{"id":20867,"date":"2020-07-17T07:49:29","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T07:49:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20867"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:00:23","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:00:23","slug":"sou-forte-mas-estou-cansado-ate-aos-ossos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-forte-mas-estou-cansado-ate-aos-ossos\/","title":{"rendered":"Sou forte mas estou cansado at\u00e9 aos ossos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estou a perder lentamente o ch\u00e3o debaixo dos meus p\u00e9s. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o tenho for\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s impossible to even describe the state I’m in. It\u2019s impossible to get all of these feelings out in the open.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so tired and my soul is a desmoronar-se<\/a>. I can\u2019t take any of this shit happening every day.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m really sick of putting a fake smile on my face. I\u2019m sick of pretending to be fine<\/a>. I\u2019m tired of keeping myself strong.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t I have the right to fall apart? Don\u2019t I have the right to lose myself for a moment, to take a break? <\/em>Sim, I\u2019m strong<\/a>. Sim, posso aguentar muito, mas isso deixa um impacto.<\/p>\n

That constant putting up with and facing problems left a huge mark on me and I\u2019m not sure how much longer I can take it.<\/p>\n

Strong alpha women can take everything. Isn\u2019t that right?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sim, claro que sim, mas algu\u00e9m p\u00e1ra para pensar o que se passa na sua cabe\u00e7a, como se sente, se ainda tem for\u00e7as?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick and cansado<\/a> de atua\u00e7\u00e3o. Sou forte, mas o meu corpo est\u00e1 cansado e a minha mente tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

And if you scratch just a little bit underneath my surface and if you just take a second to look me deep in the eyes, you\u2019ll see that. You\u2019ll see that I\u2019m falling apart.<\/p>\n

Nunca escolhi ser forte, mas a vida obrigou-me a s\u00ea-lo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tive de cerrar os punhos e enfrentar os meus problemas. Em vez de fugir e de me esconder dos meus pesadelos, tive de os enfrentar.<\/p>\n

I was so scared, that for a moment I couldn\u2019t move, I couldn\u2019t break free but I was forced to.<\/p>\n

Ou lutava pela sobreviv\u00eancia ou recebia um golpe na derrota. Tinha de escolher. E onde \u00e9 que isso me levou?<\/em><\/p>\n

The only thing I feel now is worn out and tired. I\u2019m not ready for another battle and believe me, this is not the end.<\/p>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos mais por vir. Como \u00e9 que vou encontrar for\u00e7as para continuar a ganhar?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que vou arranjar coragem para fingir mais um sorriso quando tudo o que me apetece \u00e9 rastejar para a cama e chorar?<\/p>\n

Os outros sempre me viram como destemido e completo. Outros sempre tiveram a certeza de que eu resolveria todos os problemas que aparecessem no meu caminho.<\/p>\n

Confiavam mais em mim do que em mim pr\u00f3prio. Sabiam que eu tinha for\u00e7a, mas ningu\u00e9m via a batalha que se travava dentro de mim.<\/p>\n

Nunca ningu\u00e9m soube que a minha alma estava cansada e que me estava a desmoronar. Nunca deixei ningu\u00e9m ver isso.<\/p>\n

The truth is that I\u2019ve lived my whole life independently. I took care of myself and I never asked for anyone\u2019s help<\/a>. I thought I didn\u2019t need it.<\/p>\n

But the thing is that I did need it. I couldn\u2019t do everything by myself and I still can\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019ve realized that no matter how strong I want to be and am, I will reach my ponto de rutura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I will reach that moment when I\u2019ll say I can\u2019t do this by myself anymore.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, n\u00e3o \u00e9 suposto nenhum de n\u00f3s estar completamente sozinho. Todos n\u00f3s precisamos de apoio. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe not all the time but definitely in moments of weakness, in the moments when we don\u2019t see a way out. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s precisamos de ouvir palavras simp\u00e1ticas e de receber uma palmadinha nas costas de vez em quando, por mais fortes que sejamos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Nunca quis pedir ajuda a ningu\u00e9m. Pensava que era um sinal de fraqueza.<\/p>\n

Mas agora que cheguei \u00e0 beira da rutura, compreendo que nunca \u00e9 vergonhoso pedir ajuda quando se precisa dela.<\/p>\n

Moreover, your greatness and your strength really show when you know you can\u2019t go on by yourself and when you\u2019re willing to take the help that is offered. Then you can be a true winner.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Agora, depois de tudo o que aconteceu, quero mesmo que algu\u00e9m me abrace.<\/p>\n

Por mais forte que eu queira ser, no final do dia, quero algu\u00e9m que me pegue nos bra\u00e7os e me abrace.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need financial help, I\u2019m independent. I don\u2019t need anyone\u2019s physical help because I always find a solution to do something I want to do on my own.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, I need emotional support. I need someone to spoil me and tell me everything will be all right when I doubt and when I can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 vergonha nenhuma nisso. Todos n\u00f3s precisamos de algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para n\u00f3s quando precisamos.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t walk through this life all by ourself and if we have to, if we choose to do so, then it\u2019s not a life that is worth living.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay not to be strong all the time. It\u2019s okay to be strong for others but you have to give yourself a break.<\/p>\n

\"Sou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m slowly losing the ground underneath my feet. I don\u2019t have the strength anymore. It\u2019s impossible to even describe the state I’m in. It\u2019s impossible to get all of these feelings out in the open. I\u2019m so tired and my soul is falling apart. I can\u2019t take any of this shit happening every day. I\u2019m…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":113878,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20867","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Im-Strong-But-Im-Tired-To-The-Bone-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20867","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20867"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20867\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113878"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20867"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20867"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20867"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}