{"id":20829,"date":"2020-05-16T08:04:32","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T08:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20829"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:37","slug":"15-razoes-brutalmente-honestas-pelas-quais-ela-esta-a-desistir-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-razoes-brutalmente-honestas-pelas-quais-ela-esta-a-desistir-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"15 raz\u00f5es brutalmente honestas pelas quais ela est\u00e1 a desistir de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ela tentou dizer-lhe. O seu corpo e a sua mente gritavam em agonia. Ela estava a sofrer e tu n\u00e3o viste. N\u00e3o quiseste ver.<\/p>\n<p>Ela tentava chamar a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o com as suas palavras e linguagem corporal, mas, de alguma forma, tu viravas-te sempre para o outro lado.<\/p>\n<p>Ela chorava e gritava a plenos pulm\u00f5es, mas ningu\u00e9m a ouvia.<\/p>\n<p>You were so occupied with yourself that you ignored her completely. And she wasn\u2019t even that demanding.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa que ela queria era que tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/se-a-amas-para-de-a-quebrar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">parar de partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela<\/a>. You didn\u2019t hear or see her, and yet you were surprised she decided to give up on you. Why did she do it?<\/p>\n<h3>1. Because she\u2019s done being treated like shit.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"rapaz e rapariga ressentidos que agem como um casal que discute e n\u00e3o falam um com o outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s done being underestimated and used. It\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Ela queria estar consigo.<\/h3>\n<p>She wanted to spend time with you, but you didn\u2019t feel the same as she did.<\/p>\n<p>You went on doing your own business. You kept on thinking only about yourself. And she couldn\u2019t take that anymore, so she left.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Porque ela deu-te um milh\u00e3o de oportunidades antes desta \u00faltima.<\/h3>\n<p>She warned you. She tried to talk to you and you always promised you wouldn\u2019t do anything like that again.<\/p>\n<p>Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que quebrou sempre a sua promessa e continuou a fazer o que queria.<\/p>\n<h3>4. She left because she fought for your attention and when you are in a relationship, you aren\u2019t supposed to do that.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste sentado num sof\u00e1 dentro de casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You aren\u2019t supposed to beg for your partner\u2019s love. That should come naturally and with ease, but in your relationship, it never did.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Ela desistiu de ti porque tudo era mais importante para ti do que ela.<\/h3>\n<p>Ela era a \u00faltima da tua lista. Nunca tiveste tempo para ela. Dava prioridade a todas as coisas erradas e nunca se arrependeu.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Ela foi-se embora porque j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estava segura consigo.<\/h3>\n<p>Actually, she didn\u2019t even have the feeling that you were there for her and she was right. You weren&#8217;t. She was all alone.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Because you took her for granted and you didn\u2019t have any respect for her whatsoever.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa coloca a cabe\u00e7a nas costas de um homem enquanto este se encontra no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You ignored her feelings and you didn\u2019t want to see how she was, on purpose. Maybe you were afraid to see the truth.<\/p>\n<h3>8. She gave up on you because she couldn&#8217;t trust you.<\/h3>\n<p>Disseste uma coisa e fizeste outra. As suas palavras foram vazias e as suas promessas foram feitas apenas para a calar e para a acalmar durante algum tempo.<\/p>\n<p>E isso aconteceu vezes sem conta. Bem, agora, ela est\u00e1 farta.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Ela foi-se embora porque estava sozinha na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n<p>Ela viveu num cen\u00e1rio que nunca pensou viver.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Porque se tornaram estranhos.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano das m\u00e3os de um homem e de uma mulher, um ao lado do outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t the person she met a long time ago. You weren\u2019t the man she fell in love with. She couldn\u2019t recognize you anymore.<\/p>\n<h3>11. She left because she couldn&#8217;t hide her tears anymore.<\/h3>\n<p>She couldn\u2019t stand that corner of her bed where she would crawl and hide from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n<p>Her life wasn\u2019t supposed to be marked by that lonely corner soaked with her tears. No!<\/p>\n<h3>12. She couldn\u2019t take it anymore because of your guilt-tripping.<\/h3>\n<p>She couldn\u2019t endure you blaming her for every single thing that happened, even when she was totally innocent and you knew it.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Ela foi-se embora porque j\u00e1 n\u00e3o era feliz.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85698\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Casal jovem com dificuldades de relacionamento no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O sorriso no seu rosto era falso. O seu entusiasmo e a sua vontade de viver foram desaparecendo lentamente.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Porque se fartou de lutar.<\/h3>\n<p>Porque n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Foi-se embora porque percebeu que o seu amor estava a conduzir numa rua de sentido \u00fanico.<\/h3>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que ela quer para si. N\u00e3o agora. Nem nunca.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"15 raz\u00f5es brutalmente honestas pelas quais ela est\u00e1 a desistir de ti\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She tried to tell you. Her body and her mind screamed in agony. She was in pain and you didn\u2019t see it. You didn\u2019t want to see it. She tried to get your attention with her words and body language, but somehow you always turned to the other side. She cried and she shouted from&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":85691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20829","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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