{"id":2086,"date":"2020-07-03T11:33:42","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T11:33:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2086"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:36:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:36:27","slug":"parar-de-esperar-indecisao-decisao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parar-de-esperar-indecisao-decisao\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00e1ra de esperar por ele - a sua indecis\u00e3o \u00e9 uma decis\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>E a hist\u00f3ria \u00e9 assim...<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 voc\u00ea que quer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, mas ele \u00e9 muito desconfiado em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca se sabe o que ele realmente quer dizer e a sua linguagem corporal \u00e9 t\u00e3o confusa.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o tem a certeza do que os dois podem construir juntos e, enquanto est\u00e1 a preocupar-se com a sua linda e pequena cabe\u00e7a sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele est\u00e1 totalmente descontra\u00eddo.<\/p>\n<p>You are ready, but he isn&#8217;t bothered to take a step forward. You want more and he&#8217;s stuck&#8230; unsure&#8230; indecisive&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Cut the crap\u2014his indecision is a decision.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele quisesse estar contigo, estaria contigo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem preocupada a olhar para longe\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know we&#8217;d all love to receive the love we&#8217;re giving, but if he is making a fool of you, it is time to say goodbye.<\/p>\n<p>You need to check whether there are any red flags telling you that he is just having fun. I know you can\u2019t think wisely when being in love but give it a shot.<\/p>\n<p>Isso ter\u00e1 um enorme impacto na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Verifique as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Ele resolve os problemas assim que eles aparecem? Ou est\u00e1 a deixar essa tarefa enorme para si?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him lead you on. Be smart and use your common sense.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve that kind of treatment. You don&#8217;t need a man who&#8217;s unsure of you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta a beber caf\u00e9 junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/outersparkle.com\/2013\/09\/25\/i-am-awesome-who-you-are-a-message-to-all-women\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Tu \u00e9s \u00fanico e digno<\/a> and don\u2019t let anyone convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Os homens v\u00e3o e v\u00eam. Mas tu \u00e9 que tens de te respeitar a ti pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>Because, darling, if you don\u2019t do that, nobody else will. So, stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Burn the bridges between you and him. Stop caring about people who don&#8217;t care about you. And stop waiting for those who&#8217;ll probably never be ready for you.<\/p>\n<p>Ele vai sentir-se arrependido de tudo. Ele vai sentir-se mal porque estava a tomar-te como garantida. Confia em mim, eventualmente, o karma vai bater \u00e0 porta dele.<\/p>\n<p>He will feel bad because he didn\u2019t show up for your meeting. He will be sorry for letting you down. He will regret not choosing you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"jovem triste a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Porque lhe deste tantas oportunidades e agora est\u00e1s exausta.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t that old sparkle between the two of you anymore. Your day is all about fighting and competing.<\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;re the only one now holding the last string together.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not what a real relationship should look like. God, you deserve so much more.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure you figured this out and that you will give yourself another chance&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>With someone who is worthy and doesn\u2019t take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado no baloi\u00e7o da praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Com um homem amoroso e carinhoso.<\/p>\n<p>With someone who will love you just the way you are, someone who&#8217;ll make choosing you look as easy as breathing.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t need to be perfect but he has to be perfect for YOU.<\/p>\n<p>Because that\u2019s what counts most in the end.<\/p>\n<p>And Mr. Wrong? Buy him a one-way ticket to \u2018gone\u2019 and say goodbye forever!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"P\u00e1ra de esperar por ele - a sua indecis\u00e3o \u00e9 uma decis\u00e3o\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And the story goes like this\u2026 You are the one that wants a serious relationship but he is very suspicious about that. You never know what he really means and his body language is so confusing. You are not sure what the two of you can build together and while you are bothering your pretty,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":103975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2086","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2086"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2086\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2086"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2086"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2086"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}