 f\u00f4lego e senti que ia desmaiar depois de carregar no bot\u00e3o de enviar.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Pessoa<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fazia ideia de que iria enviar esta mensagem antes de a enviar. Nunca tinha pensado nisso antes.<\/p>\n

Foi apenas um momento no tempo em que se faz uma coisa tola e irracional.<\/p>\n

Mas senti-me t\u00e3o bem depois de a enviar.<\/b> Aliviou a minha alma despeda\u00e7ada depois de ter escrito tudo o que a sobrecarregava.<\/p>\n

Senti-me melhor por ter dito todas aquelas coisas que guardava dentro de mim. Senti que o peso do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o tinha sido retirado.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente me apercebi do que tinha feito, entrei um pouco em p\u00e2nico. Perguntei-me o que \u00e9 que ele iria pensar de mim. Pensaria que eu era fraca por ter enviado isto?<\/p>\n

Would he think I was trying to get him back? And it hit me, I really shouldn\u2019t care what he or anyone else thinks of me.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t do it as some lame attempt to lure him back. I didn\u2019t do it out of hatred or out of love.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t do it expecting a reply, which never came btw. I did this for me. Para me dar uma conclus\u00e3o<\/a>. To say that final goodbye he didn\u2019t have the courage to say.<\/b><\/p>\n

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I always wondered why some women have the necessity to send those long texts to men. It seems pointless. They would either get ignored or get a reply that was short and even more frustrating. I wondered before I sent one myself. I don\u2019t know what came over me. I just sat down and started…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":90609,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-I-Had-To-Send-That-Goodbye-Text.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20811\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90609"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}