{"id":20876,"date":"2020-05-17T09:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T09:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20876"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:49:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:49:02","slug":"lidar-com-um-bom-rapaz-do-sexo-feminino","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/lidar-com-um-bom-rapaz-do-sexo-feminino\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Sinais de aviso de que est\u00e1s a lidar com um \"bom\" rapaz para foder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hoje em dia, distinguir os bons dos maus tornou-se uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t tell them apart anymore. At least before, you knew that when a guy was a jerk, he acted like one so you knew he was one.<\/p>\n<p>Era t\u00e3o simples quanto isso. Se sentisses que podias andar no lado selvagem durante algum tempo, mordias o isco de prop\u00f3sito, s\u00f3 para ver como era.<\/p>\n<p>E depois de teres o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, n\u00e3o ficaste assim t\u00e3o triste porque, basicamente, sabias que isso ia acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Foi apenas mais uma experi\u00eancia e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-licoes-que-aprendi-depois-de-namorar-com-um-rapaz-que-se-fode\/\">outra li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> que tiveste de aprender.<\/p>\n<p>But today, you can\u2019t afford that \u2018luxury\u2019. You can\u2019t willingly choose to date <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-e-que-o-seu-coracao-partido-transformou-o-no-rapaz-de-merda-que-e-agora\/\">um rapaz de merda<\/a> just to see what it\u2019s like.<\/p>\n<p>Hoje, os \"fuckboys\" est\u00e3o disfar\u00e7ados de rapazes simp\u00e1ticos. Hoje, mulheres inocentes s\u00e3o enganadas por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-de-que-o-gajo-simpatico-e-na-verdade-um-idiota-manipulador-disfarcado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">idiotas manipuladores<\/a> because they pretend to be something they aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Just read on and be careful because at least once in your life, you\u2019ll meet a \u2018nice\u2019 fuckboy:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Ele finge ser um bom rapaz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87884\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-in-black-tshirt-smiles-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Homem de t-shirt preta sorri para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-in-black-tshirt-smiles-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-in-black-tshirt-smiles-outside-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-in-black-tshirt-smiles-outside-768x525.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\n\u00c9 claro que esta \u00e9 a primeira pista, mas provavelmente a \u00faltima que vai descobrir.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, they are so good at acting that you simply can\u2019t figure out what they are really like.<\/p>\n<p>They will do things your way and try to fulfill your every wish. They will be kind and considerate but on the other hand, they will play completely the opposite game when you\u2019re not looking.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ele \u00e9 demasiado bom amigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87885\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/male-friends-talking-in-pub.jpg\" alt=\"amigos homens a conversar num bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/male-friends-talking-in-pub.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/male-friends-talking-in-pub-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/male-friends-talking-in-pub-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os seus amigos adoram-no. Aos olhos deles, ele \u00e9 o verdadeiro her\u00f3i. Porqu\u00ea? Bem, n\u00e3o porque seja um amigo altru\u00edsta e carinhoso, n\u00e3o porque esteja sempre presente quando precisam dele, mas porque eles s\u00e3o iguais a ele.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 o seu modelo porque namorou com tantas mulheres diferentes, ou porque conseguiu seduzir uma que nenhuma delas conseguiu. Mas, essencialmente, eles s\u00e3o o mesmo tipo de escumalha que ele \u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ele \u00e9 completamente diferente quando est\u00e1 perto de si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87886\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-kissing-woman-on-her-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher na bochecha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-kissing-woman-on-her-cheek.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-kissing-woman-on-her-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-kissing-woman-on-her-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you are together, he is so considerate, caring. He is just too perfect. Well, that\u2019s a load of BS!<\/p>\n<p>No momento em que lhe viras as costas, no momento em que deixas de olhar na sua dire\u00e7\u00e3o, ele transforma-se numa coisa completamente diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Normalmente, as mulheres sentem-se confort\u00e1veis ao mentir a si pr\u00f3prias que ele \u00e9 realmente o homem que finge ser quando est\u00e1 consigo e n\u00e3o o homem que \u00e9 quando est\u00e1 com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, we don\u2019t want to admit that we are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-reparares-nestes-8-sinais-de-que-estas-a-namorar-com-um-verdadeiro-psicopata\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">namorar um psicopata de verdade<\/a>. Isto \u00e9-lhes favor\u00e1vel porque podem prosseguir com o seu plano.<\/p>\n<h2>4. He won\u2019t make you angry<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87887\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-touching-womans-hair-by-the-water.jpg\" alt=\"homem a tocar no cabelo de uma mulher junto \u00e0 \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-touching-womans-hair-by-the-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-touching-womans-hair-by-the-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/man-touching-womans-hair-by-the-water-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t irritate you or do anything directly to you to make you angry. You\u2019ll be happy with him but only for a certain amount of time.<\/p>\n<p>That period in the beginning when the promises are huge and while you\u2019re waiting for them to come true, your life will be more than perfect.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando, lentamente, come\u00e7as a perceber que nenhuma das coisas que ele te disse se vai tornar realidade, a tua bolha rebenta de repente e apercebes-te que ele \u00e9 apenas mais um rapazinho de merda.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ele nunca te rejeitar\u00e1 formalmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87888\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall.jpg\" alt=\"Homem olha para mulher perto de muro cinzento\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will stack things in his favor. Although he has never told you that he doesn\u2019t want anything serious but somehow his actions show you that and when he later on actually tells you that he never wanted anything serious, you can\u2019t be angry because you were expecting that and he just walks away with no guilt whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Maybe he won\u2019t hurt you on purpose<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87889\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga sozinha em casa, sentada na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Talvez ele tenha tido um passado de merda, talvez tenha problemas de compromisso, talvez tenha sido brutalmente magoado.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe all of these things are true but that doesn\u2019t give him an excuse for hurting you.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he isn\u2019t doing it on purpose but that doesn\u2019t change the fact you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t know how to deal with his ghosts from the past, he shouldn\u2019t be with anyone in the first place because that is just acting selfishly.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Ele tem alcunhas giras para ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87890\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-man-and-woman-enjoying-at-beach-bar.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sorridentes a divertir-se num bar de praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-man-and-woman-enjoying-at-beach-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-man-and-woman-enjoying-at-beach-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-man-and-woman-enjoying-at-beach-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t this cute? He must be the right one. Well, he\u2019s not because these nicknames are generic, they are not special.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t call you that because you mean something more to him.<\/p>\n<p>He calls you that because he knows you want to hear it. It\u2019s a perfect solution for him.<\/p>\n<p>He calls you cute nicknames, you melt and he gets what he wants\u2014you thinking he loves you more than the world itself, when actually you\u2019re just a passing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-ele-fizer-estas-6-coisas-nao-passa-de-um-engate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87882\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-Warning-Signs-Youre-Dealing-With-A-Nice-Fuckboy-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 Sinais de aviso de que est\u00e1s a lidar com um &quot;bom&quot; rapaz para foder\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recognizing the good guys from the bad guys has become mission impossible nowadays. You can\u2019t tell them apart anymore. At least before, you knew that when a guy was a jerk, he acted like one so you knew he was one. It was really as simple as that. If you felt like you could walk&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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